When winter comes, will parents wear pajamas to send their children to and from school, which will hurt their self-esteem?

When winter comes, the temperature drops, and there are more aunts and grandfathers who wear colorful cotton pajamas to buy food and go shopping on the streets. It stands to reason that dressing and wearing a hat is different, as long as it is not too weird, it is nothing, but walking around the street in pajamas is really a bit spicy. These aunts and grandmothers don't seem to be jealous of this. As long as they are comfortable and warm, we can't say anything. We can only regard this as a different "landscape".

However, with the drop of temperature, this "trend" of cotton pajamas seems to be spreading. In the morning and afternoon, at the gates of various schools and in the army of sending and receiving children, some young mothers can be seen coming and going in a hurry wearing bright red cotton pajamas from time to time.

In parents' opinion, it's nothing. Cotton pajamas are warm and comfortable to wear, and it's cold in winter morning, and I get up later, and I'm in a hurry, so I don't have time to freshen up. It doesn't matter if I wear pajamas to pick up my children. As everyone knows, such details are likely to affect children's self-esteem.

There is a girl named Xiaolu in my class, who likes cleanliness and beauty. I found her a little unhappy these days and asked her why. She said that because her mother didn't listen to her advice, she always wore a colorful pajamas when she came to pick her up these days, and other students laughed at her, which made her feel very hurt.

I know Xiaolu's mother. She is in her thirties and looks pretty. She usually pays attention to her image when she comes to pick her up. Maybe it's too cold these days and she got up late, so she came to school in her pajamas. I talked to her privately to remind her to pay attention to her image. After all, what child doesn't want her parents to be beautiful? This has nothing to do with vanity and comparison, but purely the dependence and worship of children on their parents.

After being reminded, Xiaolu's mother also realized that her informal behavior might have a bad influence on her children, and said that she would pay attention to these details in the future. In fact, many parents have neglected their own aesthetics and the influence of their clothes on their children. Parents are refreshing and full of energy every day, and their children will be in high spirits. Parents are sloppy and sloppy, and their children will feel inferior and pay no attention to their image. Therefore, for the growth of children, parents should not be careless, but also pay attention to their own image.

First of all, when picking up and dropping off children, parents' clothes should not be too unconventional or exaggerated. No matter what the social occupation is, in one's own social field, dressing can have personality. But when you get to school, you are a parent in front of your children. If you dress unconventional and exaggerated, and don't meet the aesthetic standards of children, you will feel that you are not like a parent, that you are naive, and you may even laugh at your children.

Secondly, when picking up and dropping off children, you should not dress too sexy. This is more common in summer. Some parents come to school to pick up their children in suspenders and short skirts, which will make other students feel that you are not dignified enough, leave a bad impression on teachers and other parents, and may also affect other children.

Pay attention to your image when picking up the children again. Don't be sloppy and untidy. For example, some fathers are wearing small vests, big shorts and flip-flops. Some parents come to pick up their children in pajamas and unkempt faces, which will make them feel humiliated and may hurt their self-esteem and make them laugh at by other students.

Of course, it's not necessary to attend any major activities after all, and there's no need to dress up for a trip, as long as it's clean and generous. Proper clothes and generous image can leave a good impression on teachers and other parents, and also make their children more confident.

Parents are their children's first teachers. Every parent wants their children to grow up healthily and happily, but they often do not pay attention to the details and easily hurt their self-esteem. The same is true in personal image. Parents who are clean and pay attention to their image can make their children dress appropriately and pay attention to their image.