On a blind date, boys say that success or failure are all due to fate. What does that mean?

My mother said that when I met my father for the first time, I felt that it was fate.

When I was young, I didn’t understand. It was only when I grew up that I understood what my mother meant by fate.

Mom likes men who are very knowledgeable. My family has introduced two of them before. They were either dull or low-educated. My mother doesn’t think it’s appropriate, that is, it’s just not a good match.

Later, I met my dad and chatted about everything. Time passed quickly, and suddenly I felt something called fate in my heart. Later, two people got married, and then they had me.

Later I grew up and started to fall in love.

I have met many people, some are attracted to me, some are repulsive to me, some are fond of me, and some are disgusted with me.

I often think, what is fate? Where?

Until later I met a man who really looked like the boyfriend I imagined.

He has read many books that I have read, and he understands my weird jokes. He has not experienced the things I have experienced, but he seems to be able to empathize with them. This is fate. In fact, what is fate? In fact, to put it bluntly, fate is just a feeling. But where does this feeling come from?

There are two people in the world. They have experienced similar things and have similar thoughts. When they grow up, they meet a version of themselves of the opposite sex, and then fall in love with them.

Fate is not a theory of gods and ghosts, but many people don’t understand how fate comes about. The two people have similar pasts, similar things they are going through, and similar goals for the future. Attracting each other is called fate.

For example, a businessman who is averse to literary people may think that a senior executive is more destined for him.

For example, a young man who is struggling on his own may appreciate someone who has similar experiences to him more than someone who has no vision for the future.

Emotions are so wonderful. We may be suddenly attracted to someone at a certain time and place.

We can't explain this, just call it fate.

In fact, fate is not sudden, it is the you who has been there for more than 20 years, slowly built up bit by bit. Should we wait for fate?

Personally, I think you have to wait, but don’t wait too hard. It is necessary to wait for someone who is compatible with your eyes and mind. Because love, especially marriage, is a very important thing.

Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, no matter how old you are, you should not treat yourself as a slow-moving product and sell it at a low price. Be responsible for yourself and others. As for not waiting too hard, I just hope that everyone will not take love as too idealistic, go on a blind date when it's time to go on a blind date, and go for it when it's time to bravely strike out.

Don’t think of yourself too cheaply, and don’t make yourself too reserved.

With a heart waiting for love, bravely look for love. Wish you happiness.