What should I do if I don’t have a car, a house, or a girlfriend?

If you don’t have a car, a house, or a girlfriend, you can only work harder to have a car, a house, and find a girlfriend.

If you don’t have a car or a house, or can’t find a girlfriend, you ask me what to do. In fact, there is only one way, make money. As long as you earn enough money to buy a car, a house, and a girlfriend, the problem will be solved. Making money is easier said than done. How to make money?

Some people make money by physical strength, some people make money by intelligence, and some people make money by taking capital exams. Earning money by relying on physical strength can only make a small amount of money, and the best is just to have enough food and clothing, and be in a state of starvation. Making money by relying on intelligence is another world. For example, white-collar workers can become wealthy. Using capital to make money, being a capitalist is the way to make big money, but there are also risks and benefits, and if you don't do it well, you will lose everything.

I take myself as an example. I am 31 years old and unmarried. I have worked for six or seven years without taking a break. I have a deposit of 200,000, no house, no car, and no girlfriend. I was born in a rural area and graduated in 2011. It has been almost 8 years now. I am very busy every day and dare not take a break. I only have a deposit of 200,000. 3,000 yuan a month. If you want to save money, you can’t talk to a girlfriend. I'm pretty good, I saved 200,000 when I was 30 years old. My friend Xiao Li has been with me for many years. I was frugal and saved money, but he was frugal and had a girlfriend, but he didn’t save a cent. After we broke up, we found each other again, and we broke up again. He just disliked Xiao Li and didn’t have a house. It’s not good to have a car or a family.

I don’t know how many people are like me who are afraid of falling in love just because they have no money. I can't aspire to life in the city. The house price is 16,000 yuan, and the monthly salary for the first three years of working was 3,000 yuan. I can't save much money except for food and rent. Later, my salary increased from 5,000 yuan to 8,000 yuan when I changed jobs. In order to save the 200,000 yuan, only I know how much I save. Because I am from a rural area, I know that my parents can't help me much, so I have to save money.

To be honest, I was extremely stressed. I didn’t have a house, a car, or a girlfriend, so I didn’t dare to get married. I am not afraid of making people laugh. In these years, I have not dared to fall in love, either for some reason or because I have no money. Rural children are working hard in the city, and there are really many young people like me. Despite the difficulties, many people are still working hard, like the two friends below, Xiao Huang and Xiao Duan.

Xiao Huang said: I am also a single in the countryside. I don’t have a girlfriend with a deposit of 300,000. I have a domestic car I bought 2 years ago. I am struggling in Hangzhou and I will try to find an opportunity in the second half of the year. I am in Hangzhou. To buy a house in a small place, just save money. The elderly at home have nothing for me to chew on. The person you like on a blind date doesn’t like me, and the person you like me doesn’t like me. I won’t say it anymore. In the past two years, the health of the two old people has obviously begun to decline. All kinds of problems have appeared after a lifetime of hard work. I have said it too much. Tears, I can only work harder!

Xiao Duan said: I am also thirty, I have no savings, we have been dating for three years, I just got married this year, I have no car, and no children. At the beginning of 2017, I bought a small house with about 70 RMB with my partner. 10,000, a loan of 520,000, a monthly loan of 2,700. They just completed the renovation and spent 130,000. Now the couple is penniless. They feel so stressed that they don’t dare to have children or change jobs. How can they survive this period? Say it again! I feel like a failure in life. I am currently preparing for the first-level construction engineer exam. I hope I can pass it in one go and give myself some hope!

If you are poor, ugly, short, dull, opinionated and unwilling to make progress, then it is possible for a girl to find any reason to reject you. The key is not what kind of shortcomings we have, but whether we can face our shortcomings and work hard to become better. A positive outlook on life is the greatest charm of a man.