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Are you a person who is prone to random thoughts?

Hello everyone, I am Xiaobei.

In the past two days, everything that could break has been rushed out. They are all small items that cannot be replaced without replacement. They are daily necessities.

The house leaked and it rained all night, which made me feel deeply.

The migraine that has not been seen for a long time comes to my door again. This and this, starting from the second half of the year is too "lucky".

In the past, it would be relieved just by sleeping, but this time it has no effect. I hope everything will subside as soon as possible.

I found that many people like to have random thoughts. Maybe when you read this tweet of mine, you will think of other things.

Is this kind of thinking good? Isn’t it good? Okay?

I don’t know.

But Xiaobei knows that sometimes too many ideas can only cause a lot of troubles.

For a while, I was like that too.

I love listening to sad songs, reading sad texts, and writing on QQ all kinds of dazzling remarks, sentiments, and all kinds of confusing remarks.

Later I learned that this is "Youth Pain Literature", and many people have experienced it, not just me. I once thought I was depressed and crazy. Later, after getting to know each other slowly, I found that everyone is the same. You all have to go through this period of time when you grow up and laugh at yourself.

Let me tell you at that time, no matter how awesome you write, you will be laughed at and speechless after a while, and how real the experience of deleting your hands will be.

When WeChat first appeared, people liked to post in Moments, which was novel. Although I still post it frequently now, there are a lot less secondary remarks and cliche language.

I once took the light rail, passed the station, and posted it on WeChat Moments. My original intention was to sigh and laugh at myself. As a result, a friend commented below:

"Are you showing off your lower IQ?"

I can't remember my reaction when I saw this sentence. Later, I set up a circle of friends that would be visible for three days. Every time I shared my circle of friends, I no longer felt free to do so and started to be extremely cautious.

Understand that not everyone likes your sharing of life. In many cases, in their eyes, you are just a joke and a source of fun conversation.

Slowly I began to understand that some people just like to say that kind of remarks. They treat everyone like this. They don’t look at other people’s lives and work sharing from an appreciative perspective. They only say a lot of negative energy. words.

Why should I care about what he says about my life? Even so, my life is still my life, and his words are always his words. I am not that capable of telling him to shut up. , but firmly believe that someone can.

So, for a while, I quickly let go.

After I figured it out, should I share my life or continue to share, food, travel scenery, etc., but no more.

Get rid of those bad guys and leave them only to those who understand themselves.

There was a period of time when I was very sensitive, and it was only for that period of time.

Now looking at other sensitive people, I just want to advise them to distract themselves, don’t focus on one thing, and find other fun things.

Life is simple and rich many times. What is complicated is yourself. It is really not good to think too much. Sometimes it only increases troubles.

At the same time, I also understand that many times, being too sensitive is uncontrollable.

Because of one thing, I can think of many things without limit, and I can direct a TV series in my head.

For example

If others look at me, maybe in the next second, I will even think of my child’s name, and the picture of my future school life will come out.

Isn’t that an exaggeration?

But there is really such a person around me. He really can't control his thoughts. The next few decades were only in his imagination for a few minutes.

Another example: a few months after breaking up, we still have uncontrollable thoughts about why we ended up breaking up? Is it my problem? Or is it his problem? Are you not good enough? Or is he not loving enough? Why others can be tolerant but he can't, it shows that he doesn't love himself at all. Why did he find a new love just a few months after we broke up? Xin Huan's appearance is obviously not as good as mine, but why did he choose her instead of me? Is it because my job is better than mine and my family background is better than mine? Stronger than me? etc.

Actually, the reason I think about it so much is not because I regret it, nor because I want to redeem myself. In the final analysis, I just want to know whose fault it is and why we broke up.

Then start to analyze it one by one and find a point, which must be a point that you are satisfied with, then this matter will slowly develop towards the end.

If you find other clues from the scenes where each other was together, then there will be a new round of ideas, and then you will find your own satisfaction from them and slowly forget them. Repeated over and over again.

Also, when walking on the street, I always feel like others are looking at me. Why? What's there to see? Sometimes, I really just think too much.

