The relationship between parents is not equal, what impact will this have on the growth of children?

The relationship between parents is not equal, what impact will this have on the growth of children? Let's discuss this problem below, hoping that these contents can help friends in need.

1) The child has shortcomings in personality and is full of negativity towards the life path.

A child who changes under the conditions full of differences and grievances is usually insecure, sensitive and cowardly, and is easily angered and even violent, becoming a pessimistic person.

When unexpected things happen, the first thing that appears is a lot of negative emotions. Can not see the positive side of society, easy to contact with external things, lack of interest.

Children will broaden their parents' behavior and communication methods to the interaction with others, and will also use aggressive behaviors such as pushing and shoving to solve difficulties when encountering things, thus causing their partners' resistance and boredom.

This kind of personality will endanger their study, work and communication ability in real life, and hinder the long-term and excellent development trend of children in various fields.

2) Make children feel insecure and ashamed.

Yelling and violent tendencies among parents are something that every child is worried about. If parents often adopt these unfriendly ways, it will make children think about their parents' love, and parents will leave anytime and anywhere without their own self-suggestion.

Moreover, because children are young and don't understand the real reason for their parents' quarrel, it is very likely that they will attribute the incorrect source to themselves, which will lead to obvious sadness and powerlessness.

Parents drag their children into the adult world prematurely and bear the psychological burden that they should not be responsible for, which will lead to poor damage to their young hearts.

3) Children's married life and finding a partner cause harm.

Seeing parents quarreling at an early age will cause children to have no sense of belonging and trust in their lovers, endanger children's views on marriage and the criteria for finding a partner, and produce fear of marriage life, so it is difficult to create a stable marriage relationship and a perfect husband-wife relationship.

Authoritative experts show that the emotional damage caused by parents' quarrels can be passed on to their adults. Seeing that the most dependent and intimate people hurt each other is completely beyond the children's understanding and tolerance, and the happiness of their family atmosphere will disappear.