For children whose parents were in their forties, have you ever blamed your parents?

Everyone cannot decide their own birth. That being the case, why should we blame our parents? Of course not, you should be grateful to them instead!

I am the youngest in my family. My eldest brother is nearly twenty years older than me. My parents gave birth to me when they were in their forties. Except that my family was a little poor, I really didn't suffer much when I was a child. It's a holiday, so I can be lazy in the farm work. My brother and sister don't dislike me, but my father does, but my mother protects me.

When I was in high school, my brother got married and my sister got married too. It was then that I started to help with farm work. Later I went to university in the north, so I actually grew up in a honeypot. As for my friends from the same village, they suffered much more than me.

When I first entered college, my mother sewed a sandwich in my trouser pocket with more than 2,000 yuan in banknotes, and told me to save some money. The first time I took the green train, I was so scared that I didn't sleep a wink all night. It was the hard-earned money earned by my father who worked during the day and set up cages (fishing for eels) at night, and by my mother who fried peanuts and steamed steamed buns.

Only when I went to college did I realize how big the outside world was. Not afraid of everyone’s jokes, I tasted Coke for the first time when I was in my second year of college. At that time, I made a little money writing copy for advertisements. It was a very hot summer that year, so I bought a bottle of ice-cold Coke and took a big gulp of it, burping more than a dozen times. It was so refreshing!

In my junior year, I make my own money for tuition and living expenses. Children from rural areas are better at this. No matter how dirty or tiring I work, no one knows me, so there is no face problem. So I felt that I could endure some hardships, and I could also pretend to be polite, but I was always a poor student.

After graduating from college, I worked in classes and also started a company. I am very grateful to my parents for borrowing more than 10,000 yuan from relatives as a start-up capital, but unfortunately I lost all of it, and in the end I had to go back to work. I felt particularly sorry for my parents when my business failed. Fortunately, my parents never complained about me.

Now I am married and have two children, the eldest is a daughter and the second is a son. There is a 12-year age difference between the eldest child and the second child, so the second child was born at an advanced age. After having two young children, I can better understand the hardship of my parents. Before you get married and have children, you are always mentally immature.

My parents have never raised a child this big. They would like to take her, but I am not worried about her health as she is older and in poor health. Only when the children are on vacation do we go back to stay with them for ten days and a half. I know my parents want children, but life always pushes us forward. There is no way, I feel very sorry for my parents. They worked hard to raise me, but I gave them too little in return!

When parents have children in their forties, one thing is certain: such parents love their children very much. Why blame them? A person who can give you life, we should be grateful! What do you think?