If a man’s shortcomings were discovered before remarriage, what shortcomings would a middle-aged woman never marry?

I have always suggested that middle-aged women must understand and observe more before remarrying. Because I think the remarriage of middle-aged people is very practical. To put it bluntly, they go for each other to have a companion, and they don't have the passion of young people's love. Only by understanding the other person's temperament, understanding of the other person's family atmosphere, and understanding of the other person's outlook and habits can you make a judgment on whether this person can be married and whether they can stay together for life.

For this reason, I think dusk love must be talked about for more than a year. Only with time can we see the true face of a man. A man's character and temper are only slowly exposed in the process of getting along. You will have a good judgment on whether you can accept his temper and whether you can adapt to it.

If the contact time is too short, it is easy for a man to pretend to be the best about himself. Unfortunately, if the disguise is good, it will 100% disappear without a trace after marriage.

After marriage, people will reveal their true selves, especially middle-aged people. Everyone has formed their own unique world view and values, and will not easily change themselves for their partner. Therefore, Choosing the person who suits you is the purpose of your marriage.

The choice is difficult, so be cautious and don’t marry yourself again just to find a partner, to relieve loneliness, or even to make a living. If you marry yourself like this, your life will not be much better in the future.

Women who want to remarry, whether they are widowed or divorced, have experienced countless tortures and pains. If you meet the wrong person during remarriage, it will be even more torture.

I suggest that middle-aged women should be cautious about marriage and be more cautious about marriage. It is better to be short-term than excessive. Never let yourself fall into the abyss of misfortune with the attitude of giving it a try.

But if you find that it is not suitable after remarriage, you should make a decision immediately, stop the loss in time, and do not dwell on it. There are not many days left in the second half of life, so why should we live in pain? The loneliness of freedom is better than the depression of having a partner. So, what kind of man cannot remarry? I have summarized three types for you, and I hope women who want to remarry can learn from them.

Money is more important than life

The biggest obstacle and problem in remarried life is financial problems. Money is the foundation and the most important condition for living a good life. As long as they remarry, both parties will be very concerned about money. Especially for men, the purpose of remarriage is largely to find a woman who can take care of themselves, and many men also want to find a free nanny.

So, before some men remarry, they give their bankbooks and salary cards to their children for safekeeping in advance, and receive a portion of their living expenses from their children every month, or transfer the house to their children’s names in advance. Live by yourself. The purpose is very clear, that is, they are afraid of financial disputes after remarriage, and they are also afraid that women will take advantage of them financially after remarriage.

Many men use their financial conditions to seduce women. Once they enter into marriage, women find out that the man’s money and assets are not in the man’s name at all, and they will feel like they have been deceived, and they will have knots in their hearts. , the marriage will not survive.

This kind of man must not be married. Why should a woman be a free nanny for you? Marriage is equal. If you want a happy married life, both parties must make sacrifices, including physical strength, finances, housework, etc. Before remarrying, both parties must put the villain first and then the gentleman. As I said before, after doing this, as long as both parties can still accept it, then the married life can go on.

Bad temper Everyone has their own personality, which is their temper. We often say that this person has a good temper and that person has a bad temper. Especially in marriage, the quality of your temper is very important. People who lose their temper are narrow-minded and cannot tolerate others.

Everyone has a temper, and it is understandable to lose a little temper. However, you must know that there is a limit to losing your temper. If a man has a big temper and always picks on you, then he just doesn’t like you very much. If you marry him, you will live in depression for the rest of your life.

With a good-tempered man, you will also become very gentle. A truly good-tempered man has a sound outlook on life. He will express the problems in life in the right way at the right time and in the right environment, and will have a satisfactory result.

Having a good temper is a particularly important quality for a man. It shows that the man is emotionally stable and not a moody person.

If you meet an emotionally stable man in your marriage, you will be many times happier than if you meet a moody man. Therefore, a man who is emotionally stable will not have a bad temper.

A man with a good temper will not anger others at will, lose his temper at will, and will not use violence to vent his dissatisfaction. In marriage, conflicts and different opinions are common. Some men use silence to fight dissatisfaction. This is a kind of cold violence and a terrible depression.

Remarried women, how important it is to meet a man with a good temper. A man with a good temper will make you confident, while a man with a bad temper will make you a frightened bird. I hope that all remarried women will take the next step well. If in the process of getting to know each other, you find that this man has a bad temper and unstable emotions, even if he is only like this to others and is extra gentle to you, you should leave decisively. You have to know that the better he disguises himself now, the more violent he may explode in the future. For your own safety, leave as soon as possible.

People with serious machismo ideas are selfish, but it depends on what the selfishness is. Some men's selfish motive is to deal with their wives at home. He behaves very generously and generously outside, but when he comes home, he cares about his family. This is a man with serious machismo.

This kind of man is very hypocritical and selfish at heart. In his heart, you are the closest person, you must obey him in everything, and whatever you do for him is what you should do. He is the center of the universe, and you must obey absolutely.

There are some men who are very overbearing and require their wives to obey the four virtues, but they themselves spend a lot of time living and drinking. He eats, drinks and socializes out every day, but when his wife goes out to meet friends occasionally, he will get angry. Typical Only the state officials were allowed to set fires and the people were not allowed to light lamps.

There are also some men who treat their family members with respect, are extremely polite and tolerant, but they look down upon and look down upon their wives’ natal family members. It is appropriate to spend any amount of money on your own family, but if your wife's family is reluctant to part with a penny, your wife cannot have any objections, otherwise she will be violent.

Such men are everywhere. If you meet them, you will feel very useless. However, I am also very fortunate that middle-aged women have the opportunity to learn more about and observe whether this man is worth marrying.

Although people often say that men are not bad and women are not loving, this is just a joke in life and should not be taken seriously. If you think this man is a very domineering man, you must be clearly aware that domineering is a form of selfishness. Such a selfish man cannot marry, otherwise, you will live in depression and pain all your life and cannot be relieved. Middle-aged female friends, the risk of remarriage is far greater than that of first marriage. Therefore, you should marry slowly and divorce immediately without hesitation. This sentence must be given to you. Because getting married is a big deal, you must not be in a hurry and observe slowly, because divorce is also a big deal. If the other party really has problems that cannot be changed, you must leave as soon as possible.