People who often do things for you seem to be doing you good, but in fact they "look down" on you.

Seeing through a person is to recognize the true face of another person and let yourself know whether to stay away or have a deep friendship. Only in this way can we make friends with less losses and fewer traps. To be exact, some people are born with two sides. They should not be easily confused by superficial fantasies, but must see clearly, see through and understand. People who often do these three things to you seem to be doing you good, but in fact they "look down" on you.

1, pretending to help you, but hitting you.

In the journey of life, not everyone you meet can become a true friend. Some people look like "friends", but in fact they just pretend to be friends and then attack you in various ways. The purpose is to compare and highlight their respective advantages. In fact, it is a virtue to lend a helping hand when others are in trouble, and it can even bring the relationship between two people closer. However, some people attack them on purpose, not out of sincere help. Don't have any illusions about these malicious people. Once you realize this, you will stay away from them decisively.

I care about you, but I am actually laughing at you.

People who really care about you don't just talk, they really care about you through actions. Some people say "for their own benefit", but they actually look down on you, confuse you with other expressions, make you lose the ability to resist, and bully you at the same time. If you meet such people, don't hesitate. Once you realize this clearly, don't be misled by those false feelings. Really staying away is the wisest choice.

Pretend to be nice to you, in fact, I really saw your jokes.

In fact, in the long journey of life, we will always meet some people who laugh at us in the name of "self-interest". It seems that no matter what we do wrong, they will show their talents through criticism and accusation. They just look down on you, do they really don't want to help you, or do they really help you analyze the problem. The analysis they say is an "after-the-fact" hypothesis, which has no value or significance to your present situation.