My husband just died. Can I send him?

China is very big, and customs vary from place to place. However, in one case, after the death of a spouse, generally speaking, it is inappropriate for a spouse to bid farewell at a funeral. Of course, sending is also possible.

Because there is a folk saying that if you want to remarry after you are widowed, it is not good to send it.

Old people in widowed families generally don't want the living to die when they see that they are still young. If others know, some people are afraid to remarry with them.

So there is a saying that those who don't want to remarry will go to the funeral. Even if you finally change your mind and want to remarry, it will take at least 7749 days to remarry, but the time is too short and the feelings are too fake. It usually takes a year or two to gag someone.

Only one thing, the sooner you remarry after the funeral, the more you will be laughed at.

For example, in Chongqing, couples are not allowed to see each other off, and they can't watch burial or cremation.

Why do couples have the custom of not giving each other gifts? According to the past, because the deceased will be attached to everything before his death, the soul will not leave willingly. So once the spouse is sent away, the ghost of the deceased will haunt the living, even take the living away, and continue the marriage together.

Of course, there is another important reason. The relationship between the widowed person and the deceased spouse is really deep. If you are too sad, something will happen, so you won't let them go, but also to protect the living.

It is precisely because of these statements that there is a custom of mutual intransigence between husband and wife.

There is also a saying in Nanning, Guangxi, that if this happens, you can not send it, but you must leave two hours before the funeral, that is, one hour before, go outside, don't eat at home, and stay outside until the funeral is over.

If the funeral is held at 13 o'clock, the widowed person should leave the funeral site and take shelter outside one hour before the spouse's funeral, that is, before 1 1 o'clock.

If rural people are generally far away from home and go to the village canteen or enjoy the cool under the tree, they will never be able to go home, let alone appear on the funeral route.

People in the city are running out. Some people are just playing chess or chatting with others. It is also not allowed on the funeral route.

Many older people will say when they see this situation, there must be four words in the eight characters of husband and wife, so they can't send each other! Woe to the sender!

Even if the widower doesn't want to leave or avoid, he will be persuaded by all his relatives and friends to leave the funeral scene to avoid the funeral.

Monks or Taoist priests invited to handle affairs will also persuade the widowed to leave, whether for the sake of the deceased or the living, they must avoid it.

Why are four words in the eight characters the same? The horoscope is the date of birth. As long as there are two identical characters on the date of birth, it should be avoided.

For example, the husband was born in 0970 10:00 65438+65438, and the wife was born in 10/22 1970 12, so the years are the same, and there are four words corresponding to birthdates. This kind can't be given away and must be avoided.

If birthdates has more than four colleagues, he should avoid it, so that there will be a widow who is far away from home before the funeral, and he will eat out and buy food. Wandering around after the funeral, you can go home.

I once heard an elder say that there was once a person in their village who didn't believe in evil. He and his wife have more than six birthdays in common.

Anyway, it was from him and he didn't wear a broken hat when he sent it to the funeral. According to the custom, when a man is widowed, he should wear a broken hat and then be carried by someone. If a woman is a widow, she must be sent to Dai Xiao.

Wearing a broken hat is not as good as the one in the picture.

The day after the funeral, his family found him dead in bed, with his dead wife. So he held his own funeral, and then the couple were buried together. I don't know if it's a coincidence or something.