"Don't wean your child, there is no money to buy milk powder at home." Can a husband who has no money to buy milk powder still want it?

Children are the continuation of life and the crystallization of love. For both husband and wife, having children can often strengthen feelings. However, under the background of such great pressure in modern society, sometimes having children and raising children will bring great pressure to young couples, and even cause many unexpected contradictions between two people.

When joking, many people often say "making money for children's milk powder". This sentence seems to be just a joke for people who have no fertility experience, but couples who have really given birth to children will know that the child's milk powder money is indeed a big expense. Especially now most children are very delicate, and the price of imported milk powder really makes people frown.

Recently, my best friend Xiaoxue had a quarrel with her husband because of breastfeeding. In fact, breastfeeding is just a fuse. The deeper reason is that the husband has no long-term planning and has all kinds of excessive demands on life. Xiaoxue said that when they had no children, both of them were moonlight clan. Although the salary is not high, neither of them has any extra burden, and they live a very chic life of eating, drinking and having fun every month.

But everything changed after the baby was born. Two people's meager wages can't afford the children's daily food and clothing. Because in order to save money and make children healthier, Xiaoxue insists on breastfeeding. However, Xiaoxue's maternity leave is coming to an end, and it is still a little tight for two people to bear the high cost of childcare.

What's more, Xiaoxue's mother-in-law is bent on having a big grandson. Although she also came to help when she was confinement with her children, she began to urge Xiaoxue to have a second child as long as she had time. Xiaoxue believes that it is also a good choice to have a second child as a child's partner if economic conditions permit, but now that two people are struggling to have a child, there is no need to do so, destroying the child and ruining themselves.

Unexpectedly, my husband is obedient to her mother-in-law. I don't know what my mother-in-law said to her husband. As soon as her husband had time, he told Xiaoxue that she needed a son. After all, prostitutes are prostitutes. Xiaoxue said nothing. Xiaoxue's maternity leave will soon be over, but her husband hopes Xiaoxue can insist on breastfeeding and cooperate with a little milk powder, so don't be so eager to wean.

"Don't wean your child, there is no money to buy milk powder at home." After Xiaoxue proposed to go to work and prepare to wean the child early, Xiaoxue's husband said, "You can breastfeed before going to work in the morning and after coming back at night, and you can also save some milk with a breast pump in the middle." Xiaoxue was angry to see her husband trying to save money from his daughter but making no progress.

"That you still let me have a second child! Your mother is from the older generation, and I can understand her. She thinks having a baby means eating more, but can't you handle it yourself? Since we have milk powder and various early education, our children have to bear all kinds of grievances, and all kinds of resources will not be enjoyed in the future. What's the use of raising two children? Wait until conditions permit before raising children! In the future, you and I can't work part-time any more. Do you have to save at least one person's salary every month, or do you plan to let your daughter drink the northwest wind when she grows up? " Light snow breathed out all the anger in her heart these days.

Since then, my husband has never echoed her mother-in-law's remarks about having a second child, and the husband and wife are more concerned about their work. If one day they really have the conditions to bear a second child, the husband and wife will consider a second child.

Emotional message: since the opening of the second child policy, many young people have moved the idea of having two treasures. But more important than having more children is eugenics. Under limited conditions, raising a good child is much more important than having another child.