Hong Tao's daughter was scolded at school and went home to cry. How should parents comfort her?

Hong Tao is a clever woman. She is very wise in dealing with feelings and educating children. Hong Tao's daughter is named Xu Xiaobao. One day, Xu Xiaobao came back and cried, saying that she was scolded for being ugly at school. Her mother asked her, do you think she is ugly? Xu Xiaobao said, not ugly, he is very beautiful. 1The actress Hong Tao, born in 969, said: You are not ugly, but you are not beautiful either. You are unique, with an appearance that can't be copied in this world. Xu Xiaobao was very happy after hearing this. Hong Tao was really smart and would comfort children.

Ask the children how they feel first. After hearing their grievances, we all feel sad, especially when we are studying. This sense of discrimination is very strong. I remember a child laughing at me when I was a child, and my daughter was laughed at when she was a child. Everyone can be laughed at, so we must face it calmly. Tell children that no one is perfect. Ask the child how he feels first. Do you feel ugly? Listen to the children finish their grievances, be a listener in this process, and the children will tell all their psychological feelings, which shows that they trust us very much.

Comfort your child moderately. You can't tell some lies to comfort your child. Although you want to comfort children, every child is the most beautiful in the eyes of parents, because children are the crystallization of parents' love, but you have to tell the truth. Hong Tao did the right thing. First, encourage the children that you are not ugly, and then tell them frankly that she is not beautiful. The last sentence is the highlight. She told them that you are unique in the world. It is this sentence that has been rated as a golden sentence by netizens, the smartest mother. What would you say if your child was called ugly by classmates? I may tell my children that they are ugly because they are ugly in heart and you are unique in the world. You are the favorite baby in the eyes of parents. Although we want to comfort our children, we should also say some honest words, not lies, so that children can feel the sincerity from their parents, so as to be comforted.

Every sincere word from parents is the best love and comfort for children. Even if the whole world abandons you, we still love you.