What should I do in the face of mistress's betrayal?

Her generosity will make the cheating man look like a child who has made a mistake. He won't cheat next time he is killed. In this way, women not only keep the man's heart, but also protect the integrity of the family. The second category is women who blame themselves. This kind of women are very demanding of themselves, almost pursuing perfection. When they find out that men are cheating, the first thing they think of is that they are not considerate enough to men and put the blame on others. They will forgive men for cheating, as long as they don't change their bad habits, they will generally acquiesce. The third kind of women are disadvantaged women. This kind of woman can't do it financially, maybe she is sick physically, maybe she has something in her hand. Although she is dissatisfied with men's infidelity, she dares to be angry and dare not speak out, so she has to let nature take its course. In this kind of women, in addition to the normal relationship between husband and wife, there are also partnerships such as lovers and mistresses. The fourth kind of woman loves to cheat. As the saying goes, fish begins to stink at the head, a woman who loves to cheat, can't make irresponsible remarks about others. She wants to turn a blind eye to men's infidelity, and sometimes it does not rule out that husband and wife go into battle together. Isn't there such a report? Both husband and wife like chatting online and falling in love. One day, they agreed to meet offline. As a result, at the date, the husband saw his wife, and the wife saw her husband. Of course, such a woman only acquiesced in her husband's infidelity. There are other reasons and types for women to acquiesce in men's infidelity, but the main ones are similar. This also reflects people's relative tolerance for extramarital sex and the difficulty of social temptation. However, regardless of men and women and reasons, people had better stick to their big feelings. Otherwise, tolerance for extramarital affairs is a betrayal of family and children, and its consequences will appear in the future, when it may be too late to regret. Fifth, it doesn't matter, I feel that men are like that. I admire that kind of "broad-minded" woman, which sometimes makes men puzzled. When they found out that men were cheating, they were indifferent and took it for granted. I don't know why they form such a view of marriage. Is it related to your background knowledge? It still has something to do with his debauchery. Anyway, he doesn't care about his man's stupid things. "It doesn't matter" is not a good sign in marriage. Couples should have more "so-called" to show their affection for each other. Feelings are the most selfish in marriage, and no one wants to share them with others. But once you have an "indifferent" attitude, you may get sick. Six, adhere to a principle, you can find anyone you like, anyway, I will not divorce, you have to give me money to spend. Usually meet a man's playboy, and a woman who doesn't want a divorce has her own ideas. Some for face, some for their own interests, but more for children. Children can catch a woman's heart. After the family breaks up, the most injured people want children. They are innocent and should not bear the mistakes made by adults. Therefore, a woman who loves her family and children will forgive a man's despicable behavior to a great extent and become insensitive until there is nothing she can do. Seven, there is no way, so we have to submit to humiliation. Her husband is too powerful, and his position at home is only equivalent to that of a nanny. This kind of woman has no place in the family. She relies on her husband to eat and dress, and is always punched and kicked by men. It is equivalent to hiring someone who is not as good as hiring someone. Common in poor rural areas, or the man's family conditions are excellent, or the man is simply a local ruffian. Eight, patiently listen to his analysis, understand his real thoughts and the whole process, and accompany him through the difficulties. When you find the man you love cheating, you'd better not expose his lies to his face. A smart woman will rationally and methodically let a man know that he is wrong, make him feel guilty and take the initiative to turn around. This is not the best way to end a marriage that still has hope. A cruel reality is that many women choose to leave resolutely in the face of men's infidelity, but they have not completely freed themselves, nor have they found their expected happiness again. Life is not a fairy tale, and love is not as holy as imagined. Born in this mortal world, anyone may deviate from the normal marriage track. Giving each other a chance to return is also a happy exit for themselves. Therefore, when there is a crisis in marriage, it is far more practical to take active rescue measures than passive counterattack! Emotionally rebellious, it is simply unacceptable for men to cheat and divorce directly. There is a kind of woman who is extreme and thoughtless, which may be related to her own experience and personality. In her opinion, it is not easy for two people to be together. Now that we are married, we should be responsible and loyal to each other. In the face of men's betrayal, being firm all the time is an insult to her and emotionally unacceptable. It's not that she doesn't want to save it, but that she always competes with herself, pushes