When I first joined the group, my friends were rude.

Just joined a new group, but no one in it knows. At the beginning, it's best not to talk about yourself, but to take yourself as the center and comment on the views expressed by people in the group, so as to be polite and find common interests. Details are as follows:

1, don't talk about yourself, focus on yourself.

Don't talk about yourself. Whatever they are saying, don't talk about yourself. Will appear very self-centered. No one wants to be friends with self-centered people. Don't give people this feeling from the beginning. Suddenly talking about yourself and not knowing yourself will make people feel puzzled. Is it necessary to care about yourself?

2. Don't comment on the opinions expressed by people in the group.

Don't comment on opinions, don't have any sarcastic or sarcastic opinions on the topic you just heard, and don't comment on work, sports, health, politics or religion. Now is not the time to persuade anyone to join their own camp.

All you have to do is repeat the topic you just heard, or choose something relevant to the situation at that time to ask questions, starting with you and you.

3, looking for * * * and points of interest

It is unwise to control the whole conversation or start a new topic of communication just after joining a group. A better choice is to continue the topic you just heard and make some comments on what they talked about. This kind of evaluation is best from the perspective of others, not from your own point of view.

4. Others

If you really don't know what to say, you can give us a simple introduction, such as: hello, I'm new here, please give us more advice.

Precautions:

1. When you first join the group, don't interrupt others at will. If you want everyone to know yourself and introduce yourself, you must choose the right time.

2. In addition, after getting acquainted with the people in the group, you should always interact with them, so that everyone will gradually recognize themselves and remember not to be too self-righteous.