My wife says I have a bad temper.

Some things are really funny. I don't know when I saw your wife's question (I didn't answer it). I didn't mean to see your question today.

In fact, I think the most important word for you now is "communication", which I believe you should know very well. Well, communication is not the time to quarrel. Find the right time to communicate. Personally, I prefer weekends, when both of you don't go to work and sleep in together in the morning, and both of you are in a particularly good mood.

For you, what I want to say is, don't break things when you are in a bad mood. First, if you break something, you have to pay for it yourself and waste Qian Qian; Second, you broke your body. She doesn't care about you. Then you not only hurt your body, but also accidentally hurt your heart. Third, when you are both angry, when you break something, you are challenging the limit that she can tolerate you.

You said it was her fault that you quarreled. Who made the mistake first? Does anyone else know besides you two? Since no one knows, what can you do if you let her go? You know you are all strong and will not give up. It is better to listen to one of them. I've met many families. I usually listen to men. Since you can do so much for her, there is nothing to bear. Of course, I'm not asking you to endure it all the time, but to choose the right time when she is in a good mood.

I don't advocate that you hardly talk to girls for her. It's a good thing that you take care of her feelings, but you have to know that you have to live and work, and you have to know that your integrity is not afraid of the shadow. Third, chatting with girls is ok, but you can't talk about overly sensitive topics. In this way, if she wants to check the chat record or something else, you don't have to be afraid! What I mean by this is that you shouldn't deliberately not talk to other girls. Everything is naturally the best! ! !

The game should still be controlled, and people should have self-control. You can't miss the normal work and rest time by helping him upgrade. At least you have to work and support your family. The burden on you is not as simple as staying up late to help her upgrade. If she really cares about you and really hurts you, then I don't think she will let you stay up late to upgrade her.

As for compromise and intransigence, I don't think there should be such words between husband and wife. As the saying goes, it is normal for couples to quarrel at the end of the bed, but if anyone talks to each other first, it is called compromise, then I think you are even worse than a three-year-old child and feel ridiculous.

When quarreling, put yourself in the other's shoes, and learn to put yourself in the other's shoes. If we look at the problem from another angle, it may not be so difficult to solve it.

In fact, as you can see from your questions, you both love each other deeply, want to live a good life, and don't want this quarrel to continue. However, everyone has different views on the same thing, and the key is to communicate and coordinate by themselves.

If your wife can read this passage, then I hope she can think from your point of view. As long as there is work pressure, people will inevitably bring some pressure to family life. As a wife, you should be more comforting, more gentle and more concerned. When he is physically injured in an argument, you should still care about it. This kind of care is uncompromising. The two can't be mixed together! ! Maybe he just wanted the quarrel between you to end the moment he smashed something.

In short, I hope you can communicate more and put yourself in each other's shoes when both sides are in a good mood. When one person is very excited, another person can wait patiently. "Care" is the lubricant of feelings. I hope you can care about each other, so that your feelings will be more lubricated and you will fight less. Finally, I wish you happiness.