What do you mean hypocritically?

Hypocrisy has a corresponding word in psychology: hypocrisy.

It means that someone's actual behavior is inconsistent with his expression. In layman's terms, it is a face-to-face and a back.

The older you get, the more you can see the world and see such people. In our circle of friends, there are many hypocrites. They always think that their IQ is high enough, and sweet words can fool you and fool the world.

The older you get, the more you should stay away from such hypocritical people. After all, no one is a fool.

There are several girlfriends in the Woods who get along well. Sister Hua is five years older than Lin Zi. On weekdays, Sister Hua is the kind of person who can talk very well. She is very sociable and playful, which once made Linzi feel that Sister Hua is particularly sociable.

A few things happened later, which made Lin Zi shout that Sister Hua was a hypocrite.

Linzi's family is superior and his salary is not low. Because parents spoil their daughter and often give her subsidies, Lin Zi is relatively well-off in the unit. Floret is a very fond of playing cards. She often gambles and plays very hard. When she lost money, she borrowed it from Linzi, who lent it to her without hesitation.

There's nothing wrong with borrowing it. Sister Hua is getting better and better to Linzi. When they are together, her sister always cries, "We are sisters." However, when Lin Zi talked about a yellow object again, Sister Hua embellished all kinds of bad words about Lin Zi outside, and those rumors spread to Lin Zi's ears. She couldn't believe it was Sister Hua.

She firmly believed that Sister Hua would not do this to herself until one day, she heard Sister Hua talking about herself behind her back. Linzi stood there for a long time, feeling as if he had been cheated.

There is a kind of person, like floret, who speaks sweet words to his face, but what he does behind his back is disgusting. Such people, with the growth of age, suggest pulling a distance.

02

Humanity is the most complicated thing in the world.

When you are weak, everyone wants to step on you. When you are strong, those people try their best to make friends with you.

This is also hypocrisy.

Liu Liang was a nobody in the company at that time. When he entered the company, he felt uneasy, because he had to face too many high-ranking people. When they first saw him, they looked at him with disdain, which made him very uncomfortable.

In the company 10, Liu Liang didn't know how many nights she stayed up, how many times she shed tears silently behind her back.

No matter how hard you live, as long as you work hard, you will always die.

Liu Liang's performance remained the first in the company for three years, and several years of promotion made everyone sit up and take notice. Later, he was named by the head office and became the general manager of his branch, while the former general manager was expelled from the head office for dereliction of duty.

Liu Liang's side suddenly has a lot of flatterers. Before that, those old figures began to be caring and attentive to him. They all came to eat and drink with him, but Liu Liang declined politely. He only thinks of these people as colleagues and wants to be his friends, and will not agree with them just by a few sweet words.

At that time, they slandered him in every way, and sometimes even hit people when they were down.

Now, it is they who compliment him in every way. Looking at their smiling faces, Liu Liang found it ironic.

Hypocrisy is the best word he can think of.

03

In this world, there will be hypocrisy if there is sincerity.

This is the iron law.

If we work with hypocrites, it often takes a long time, even years, to see each other's true colors, because hypocrites disguise themselves well and they have many curtains.

Fake people are particularly good at acting. The so-called face cover and back cover are always perfectly interpreted by them, which will make you almost believe that it is the real world.

However, are there many fools in this world?

No one is a fool.

It's just a matter of seeing through

The older you get, the more ugliness you see in society, and you will know that there is a word called "ulterior motives."

The older you get, the more hypocrites you have, and the more you will know how to distinguish between sincerity and hypocrisy, so as to stay away from "hypocrites."

The older you get, the more complicated you know, and then you will understand that simplicity is the best way to be a man.

In this world, there is no shortage of people who laugh in front of them and stab them in the back, and there is no shortage of people who are kind on the surface and vicious on the inside.

Therefore, the older you get, the simpler you live. For those who are full of scheming, you should stay away from them properly to avoid innocent people being hurt.

Don't haggle with others.

Don't be insincere when dealing with people.

Treat people sincerely and do things according to your conscience, so that you can have a clear conscience, don't you think?