My daughter got pregnant before marriage, and her mother asked her to ask the man for a gift of 500,000 yuan. Do you want to get the result?

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People often say: A daughter is her mother’s caring little cotton-padded jacket.

This shows the importance of daughters in the hearts of parents. In fact, it can be seen that the daughter is relatively considerate to her parents.

Therefore, more parents now prefer to have daughters, which has also led to the change in the mentality of many people who favor sons over daughters.

In fact, both sons and daughters are biologically born to their parents, and parents have the responsibility and obligation to raise their children after they are born. Whether you are giving birth to a son or a daughter, the effort is the same.

At the same time, when parents are old, children have the same obligation to support their parents.

But even though it is said that daughters have little cotton-padded jackets, some parents still have some differences in how they treat their sons and daughters. Some parents even treat their children very differently.

Aunt Lin has two children, a daughter and a son.

Originally, Aunt Lin and her husband were both employees of state-owned enterprises. When they were young, after giving birth to a daughter, the family planning policy was relatively strict, so for them, on the one hand, they wanted A second child, but on the other hand, I dare not go against the country’s policy.

So at that time, Aunt Lin always felt that not having a son was a shortcoming.

However, it should be said at that time that when Aunt Lin had only one daughter, she put all her energy into her daughter. In order to make up for the lack of a son, Aunt Lin liked to use a boyish style. Come dress up your daughter.

Aunt Lin’s daughter Xiaoxiao was often given a boy’s hairstyle and dressed in boy’s clothes by Auntie Lin when she was a child. People who were not very familiar with her often mistakenly thought Xiaoxiao was a boy.

When I was a child, Xiaoxiao was particularly envious of other girls for wearing beautiful skirts, but she was always wearing boys’ clothes, not to mention beautiful skirts, which were just the pink color that girls liked. There are no red clothes.

Xiao Xiao once protested to her parents, but it was of no use at all. Her mother always did things according to her own ideas. In short, dressing Xiao Xiao like this can visually satisfy her desire for a son. psychology.

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I thought I would have one child in this life, but I didn’t expect that when Xiao Xiao was ten years old, Aunt Lin got pregnant unexpectedly.

Aunt Lin was naturally very happy for the arrival of this child, and she longed for a son. Although at that time, it was not confirmed that he was a son, but Aunt Lin at least saw hope.

Finally, after ten months of pregnancy, Aunt Lin gave birth to a son as she wished.

This time it is a real son. Aunt Lin no longer needs to deceive herself visually, because this son is what she has been looking forward to. Therefore, Aunt Lin has always been particularly precious to this son. of.

When she first gave birth to her daughter, Aunt Lin saved as much as she could in order to save money. But for this son, she really gave up everything and wanted the best for her son.

However, after all, the family's conditions are limited, and the couple has to bear the burden of two children. Of course, if she has to choose between the two children, Aunt Lin will definitely be willing to let her daughter suffer.

Since having a younger brother, Xiaoxiao’s treatment at home has been even worse, but after all, these are still his biological parents, so overall, Xiaoxiao can grow up healthy and happy.

However, I have to say that although Aunt Lin had always raised her as a boy when she was a child, this did not affect the beauty of the little one at all, especially after she went to the 17th or 18th grade, she was simply beautiful. So charming, let alone boys who like her, even girls who see her can't help but want to take a few glances.

But one thing is that Xiaoxiao's academic performance is not very good. This is also Xiaoxiao's own reason. She doesn't like studying very much, and her parents don't expect her to go to college, so in this regard, her parents also There were no strict requirements for Xiaoxiao, and in the end Xiaoxiao dropped out of high school before finishing high school.

After dropping out of school, Xiaoxiao did not sit idle at home. She went out to work and was able to earn some pocket money. However, since Xiaoxiao started working, her family counted on her. When she was working, My younger brother has just entered junior high school and the expenses are quite high.

In addition to her younger brother asking for money from her every now and then, her mother also frequently asked her for money for various reasons. In fact, her mother was not without money, but she had her own ideas and planned to spend the money. Save it and keep it for your son’s wedding.

In this aspect, Xiaoxiao has never cared about it, but regarding her marriage, her parents' interference really made Xiaoxiao feel uncomfortable.

Xiao Xiao had been in love once before, and it was Xiao Xiao’s first love. The two of them really loved each other, but because the boy’s family was poor, and his mother deliberately made things difficult, insisting that the boy’s family take the money. Pay a bride price of 500,000 yuan, otherwise the two of you will break up.

