If the child does not return to his mother-in-law's family, he will take his maiden name. Eight years later, the mother-in-law will cry and beg for compensation for the bride price. Do you need to for

If the child does not return to his mother-in-law's family, he will take his maiden name. Eight years later, the mother-in-law will cry and beg for compensation for the bride price. Do you need to forgive me?

Eight years have passed. Even those who were angry at that time should have gradually forgotten about it. It is not easy for old people, so consider forgiving. When getting married, the issue of bride price will inevitably come up. If the family conditions are good, the man will give more gifts. If the family conditions are not particularly good, then it will vary from person to person. The protagonist of the story I’m going to tell you today is called Xiao Liu. His mother was determined not to take any gift when Xiao Liu got married. It’s not that his mother didn’t have money, she just simply didn’t want to give her any gift. Xiao Liu and Xiao Wen were very sweet when they were in love together, and Xiao Wen also loved Xiao Liu very much, so the man didn't give her a bride price at that time, and Xiao Wen didn't care too much about it, and just made a three-part agreement with her mother-in-law.

The three-chapter agreement between Xiaowen and her mother-in-law

In order to save money, the mother-in-law did not want to give Xiaowen a gift, but Xiaowen accepted it. However, she had to make a three-chapter agreement with her mother-in-law. The first was that she could not Interfering with young people's lives. The second is that during the Chinese New Year, two people can go to whose home they want to celebrate the New Year. They cannot be required to go back to their mother-in-law's house to celebrate the New Year. The third is that if there is a child in the future, the child can take the mother's surname. At that time, her mother-in-law did not think the matter was serious, so she agreed, which saved a lot of money in betrothal gifts. Her mother-in-law was very happy at this time, and even spread the word everywhere about how amazing her son was. You can also get a wife by spending the bride price.

The two had children soon after they got married

Their son was born a year after the marriage. The mother-in-law felt that it was very tiring to take care of the child, and she rarely came to their house. Later, Xiaowen lived with her mother, and her mother helped her take care of the children. Maybe it's because the mother-in-law is unwilling to give, so the relationship between their children and her mother-in-law is not very good, nor is it that close. After all, they did not grow up beside them. Later, the child was born, and then the two decided to name the child. This returns to the topic of whose surname the child should follow. As a result, the two people discussed it and played a game together. If whoever wins, the child will take his mother's last name. As a result, if Xiaowen wins, the child will take the mother's last name. At that time, my mother-in-law was quite angry when she found out, but there was nothing he could do about it, because after all, the three chapters of the original agreement were still there.

Now my mother-in-law regrets it and wants to make up for the bride price

Eight years have passed, and she has basically never spent the New Year at her husband's house, and the children don't go back often. The old man felt that he was getting older and a little lonely now, so he thought of Xiaowen and the others. Xiaowen has been with her mother for eight years. She does not want to change her current living situation, because after all, eight years have passed and she has become accustomed to her current life. Her mother-in-law was very proud that she didn't give her a betrothal gift at first, but now she was crying and wanted to give Xiaowen a betrothal gift, but Xiaowen didn't want to accept it. For women, they will always encounter problems with their mother-in-law, and this problem is basically not easy to solve. This relationship has always been very sensitive. Whether or not you want to forgive your mother-in-law depends on how Xiaowen thinks about it.