herself into a dead end, and then kills hope and happiness by herself. In some women's eyes, men are their dreams, and the pursuit in her heart is almost harsh and perfect. When in distress, the firewall also loses its function. In the depths of their marriage concept, some deep-rooted things have already quietly formed, which is the only bottom line they always adhere to. Even if the marriage barely continues, it will never eliminate the shadow formed in the mind. After all, it is a latent fuse. Such a day naturally looks very tired, so it is better to get rid of it as soon as possible. Their hearts are completely in a vacuum, or they can live in a lie, but they can't see the dark clouds, otherwise there will be a storm. Hit a mistress and put all the responsibility on the woman. Such a woman is irrational and tenacious. She put all her troubles on mistress, even sheltering her own man. She always thinks that her man is a good thing, and it is impossible to be framed without meeting a fox. She thinks that the fault is not the man at all, but the woman is shameless and deliberately wants to destroy her home. The spearheads all point to Xiao San, who made a subjective conclusion without asking about the situation. Clean up the third grade first, and then find a way to find your own man. A man has an affair, not necessarily because his wife is not good enough, nor because his mistress is slutty. The responsibility is not on the woman, many women inside and outside the wall are victims. I also admit that some mistresses are immoral and knowingly commit crimes, but why should women embarrass women? It's all because of that garbage. Is it worth it? Besides, rust is conditional. Marriage also needs to be maintained. Make a scene, fight, cry to in-laws and parents, and ask friends for help. Whoever makes a principled mistake in marriage is wrong. Life needs tolerance and resignation, but sometimes it needs catharsis. I understand women's yelling, but I object to that kind of unreasonable behavior. The three common magic weapons that ordinary women want to conquer men are "crying, making trouble and hanging", which are extremely artistic and skillful. Be careful that many women are most likely to be confused and suddenly lose their opinions after the man they love is derailed. As if the sky were falling, they would "seek medical advice" everywhere, leaving their scandals nowhere to hide. Of course, any kind of behavior and measures will have advantages and disadvantages. The key is how to prescribe the right medicine. Some men will mainly persuade, apologize, correct mistakes and guarantee. But some men are very resistant and may not be able to forgive their wives and save this family. Noisy is the instinctive reflex of most women, but it is not a good way to solve the problem. It's okay to put some pressure on men appropriately, and it's normal to talk to relatives and friends. However, the key is to have a good degree, to have its own positioning, to have the ability of self-digestion, and to evaluate the consequences. Emotion is counterproductive. You cheated, I cheated, and I got a balance in revenge. Adapt to life. Women are more or less vengeful, but these women are too strong, seemingly dull and calm, never start work in their mouths, but they are brewing repeatedly in their hearts, like snakes and scorpions. Anyway, I'm afraid of these women. What you did was wrong, and I followed it on purpose. When you complain about me, the old and new accounts are counted together. This is called a tooth for a tooth, blood for blood, and deal with a man as he deals with you. You give me a junior, I give you a fifteen, you are good and I am bad, and life has always been muddling along. You are not afraid of me, and I am not afraid of you. Who can't live without who! Men are very stingy in the relationship between men and women. They can steal big fish and meat outside, but women are not allowed to steal a bite of soup. In the final analysis, the fundamental reason is that women's social status is lower than that of men. I once reminded some playboy men that "when you are anxious to sleep with other people's wives, you might as well put yourself in their shoes." By rights, you cheat, I cheat, and we're even. It seems reasonable, but after all, we are all doing something wrong, which is not feasible in today's mainstream consciousness, and it is also the sorrow of women's choice. I won't let you go after the divorce. I'm having a hard time. You can't. This kind of woman is almost close to abnormal condition or self-collapse. She simply can't accept the fact that men are ungrateful. And she will take the initiative to break up, but she can't face it. When I finally couldn't convince myself, I lost my mind. If the fish dies, the net will break. If I can't, neither can you. Some people even say that if you betray me, I will kill you. 8. Agree to live with her husband and his lover. In a monogamous society, it seems like a joke for a man to live with two daughters-in-law, but it's actually nothing, except that many things are not understood by the public for the time being, and some still find it rare. Although it cannot be put on the table, it actually exists behind the scenes. Two women agree or are willing to wait on a man, which is not something ordinary people do, but it is also considered that a man is capable. As for what women think, I'm afraid they all have their own needs and gains.