Dong Jie and Pan Yueming appeared at the airport at the same time. How did you resolve the embarrassment when you ran into your ex?

Dong Jie and Pan Yueming appeared at the airport at the same time. One had a crowd of fans, and the other was walking alone in the cold hall. Almost no one recognized the former idol. This is quite embarrassing. What's even more embarrassing is that this is an ex.

I have also encountered embarrassing things like running into my ex.

Once I was shopping in a shopping mall and saw my ex walking in my direction not far ahead. I gasped. My heart was pounding, I was so nervous. I turned around quickly, and there happened to be an escalator going downstairs behind me. I quickly went downstairs and found a place to hide.

I don’t know why I am so afraid of seeing him. Maybe the hurt of being rejected is still there. I thought I forgot, but I never did.

After studying psychology, I knew I had to say goodbye to him. Otherwise, this incident will always affect the rest of my life. Thanks to my teachers and best friends for giving me the courage to face this matter again after five years. I picked up my phone, wrote and deleted, deleted and wrote again, and finally plucked up the courage to ask him out to meet.

Some pain needs to be faced head-on, and escaping is not the answer. Anyway, there is no way to escape.

I asked him: "Why did you choose to ask me out on Valentine's Day that year, and then break up with me on Valentine's Day?"

He replied that at that time, he was about to take a further step. The relationship felt a lot of pressure. He didn’t think he could yet promise me a bright future. He wasn't ready.

We toasted together, which was a ceremony to end this relationship. Then, suddenly both of them laughed. Suddenly I felt so relaxed.