I sent a WeChat message to the guy I like, but after a few hours, I didn’t receive a reply.

We obviously had a good chat a few days ago, why didn’t you reply to the message today? So I made up various plots and scenes in my mind, and talked and analyzed them with the sisters in the sister group.

Later, the male idol replied to the message, saying that he had just been playing games in an Internet cafe with some brothers and it was inconvenient, so he did not reply to the message.

After hearing such a result, you may continue to think that if you like someone, you will reply to the message immediately, and you will miss him all the time. If you didn't reply to the message because of the game, it turns out that you don't like it.

Then he unilaterally announced that he was broken up and stopped talking to her, leaving people confused.

It could have been developed further, but it came to an abrupt end because of this. There are simply not too many such things.

Although I used to be a sensitive and overthinking person, I am much better now, mainly because I am so busy that I have no time to think about these things.

Sensitive people, regardless of gender, sometimes clearly don’t want to think about it, but they can’t control their thoughts.

Once such signs appear, you can immediately distract yourself and do other things. After concentrating on something, your random thoughts will naturally disappear.

After many times of deliberate training, it will gradually fade away.

Also, the reason why many people cannot get out is that they love to hold on to the past, but they cannot hold on to the present, and they still fantasize about the future.

Just imagine, grasping the past with one hand, the present with the other, and still thinking about the future. The body has been torn apart and involved. I don’t need to tell you what the final result will be. I don’t need to tell you.

While both sides are hurting, and letting yourself experience the pain of being completely naked, it is better to give up on one side, and either grab the past with both hands, or grab the present with both hands, and give yourself a happy life.

Now that the relationship has been broken up and the fact is a foregone conclusion, is there any point in holding on to the past? Does it make sense to think about it again? It's better to let go, live in the present, and plan your future.

Fantasy is a fatal obsession.

Do you think we are really contradictory?

Yes, that’s right.

Everyone is a self-contradictory person, constantly struggling with the past, and trying to seize the future that has not yet arrived, but is unwilling to look at the ongoing present.

I often hear people say that the reason why I am like this is because of so and so, so and so, so and so, otherwise I wouldn’t be like this.

But he ignored one problem. When he was sad and resentful, time had slipped away, and it was himself who caused the current result.

If people are willing to spend a lot of time and energy in this moment, spend it in learning, meditation, thinking, exercise, etc. Then after some time, there will definitely be improvement.

As people say: Thanks to myself for working hard in March and April, I was able to wear the ideal skirt in July and August.

Everyone is a big dreamer. If you don't control it, you can think about anything in the world, heaven and earth.

I wonder if this is the case for you. Sometimes it is difficult to focus on one thing, because many things disrupt what you are doing at the moment, and your thoughts have already drifted far away.

When we come back to our senses, time has passed and the fleeting years are gone.

We are often troubled and depressed. Why?

Because we will ignore the present because of the past and the future. What has happened, not doing well enough, making wrong choices, missing opportunities, another wave of complaints, frustration, and blaming myself.

We will be particularly nervous about things that will not happen in the future because of uncertainty. Because we cannot grasp it, the feeling of uncertainty is really terrible.

We have no sense of security or confidence about the future, which is inherently uncertain. We often hold on to it to no avail, so why not just go along with it instead of going with the flow.

There is so much time, so many sorrows and sorrows, so it is better to seize the present and seize the time to do what should be done. Even if the ideal results cannot be achieved, it will not be too bad.

Things cannot be perfect once, nor can they be solved with just one result. Many things are made up of many different small results that lead to big results. We only need to do everything well.

Sometimes the right time, right place and right people are indispensable, you just need to do it and leave the rest to time and fate.

Don’t care too much about other people’s opinions and what others think of you.

You yourself are your own best controller. It’s a fool’s errand to give the initiative to others. It is very dangerous to always care about what others think of you and their evaluations.

It’s like placing yourself under the sun, displaying it 360 degrees, like a commodity, like an item for people to choose, waiting for others to give us the final judgment.