At first, Xiaoxiao wanted to stick to her own ideas, but in the end she couldn't help her mother making trouble, and the two broke up.

Since then, Xiaoxiao has not been too enthusiastic about her marriage, but her mother saw that her daughter was so outstanding, and she was happy to arrange various marriage arrangements and blind dates for her daughter.

However, these blind dates basically have one characteristic, that is, the men have good family conditions.

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To be honest, Xiaoxiao really has no interest in those men.

But later, she finally fell in love with someone, and the two of them seemed to like each other. Moreover, Xiaoxiao cooked the uncooked rice into cooked rice with the boy without telling her parents, and got herself pregnant with a child.

In fact, what Xiaoxiao did was to stop her mother from disturbing the relationship between herself and the boy. However, when the little mother found out, she saw that the matter had reached an unstoppable point, and then she directly asked for a bride price of 500,000 yuan.

Although the man's conditions were good, he was still a little shocked by the five hundred thousand gift. After all, the two had just gotten along. When Aunt Lin opened her mouth, the other party was a little hesitant.

Originally, the two of them had further ideas, but just because of the five hundred thousand, they became estranged. Because of this matter, Xiaoxiao also talked to her mother, but her mother said: "Daughter , you have a child in your belly, and you want a gift of 500,000 yuan from them!"

Hearing what his mother said, Xiaoxiao became even more angry, and then said to her mother: "Mom, you are trying to sell me! "Although Xiaoxiao's mother does not agree with Xiaoxiao's "sold" statement, Aunt Lin's actions do make people think so.

Later, Xiaoxiao conveyed her mother’s wishes to the boy. Who knew that the boy’s parents rejected him at once. They said: “You are already pregnant with a child, so what kind of gift do you want? You have to marry whether you want to or not, unless you are not afraid of others laughing at you.”

Looking at the appearance of the boy’s parents, Xiaoxiao was extremely sad. Later, the boy also expressed his thoughts and said: "If you are willing to get married naked, let's get married, otherwise let's forget it."

In the end, Xiaoxiao broke up. After Xiaoxiao returned home, her mother's plan was successful, but Xiaoxiao cried and said, "Mom, no one is planning to marry me anymore. We broke up!"

Looking at Xiaoxiao Yi Xiaoxiao and her mother were completely dumbfounded by Tiantian's bulging belly. One was for love and wanted to be more determined, the other was to "exchange money" for his daughter, but in the end, they all "lost".

For parents, children are priceless treasures. In the hearts of parents, the happiness of their children cannot be measured by money.

That’s why Xiaoxiao was angry about Aunt Lin’s behavior.

In fact, as parents, as long as their children are happy, betrothal gifts and the like don't matter. Do people have to live with money for a lifetime?

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It is true that in a relationship, two ridiculous things happen.

Women, no matter how much they love each other, must leave a private space for themselves. This is advice I have said and written many times. Only lucky people can reap their own happiness by dedicating themselves wholeheartedly to a man, but this happiness is a luxury for many people.

Because, at the beginning of marriage, love has already become a matter between two families.

You devoted yourself wholeheartedly, but you didn’t love yourself enough, and as a result, you got pregnant. The man may be responsible for the consequences, but the man's family may not be willing to let go of this opportunity to degrade you, right? You know, pregnancy before marriage is incomprehensible to many people.

Then there is the little mother.

This mother, if she said that her entire life was wrong, would be a bit exaggerated. At least, before Xiaoxiao was ten years old, she gave all her maternal love to Xiaoxiao, and Xiaoxiao was also happy at that time.

Although Xiaoxiao received less love after the birth of his younger brother, it was not without it. She has fulfilled her responsibilities for giving birth and raising children.

However, fulfilling one's responsibilities does not mean that one is a gift to one's daughter. If parents give their children love with a selfish attitude, then this is taking advantage of them.

It is true that maternal love is great and selfless, but when this love is exchanged for a lifetime of happiness in the future, then the price is too high.

In fact, many elderly people are "homeless" because they do not care about their children's bowl of water.

A daughter is a caring little cotton-padded jacket for her parents. When she wears it on her parents, they actually keep each other warm. Only when her parents give the little cotton-padded jacket warmth, will the little cotton-padded jacket keep the parents warm.

So, family affection, love, and all the feelings in the world are mutual.

Children are the continuation of parents’ lives and proof of the survival of marriage.

Please do not use the idea of ????"men are superior to women" to ruin the happiness of your biological daughter!