Is the concern between Erlang Shen and the Jade Emperor in "Journey to the West" really so bad?

Although the relationship between the two people seems awkward, judging from the details, the relationship between the two people should be quite good. The Jade Emperor must have loved Erlangshen, otherwise he would not have granted him such an official position and given him such privileges. And Erlang Shen should also be gradually understanding the Jade Emperor. After all, if he wants to manage the entire world, he must first be strict with himself and the people around him must do well.

Erlang Shen’s mother was the Jade Emperor’s sister. She secretly descended to earth and had a union with a mortal and gave birth to Erlang Shen. The Jade Emperor was very angry about this. In fact, if it were anyone else, the Jade Emperor might not be so angry, but this person happened to be her sister. This was a blatant disobedience to his orders, like a slap in the face. And if he is punished lightly, it will appear to others as a favor. If he wants to discipline others in the future, others will definitely question him and think that he is using power for personal gain. In this way, how can he manage the entire heaven, so he can only punish others. punishment.

In the eyes of Erlang Shen, the Jade Emperor was so cruel as his uncle that he separated their mother and son, never to see each other again, and pressed his mother under the Peach Mountain and suffered a lot. pain. That's why when he grew up, he chose to cut down mountains to save his mother, and made trouble in the heaven, trying to save his mother. However, in the process, he also truly realized the difficulty of the Jade Emperor, and even more understood the mistakes his mother had committed.

The Jade Emperor also knew that he had gone too far. In any case, one was his sister and the other was his nephew. Naturally, if he wanted to establish his authority, he could not completely attack his relatives. In addition, Erlangshen was still young at the time and suddenly separated from his mother. I never took care of him, which was really derelict in my duty. That's why he took the initiative to reward Erlang Shen and gave him many privileges.