It is difficult to turn over. When people are down, what should they not tell outsiders?

It is inevitable that there will be troughs in life. Only when you face them calmly can you finally see sunny days. However, many people are very fragile and cannot accept the reality when they are down. They like to complain to everyone and complain endlessly. It is often difficult for such people to turn around.

When we are down in life, we should not give up on ourselves or shed tears. Instead, we should adjust our mentality and understand the truth of "a bright future in another village". Because complaining is not only a waste of time, it also makes you involuntarily give up your struggle against reality and just go with the flow.

If we encounter dissatisfaction, we become discouraged, dejected, and helpless. Then no one can save you, no one can change you, and in the end, no one will really look down on you.

Complaining to everyone is a cowardly and incompetent behavior. Not only will it not solve anything, it will also make others look down on you and even want to stay away from you. Therefore, when people are down and out, they should not tell outsiders about these three kinds of pain, otherwise it will be difficult to turn around.

The pain of having no one to help.

No one can always have smooth sailing for decades in life. Therefore, hitting a trough is definitely not your fault alone.

Life is a journey. You may meet many people along the way, but most of the time you walk alone. When there is no one to help you, don't tell outsiders about the pain of having no one to help you. When you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you; when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives. ?No one can really help you when you are down! Only when you stand up can you run again. It is better to rely on yourself than anyone else. You have to be your own ferryman. Only by relying on yourself can you never lose.

When you are down in life, all you need to do is continue to work hard and wait. Even if no one is willing to help you, you can't break the pot, but rely on your own efforts to stand up again and achieve a comeback.

The pain of being looked down upon.

People are more psychologically fragile when they are at a low point. Once they are looked down upon by others, they will easily lose the confidence to turn around.

Only those who are capable and strong are not afraid of being looked down upon by others; those who are brave enough and strong enough are not afraid of the low points in life, and they will not tell others about the pain of being looked down upon.

People who are poor should not have short ambitions. When people are down in life, if they are looked down upon by others, there is really no need to feel sad, because people's hearts are inherently cold, so it is better to work hard silently and become so powerful that one day they cannot climb up.

Difficulties and hardships.

On this road of life, there are not only bright sunshine and brilliant scenery, but also setbacks and difficulties that may appear from time to time. But life cannot always be covered with dark clouds. There will always be a time when the clouds are cleared and the sky is clear.

As long as you dare to face setbacks, refuse to admit defeat, are not afraid of hardship, and persevere, you will often find a smooth road after difficulties. Therefore, when we are in a downturn in life, we should face the difficulties calmly and regard the end of the road as a rare experience.

Don’t complain to others and ask for sympathy and mercy from others, but work hard silently and accumulate experience. With this kind of mentality, why worry about not being able to make a comeback?

Life cannot be smooth sailing. If we view the low points in life too pessimistically and complain to everyone we meet, you will never stand up again. In short, when people are in despair, these three kinds of pain should not be told to outsiders, otherwise it will be difficult to turn around.

Only through hardship can one become a master. Complaining is indignation at one's own incompetence. We should be more clear: Complaining has no effect, and we have to rely on ourselves for everything. ?We must learn to suffer without speaking, and with pain without speaking.

Attitude determines life. In real life, we cannot control some objective realities, but we can control our own mentality. What we need is action rather than complaints and complaints. Only action can solve problems. Complaints can only be regarded as indignation at one's own incompetence. In the face of setbacks, if you just complain and complain, you will always be a weak person. Complaining is really a kind of negative energy. Let us stop complaining and stay away from people who complain endlessly. Let the positive energy accompany us further.