What are some signs that girls actually don’t want to chat with you?

If she is interested in you, you will find that you can talk about it from morning to night, and there seems to be endless things to talk about; even if your topic suddenly freezes, she will take the initiative to find a topic to break the situation. Awkward atmosphere, and your chats often end in a "happy" mood.

This proves that you have a good chance, brother, come on, if you work harder, you can successfully leave the single and get the beauty back. Otherwise, it will be another situation.

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As the saying goes, a woman’s heart is as deep as the bottom of the sea.

Many men always lament that girls’ thoughts are too difficult to guess. This situation is especially obvious when chatting.

Sometimes girls’ perfunctory words are not received by boys. Instead, they are immersed in the fantasy of successful confession, hope of falling in love, or even getting married and having children.

But be careful, when a girl really doesn’t want to talk to you, if you continue flirting with her, it will only be regarded as sexual harassment.

Especially when the person has shown the following behaviors, clearly doesn’t like you, or is not interested in your topic at all, or even doesn’t want to talk to you at all.

1. The chat is too official and likes to find all kinds of excuses to deal with you

I have a friend who often complains to me, saying that his goddess is like this, and most of the chat content is The answers are too official, and it feels like chatting with a superior, so you can't get to know her deeply at all.

Such as the following:

Boy: Are you busy lately? ?

Girl: ?It’s okay! ?

Boy: ?What is your favorite dish? ?

Girls:?Vegetables

There is also this kind of person who wants to stop chatting with you or is impatient with your messages. They like to find the following: All kinds of excuses are given to you:

I went to take a shower and died in the bathroom.

I went to dinner and died at the dinner table.

I went to charge it, but it died in the socket.

This is still a good situation. When girls really don’t want to talk to you, their reasons will be very unreasonable.

Sorry, I have something to do.

Sorry, my mother called me just now.

Sorry, my phone is out of battery, so I won’t tell you anymore.

Girls like the above may be polite and self-cultivation and will not directly ignore you or respond to you, but they will always make you feel distant.

Because she doesn’t want to know your past, nor does she want to get involved in your future. You are like two parallel lines that seem very close but will never intersect.

After all, if you love someone, you will not push him so far away, but will only find ways to close the distance.

This kind of person who you can feel cold across the screen really doesn’t want to chat with you and really doesn’t like you.

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2. If you don’t agree, you’ll be silent and only send emojis when chatting

If she doesn’t have feelings for you, send her 10,000 messages Give it to her, and her reply will not exceed three words. Oh? Uh-huh? Bye?

By the way, there is also "hehe". The word "hehe" is best used to curb the other party's desire to chat. Isn't it said that chatting ends in "hehe"? ?

You tell a joke, and she says haha. You think you are very humorous, and the more you tell it, the more enthusiastic you become. Only later do you realize that "haha" is just a sign to end the topic.

If she thinks you are someone who doesn’t know how to chat and doesn’t want to chat, she will enter the emoticon mode.

In the end, she didn’t even want to look for emoticons, so she just used a fixed emoticon. For example, a mysterious smile may contain the meaning of termination, you know.

3. I disconnected in the middle of the conversation, or replied after a long time

Don’t think that I don’t like chatting, I just don’t like chatting with you.

Or maybe you are too rude, your topic is too boring, and it really makes people unable to continue talking.

For example, this kind of self-defeating topic:

Can you post a selfie? (Who are you? Have I ever gotten to know you so well?)

Talk about girls’ painful topics (for example, she’s a little fat, why are you talking about weight loss?)

About Mathematics, economics and other theoretical research (except for related work interests, most of them let me go to sleep)

Don’t blame other girls for the above, this boy’s emotional intelligence is really low, typical Which pot is not opened?

And if she really often forgets to reply to messages or replies to you after hours or even days, don’t think about it. She just doesn’t want to talk to you. Variety shows, Taobao and even fingernails are more fun than you.

4. The most direct, without any response, or even blocked and deleted

A boy once added me and we couldn’t even chat for more than two words. Yes, you heard me right. , just less than two sentences.

Basically, ask to be added as a friend? Through friends? Start a chat? Say hello? Then I blocked him directly. Why am I so cruel?

It’s not because he, a stranger, without permission or familiarity to that point, actually opened a video for me, and after I refused, he continued to bombard me with videos. Sorry, I had to block him. You got it.

There is also this situation where you send her a lot of messages, but there is no response.

At this time, it is always easy for people to make many excuses for each other: she may not have seen; she may be taking a shower, she may be eating...

You think she must have a reason, otherwise she wouldn't reply to you. As a result, you find out that she just posted on Moments.

You understand at this point, right? You have time to post on Moments, but you don’t have time to reply to my messages?

Well, let me tell you a heart-wrenching fact. They just don’t want to chat with you.

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To be honest, many girls nowadays cherish their time very much. If they don’t have feelings for a person, they will reject his advances, refuse any ambiguity, and don’t want to. Spend time and energy on people you don't like.

They only want to chat with people they like.

So, as long as she likes you, then everything above does not count.

As long as she likes you, it doesn’t matter even if you don’t know how to chat or are a stubborn person, because girls are very tolerant of the people they like. Even if you have no topic to chat with, she will continue to create new ones. Topic chat.

Sometimes when I am halfway through applying the mask, I will rush to pick up my phone to reply when I receive your message.

In fact, whether a person likes you and is interested in you can be known from the way he chats with you.

Most of us know it, but we just don’t want to admit it. He wanted to find a small excuse for her indifference, but in the end he found that he was the one who was lying.

Don’t be too entangled with people who don’t love you, and don’t love blindly. If you don't get a response, you should stop it in moderation. No one needs to live humblely for anyone. This is the same for men and women.