What kind of experience is low emotional intelligence?

First of all, we should know that low emotional intelligence is an act of inferiority, a clumsy accomplishment, which is different from calling a spade a spade.

People with low emotional intelligence often hurt others. If they do it on purpose, that's fine. I'm afraid they won't even realize it.

The so-called speaker is unintentional, and the listener is intentional.

A group of normal people are with a disabled person. If the speaker's emotional intelligence is not high, he speaks recklessly and frequently says something about disability, others wink at him. If he can understand the wink and stop it in time, it will be a little emotional intelligence. What he is afraid of is saying "Why are you staring at me", which makes everyone very embarrassed.

More importantly, it often makes people angry in life.

I have experienced such a thing personally.

Melody melody, a female friend of mine, called me and said that her car hit a yazi on the side of the road. She was so scared that she didn't know what to do.

I hurried there. I was a little relieved to see that the man was not injured.

I checked her car, no problem. I took photos and applied for insurance. Then ask her, in broad daylight, there is little traffic. How did you get to the road on such a big road?

She told me that a friend of hers wanted to buy a dress and asked her to help "bargain" on the activity page of WeChat.

You must tell her that you are driving. I said.

I told you, she said she was in a hurry and was in the shop. She had to pay at once. Then I turned on my mobile phone and operated it. Suddenly, a battery car came. I hit the side of the road as soon as I turned the steering wheel.

After listening for a while, I was speechless, and then suggested that her friend could be blacked out.

She didn't speak and was silent. Her cell phone suddenly rang, and I vaguely heard the following conversation:

Why don't you help me bargain? Hey, it's too hard for you to help me.

-I just had an accident. ...

-Did you crash? How can you be so careless? Actually ... it's too late to bargain now. I should have asked others to help me bargain. ...

Before the other party had finished, she hung up the phone and began to cry loudly in the main road.

I can feel her heart completely broken!

I think she is crying for the despair of this friendship.

When you travel across mountains and rivers to get mushrooms for your friend, he suddenly tells you that what you want is actually snow lotus.

When you took out your heart, it was fed to the dog by the other party.

What could be more frustrating than this?

What is even more distressing is that when you try to help others fail, they will rightfully blame you: since you can't help, why waste my time? I should just find someone else.

There is a feeling that minutes make you want to explode in situ! ?

Cherish life and stay away from people with low emotional intelligence!

So what kind of emotional intelligence is high?

People with high emotional intelligence are fascinated by people's behavior. They will notice other people's bodies, language and even subtle facial convulsions. Because they are good at observing others, they can understand everyone's uniqueness.

People with high emotional intelligence know that they must do what they say. As a leader, you should not stand behind and give orders, but walk ahead and set an example.

Knowing your own advantages and disadvantages, you can face the past calmly, and you are full of confidence in the future.

Let's all strive to be a person with high emotional intelligence.

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