My daughter is married. How does my mother feel?

My daughter got married, worked hard to adopt her daughter for more than 20 years, and returned to her adopted daughter overnight.

More than 20 years ago, God gave us our daughter. We are extremely happy, cherish and love her, teach her kindness and tolerance, and cultivate her diligence, strength and self-reliance. For more than 20 years, in the process of our daughter's growth, we have rudely reprimanded and preached wantonly. This is our desire to turn a girl into a chicken, and it is also our hard work of being a father and a mother.

For more than 20 years, more than 9,000 days and nights, only I know how my daughter has grown from a baby girl who was born and weighed six pounds and four ounces to a slim and lovely big girl!

How many hard and hectic days, I always look forward to my child growing up, but she just doesn't. But suddenly she grew up, beautiful, healthy, knowledgeable and married.

Maternal love is great and selfless. I will give up my love for my daughter, but I will also find fault in front of my daughter's boyfriend: an innocent daughter is my mother's treasure and has been in my hand for so long. Now, if I want to marry another person, no matter how excellent he is, there will always be a childish hostility and reluctance, which will make my beloved daughter lightly responsible and puzzled, and will make the prospective son-in-law nervous and guilty.

For more than twenty years, although she made me angry and shed tears, she brought me more happiness and satisfaction. She is the greatest wealth in my life! Now, these "wealth" will be passed on to others. Why don't you make me sad? But I also know that this "transfer" is an inevitable experience in her life. She has changed from a daughter to a wife and daughter-in-law, and will become a mother in the future. This is also the enrichment and sublimation of her life. Being a daughter-in-law's mother, she will grow more mature, richer and happier!

Is the daughter really married? Like dreaming, I often can't sleep, just like watching a slide show. My daughter's experience from childhood to adulthood appeared in front of my eyes, flashing the appearance of her daughter lying in her infancy when she was born; Flash the way she looked when she was nursing; Flash her toddler appearance; She flashed when she was doodling at her desk; The way she practiced the piano flashed by; The moment she danced in sneakers; The way she went to school with her schoolbag on her back flashed by ... now she's getting married. When she was a child, she really got married. I don't know when my tears have wet my pillow. ...

I can't stop my daughter from getting married, and I can't stop my daughter from getting married. When a daughter grows up, she will get married. There is nothing I can do, although I am disappointed too much. I have never thought it so important for my daughter to get married before. I always thought this day was far away from me. Later, I discussed the details of the wedding and bought wedding supplies. In my eyes, my daughter who hasn't grown up is getting married. Since I set a good day for my wedding, I have a feeling of being happy and hard to give up ... I am really sad to think that her life will be entrusted to another strange man. My daughter, who was spoiled from childhood, snuggled up to me from childhood, cried and smiled at me from childhood, is now given to another man, and someone else has replaced me for nothing, which really hurts my heart.