Knowing that mom cured the baby's mind.

The thing is this: My son went out on roller skates, accidentally fell down, broke his knee and was covered in blood, but he didn't cry at that time. He also said: Men don't cry when they bleed! I cried a little when I talked [covering my face] and went home with the courier. When I got home, the more I thought about it, the more I felt wronged and hurt, and I couldn't help crying. I said it hurt, and my mother felt distressed when I saw it. Hold him, he cried even louder! He was allowed and respected. I know that at this time, his inner child is very eager to be seen, loved and cherished. Cry if you want! Many times, we adults made a big mistake. When a child wants to cry, we must stop him from crying and hold back. We also said that a boy should not cry, be strong and so on. We didn't know how much harm the child's emotions would do to the body! If I hadn't learned this, I might have made the same mistake and said the same thing. Fortunately, I understand this truth. Today, facing my son, I chose to allow him to cry and release!

I also got an unexpected news: my son cried more and more, and then he said that I was bullied at school, and they also hit me (the child was injured before and asked him what happened, but he never said anything, and then excused others and said that he didn't mean to), so he must have suppressed a lot of grievances in his heart. Today, I took the opportunity to ask him who bullied him and how. He said the child's name was XXX, but he was very arrogant. He always wants to stand in front of him after school. Obviously, I was in front of him, and he was going to run in front of me. I felt that he cut in line and was very angry. I stood in front of him and he hit someone. In the eyes of adults, this is a small thing, but for children, it is a big thing, which makes him very wronged and hurt. ) Then, I followed. Hum! Then keep crying! Fortunately, I learned from Jueshe tian teacher and knew what to do. I made a case for him! Express his feelings at the moment, guide him to say it, cry, be wronged, be dissatisfied, be angry, and so on. Then ask him if he wants his mother to help him, right? He said yes! So the case tools were used to get him to the scene. At first, the child couldn't let go, afraid and weak. When he saw my performance, he suddenly inspired his strength. He's angry, let it out! Until he said he was tired. At this time, I asked him if he was better. He said, much better. He hugged me hard and said, mom, I love you! So my son and I hugged each other and cried! ! ! Then I spoke his mind: he didn't want to fight after being beaten. He is kind and unwilling to start a fight. Because he had never been in a fight, he was afraid of being hurt more and more, so he chose to endure. He nodded. I told him I could talk to the teacher, and he said yes, but he wouldn't listen. Other children hate him, too, but there is nothing he can do! I said, why don't you stay away from him next time you line up? He said yes, my son hugged me tightly and said again: Mom, I love you! ! ! Start changing the subject and say happy things. Tell me jokes! Seeing that the child's physical strength has recovered a little, and that his mother is protecting her and supporting him, he has a sense of security, peace of mind and a lot of sureness! Let's come out to play in the living room!

At least this shadow will make the child get some healing. Slowly, I believe that the child will get better and better, and the right opportunity will mark his healing, and the child will become stronger and stronger! ! ! Thanksgiving tian teacher, grateful for their willingness to learn, let them know about their children, and properly care for their growth! Give him strength! ! !