In a person's life, there are many things to do and many people to know. But it does not mean that everything must be done, and everyone must be known and understood. Things have priorities, and people have misfortunes and blessings.

Therefore, you must remember that the only person who can control yourself is yourself. As your own master, you are the most beautiful beauty.

Of course, from birth to death, everyone will have a different life and experience different scenery.

Some people will choose to get married and have children, some people will choose to live alone, some people will choose to work hard for their careers, some people will choose to have a full-time family, and some people will choose to lie down.

These are the joys of life. Who said our lives are ordinary? The joy of life needs to be found by yourself.

Don’t be so sad, everyone. It’s better to walk around in the world, breathe fresh air, receive sunshine and rain, and party with “husbands and dogs” than to lie in a small box in the dark without seeing the sun. Leather bar.

Therefore, when we encounter difficulties or are in a bad mood, slow down, look back at where we came from, and get rid of our troubles. Labor is the most important, and happiness is the most important.

When I want to understand many things, I just feel that I was just a little papaya at that time.

Except for life and death, everything in this world is trivial. This is what Tsangyang Gyatso said, and we must believe it.

Here’s what I said, you don’t have to believe it:

“In life, it’s impossible to be liked by everyone. Finger lengths may vary, taste may vary, but your own is the best. Yes, living in the present is more important than anything else. Why do you think so much? ”

Don’t let your life revolve around one thing, focus more on it. Things, you will find that some things are equal to a P.

Life, study, career, love, family, friends, entertainment, interests, hobbies, little brother, little sister, old man, old aunt, idol, celebrity, great person, reading, writing, travel... …

Too many interesting things, interesting souls.

Sometimes we can’t understand why some people love a certain person to the point of going crazy. Just like the first time I heard about Yang Lijuan chasing her idol Andy Lau, it was so unbelievable to me. .

I can’t understand her, and I don’t agree with everything she does. I even think that her love is an invisible shackle that imprisons others, which is very scary.

There are also friends like this around me. They can’t live without love. They think about love and love all day long, and they have to live or die. I can’t understand it.

Why? It's because there is only one fulcrum in their lives.

The fulcrum of Yang Lijuan is Andy Lau, and the fulcrum of people with a love brain is love. If you break out of this vicious circle, you will find that there are many beautiful things in life.

Control your emotions. As I mentioned before, if you feel that you are about to start thinking randomly, then immediately shift your attention and concentrate on doing another thing.

Resolve your emotions and don't keep wandering on one thing. This will only make your path narrower and narrower, and your ideas become more and more difficult to open.

Every job and everyone’s life are actually similar.

Many people lamented that so-and-so lived the way I always wanted, but little did they know that the bitterness and loneliness behind it were for you to face. Can you bear it? If not, it can only exist and always exist the way you want it to be.

That's all.

After working for a period of time, I feel extremely bored, especially boring, and I will start to have many strange ideas.

Of course, I have no objection. As long as you have the strength and ability, there is a stage for you to stretch yourself.

I am often afraid of being in a weak state and do not know how to overcome and improve. Then I have been unable to raise my energy, have no interest in anything, and everything I watch is boring.

Even if it’s delicious food or beautiful scenery, it’s just a check-in. Take a photo and send it to Moments, complete the task, and prove that I’ve been here. Every time I hear such remarks and such an attitude towards life, I really want to slap them in the face.

But there is no choice, the force is mutual, I will also feel pain, that’s all.

At the end of writing, I want to say that life should not be static, but it should not change too fast. It is really contradictory. But the most important thing is that we have to live in the present and don't moan all day long. It's okay once in a while. Shouldn't we hit ourselves if we do this often?

When we are busy at work, don’t forget to slow down a little occasionally to improve ourselves;

When we are having fun, don’t forget to do it , often go home to see my parents, have fun, and eat the food cooked by my mother;

When our love is not going well, then let go of everything and do what you like, as long as it is allowed by the law. Within the scope, then go ahead and do it.

There are many possibilities in life, and there are many ways to live in life. Don’t be obsessed with one fulcrum. Our world is full of infinite possibilities, and you are also full of infinite possibilities.