My friends always joke that I am fat, and sometimes I feel embarrassed. What should I do?

Of course, friends can joke, but joking should be moderate. Everyone thinks joking is funny, otherwise it is bullying and teasing.

Proper jokes in life can shorten the distance with others and enliven the atmosphere. But pay attention to the occasion and discretion when joking, otherwise it may hurt others' self-esteem. So how to grasp the degree of joking? First of all, we should learn to put ourselves in others' shoes. If we stand in each other's position, what kind of mood will we have? Confucius said, don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you.

Of course, sincere friends will give you some opinions and suggestions in a joking way in order not to hurt each other's feelings, so it is necessary for them to reflect on whether they have done anything bad and correct it. More often, the other person is really just joking, don't take it to heart. The atmosphere between good friends should be harmonious and relaxed. Of course, jokes can be played, and moderate jokes will enhance feelings.

Of course, everyone has their own bottom line. No matter who touches his bottom line, he should tell each other seriously. If the other party really cherishes this friendship, they will attach importance to it in the future. Friends joke too much, so be sure to tell her quickly, so that his friends will know that you mind and correct it.

Of course, there is a limit to joking between friends. Don't expose other people's shortcomings casually, which will hurt their self-esteem. Don't use foul language, it will alienate each other's hearts. Don't involve each other's privacy, especially in public. Don't play tricks on others and treat them as a laughing stock.