Why do Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu often quarrel in A Dream of Red Mansions?

In A Dream of Red Mansions, Daiyu always seems to be at odds with Baoyu. In fact, behind this embarrassment is deep love. Because of love, I care. The same is true of Daiyu and Baoyu, because they care about everything, so even if Baoyu talks to Baochai or Xiangyun more and plays for a while, Daiyu will be angry and will be at odds with Baoyu. Especially once Xiangyun came to Jiafu, she saw Baoyu's love for his brother. Daiyu was a little unhappy when she saw that she was leaving, so Baoyu chased her out. Baoyu's phrase "Only I can play with you" annoyed Daiyu. Baoyu said, "It's a big deal to die." Daiyu was even sadder. Just then, Baochai ignored Daiyu's expression and took Baoyu away, which made Daiyu even sadder.

Daiyu's mind is the same as that of any girl in love. Because I care and like it, I pay attention to it everywhere and feel sad everywhere. Baoyu later came back to find Daiyu, who was angry and didn't speak. I can't remember what Baoyu said, only Daiyu replied, "I only did it for my own heart", and Baoyu also said it was for my own heart. Like two people who love each other deeply. They like each other and care about each other, but they don't want to talk about it. Of course, Baodai's love was not easy to talk about because of the influence of the environment at that time, so she guessed each other's hearts and was often embarrassed because of each other's hearts.

If the person Daiyu likes is not Baoyu, or Daiyu likes Baoyu, and Baoyu likes Sister Bao, then even if Daiyu is awkward and angry again, Baoyu will not always care about Sister Lin's expression and thoughts, but again, because he likes it, he cares. As for Bao Dai's awkwardness, there was a big quarrel in the story that alarmed the old lady, and that was the sentence that friends didn't get together. Of course, in this embarrassing process, there are also people who guess each other's hearts and deliberately torture each other's hearts. For example, when Baoyu fell on the jade, Aroma said, "Don't look at my sister's face, but also look at Miss Lin's beautiful ears. As a result, Daiyu grabbed the ear and cut it off from the jade. She even said something to Zijuan. Baoyu felt that Sister Lin was inferior to Zijuan. This embarrassment not only shocked the old lady, but also made them hear what the old lady said. Like meditation, they suddenly understood that it was not because the enemy did not get together, but because they were afraid that outsiders would persuade the society to identify with themselves. Baoyu took the initiative to apologize to Daiyu, and they made up again.

This is probably the kind of love episode that loves each other deeply and always tortures each other to guess whether they care about themselves. Baoyu's "Don't worry" transcends any love oath in the world and becomes the most classic love confession in the world. But that love, because of Mrs. Wang's disagreement and the environment of that special era, was somewhat cowardly and died. After all, Daiyu is not at ease. Her heart is full of insecurity. She couldn't see Baoyu getting close to Sister Bao, and she didn't trust Ren Xiangyun, because Baoyu, the golden unicorn of Xiangyun, also got a piece of the action. Daiyu is afraid of other good marriages. Her heart is always worried, and her death is mostly related to her restless heart.

Sister Lin didn't wait for Baoyu to shout "Sister Lin, I'm back, Sister Lin, I'm back". Baoyu also missed the last time with sister Lin, and that love eventually turned into regret. The tragedy of Baodai's love also made the Dream of Red Mansions great and earned many tears. It can be seen that many people want to see a happy ending for that kind of deep love, but in fact happiness is always not so easy to get. Because of love, I care, so Sister Lin is always at odds with Baoyu.