Why is it that now that the spirit of the New Year is getting weaker and weaker, everyone wants to live their own lives behind closed doors?

Because of the impact of epidemic prevention and control, everyone has to close the door and live their own New Year at home!

This can only be said that a small group of people want to live their own lives behind closed doors, because apart from playing with their own electronic products, this group of people also play electronic products, mobile phones, computers, except for this. Even though they usually don’t want others to come to his or her home, they don’t go to other people’s homes either. They say they like to stay at home and are afraid of causing trouble to others, and they are also afraid that others will trouble him and them! Little do they know that no matter what festival they celebrate, big things have nothing to do with them, because if there are weddings or weddings in their own homes, they will have their families to receive them and deal with them. They feel that they don’t need any interpersonal relationships, and they don’t As a human being, everything should not fall on you and you should be indifferent to people and things. You only have yourself behind closed doors.

From the perspective of most people, the flavor of the New Year has not become less and less. Every New Year’s holiday, they try their best to go home, no matter how far away or how difficult it is, they still go home to celebrate the New Year. Especially in rural fairs and county towns, no matter how crowded the market is, they still have to sell New Year goods. During the New Year period, the whole family, relatives and friends, children, grandchildren, seven aunts and eight good aunts all pay New Year greetings to each other. , decorated with lanterns, pasted couplets, very lively. Most of the young people gathered together to talk and laugh. The young people from the north had snowball fights, and the young people from the south helped to make glutinous rice cakes and cook food. Only a small number of people do not interact with anyone. The New Year is still the traditional New Year, but some food changes and material changes are different, and the atmosphere is still there.

There is nothing wrong with living your life behind closed doors. During the past few years of the epidemic, no one in the closed communities or quarantined people lived their lives behind closed doors.

Because now materials are abundant and people’s living standards have improved. The distance between people has widened, relationships have gradually become alienated, and people have become lazy.

People feel that the past year was more special because at that time, people basically didn’t travel much, they just wandered around the one-third of an acre of land near their homes, and everyone who came in and out were acquaintances. Anyone who has a big or small problem will enthusiastically help without expecting anything in return. This is true helpfulness. At that time, anyone who helped someone would be laughed at if they harried about it afterwards.

In addition, in the past, everything had to be purchased by ticket, and the quantity was limited. People had less money and bought less. Isn’t there a saying that “things are rare and valuable”? The fewer things there are, the more people are interested in them. Now that you can eat meat every day, can you feel like you have been able to eat meat during the Chinese New Year in the past year?

So, don’t say that the New Year is less interesting now, it’s because life is getting better now, and every day is almost the same as the New Year in the past. So what’s so special about the New Year, don’t you think?

Money comes first, comparisons are given, and human touch is weak

In recent years, it may be due to the impact of the epidemic. In the past, when we were poor, we could eat good food and wear new clothes during the Chinese New Year, so the Chinese New Year was very lively.

Nowadays, the motherland is strong and people are living a good time. They eat, drink and wear well, so the Chinese New Year has become less popular. In addition to the current high-tech era, people can also pay New Year greetings at home with mobile phones. , the computer is not alone, so the New Year is quiet.

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Because when older people talk about the New Year, they will remember what they could eat during the New Year when they were children. In those days, the material level was low, and the whole family, young and old, could usually have enough to eat, which was a good life, and they did not dare to expect food. Only during the Chinese New Year can you eat some stewed meat and meat dumplings. Snacks for children include peanuts, melon seeds, fried corn kernels and soybean kernels that can break half of a tooth. Candy cubes are only occasionally seen in families with better conditions.

However, network communication is now very developed. First, if relatives and friends want to keep in touch, they can do so anytime and anywhere. They can video chat on WeChat every day, so there is no need to communicate and maintain relationships during the Spring Festival.

Second, there are fewer children in families now. With the development of the times, there will be fewer and fewer big families. There are fewer and fewer seven aunts and eight aunts, and there are fewer and fewer relatives, so there are fewer and fewer people to move around during the New Year. There are fewer and fewer people. With fewer people, the Chinese New Year will not be as lively as before!

Third, children today have much better feelings for friends than for relatives. Relatives are only related by blood. Apart from blood, there may not be much contact.

Fourth, as we grow older, it’s not that the Chinese New Year loses its flavor, but that the happiest person during the Chinese New Year is no longer you. We have also grown from a carefree, idealistic child who looks forward to the Chinese New Year. He has become an ordinary, unremarkable person. When I was a child, I celebrated the New Year, and when I grew up, I celebrated the New Year. Therefore, everyone feels that the flavor of the New Year has faded now, and they all live their lives behind closed doors.

Live your life well!

Because everyone has seen through it now, right? No matter what happens, you still have to rely on yourself. If something happens to your relatives or something, you will always seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, so living your own life is the most important thing.