What are women afraid of getting married?

1. I am most afraid that I can't completely eliminate too many concerns.

In this society prone to depression, how to make yourself look more radiant and attractive is indeed a tireless pursuit of women.

However, most divorced women who are eager to remarry find that worrying too much about remarriage actually makes them feel like enemies. Therefore, they are afraid that they will be laughed at when they are old, that they can't afford to marry an incompetent person, and that more harm will touch their children. . . . . . All this is a woman's frustration in marriage, fearing that she will lose her ability to love again.

2. I am most afraid of being someone else's stepmother.

If you have the misfortune to meet a man who loves you deeply but is married with children, should you marry him? When is the best time to be a stepmother? What must I pay attention to when I am a stepmother? These have become the painful problems for divorced women to remarry.

Many women are afraid that even if they can communicate harmoniously with their children's fathers, who can guarantee to capture their children's childlike innocence? I'm even more afraid. Even if the child and stepmother are fine now, who can predict whether there will be a fight over property division in the future? Then, when the stepmother's sequelae are all concurrent, where can we talk about future stability?

3. Most afraid of remarriage, happiness can't be close at hand.

"To have a complete family again" is the common wish of almost all divorced women who are eager for marriage. Therefore, divorced women are afraid that honesty will not reappear. However, in such a society of "singing whenever you want and changing whenever you say it", the happiness of marriage will be separated and dissolved by many annoying factors, and the example of the second round can only be regarded as a fairy tale.

In short, marriage can never rely on the support of outsiders, and everything can only depend on the parties themselves. Unless there is one thing that can make the apparent happiness come ahead of time: people who marry for the sake of marriage, follow the trend without their own opinions.

I am most afraid of marrying an ungrateful man and exhausting myself.

If you are a woman who drags others down and loves to torture yourself, you may completely fall into the bottomless pit of remarriage. "Marrying a suitable man with good economic conditions" is the extravagant hope of many divorced women. But who wants to make a mistake again and again and become a regret forever?

Therefore, divorced women are afraid of marrying a husband who has no problem dressing and eating, but whose life style is irresponsible. Looking for a so-called "super nouveau riche" is just to comfort your pocket. Can a marriage with money and no love last?

I am most afraid of the lesson of the first marriage, which is unforgettable.

Although the future marriage is beckoning to women, the memory of the first marriage in women's minds has repeatedly made her shrink back. Strong-willed women are afraid of diamond cut diamond and lose both sides; The withdrawn little woman is afraid of facing domestic violence and bloodshed again. They are even more afraid that the unspeakable pain of the first marriage will make the panic "in full swing" like the terrible creeper in summer.

6. I am most afraid of being too inferior and becoming an alternative single aristocrat.

"Divorced and forced to live alone, remarried but not used to sleeping alone" is a dilemma for some divorced women. Even if you can't find a suitable candidate immediately after divorce, enduring loneliness for a long time has become the pleasure of enjoying single life. When two people are together, the discomfort of living habits is better than the suitability of personal identity. What about remarriage?

7 I am most afraid of being unable to face any flaws in my life.

Although marriage binds two people together again, life is still flawed.

Some people hope that it is best not to invade, some people are uneasy when they run in, and some people are afraid of getting a tiny grain of sand in their eyes. On the other hand, divorced women are so sensitive that they are afraid of all kinds of marital setbacks that they are caught off guard: either getting along with their mother-in-law makes them miserable or fighting between them makes them embarrassed. But shouldn't the risk of this marriage be borne by yourself?

8 Most afraid of being asked for the second time.

Some people are heartbroken and burst into tears. If someone says, "Stop crying!" "The effect can only be worse, but she cried even harder.

Similarly, if you ask a divorced and single woman casually, "When will you get married again?" She may be not only afraid, but also disgusted and disgusted with you. She thought to herself, "It doesn't matter if you don't ask. You ask me, and I start to have a headache. " . . . . . "