The First Chinese Studies: How to behave in society, "Don't say anything", and your popularity will become better and better.

Do you know that if you behave in a manner that "doesn't talk to each other and doesn't laugh", your popularity will become better and better?

Hello everyone, welcome to this issue of No. 1 Chinese Scholars. Everyone in the world wants to be a master of dealing with others, so that they can have both sides and can rise higher and higher. Regarding how to deal with others, the elders have this admonition: speak in two steps and laugh in two steps. What does that mean? Judging from the literal meaning, this old saying is also very simple. It means that you should control your own language and behavior as a person, and don't say anything to others at will. Regarding two things, what do you mean by not laughing at others? Let's take a look together next.

First of all, let’s take a look. Don’t talk, don’t talk empty words. In life, you will encounter many people who like to talk false and empty words, especially men. Many men actually say some big words for the sake of their own face. and empty words, to show that you are very capable, otherwise others will look down on you, but you don't know that saying such words will make others look down on you, and even shoot yourself in the foot. The big words got out, but things couldn't be done. Isn't this a slap in the face?

When people reach middle age, they should have seen through many things, and they should not care so much about face issues, no. Finally fell into the laughing stock. People, it is better to be down-to-earth. Only by being down-to-earth can you live the life you want. 2. Don’t say you are poor. Some people often talk about poverty. It’s okay to say it once, but if you say it too many times, it will become a fact over time. This is a negative mentality.

You have developed a habit of calling yourself poor all day long, which is like a psychological suggestion. You remind yourself all day long that I am a poor person. It will slowly penetrate into your bones and give you a look of poverty. If you talk about being poor and see that others are only rich, you will inevitably feel jealous and full of complaints. Let’s look at the two unfilial piety. The first one is not to laugh at others.

Honest people like to deal with honest people, but they don’t want to become honest people themselves, because honest people are too soft-tempered and are often bullied. We should not laugh at honest people. Is there anything wrong with being honest? It eats its own food, does its own thing, does not have the intention to harm others, and does not act as a harmful horse. What is wrong with it?

Everyone should be an honest person, do things in a down-to-earth manner, and make their own family happy and improve their quality of life. An honest person is better than those who are glib. Honest people don't have the intention to harm others. They don't care about other people's business and don't have so many tricks.

So don’t bully others just because they are honest. God is watching what people do, and there will be retribution for doing bad things. The second thing is not to laugh at other people's poverty. After all, 30 years ago in Hedong and 30 years in Hexi, today's rich are actually yesterday's poor. Today's poor may be tomorrow's rich. Who can say clearly what will happen in the future? Don't look at the vast world through your own narrow eyes.