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5-year-old children are very disobedient and often make adults angry. Should they fight? How to educate?

Generally speaking, 7 ~ 9 years old is the rebellious period of children, and your baby is five or six years old and has not fully entered the rebellious period of children, but you may wish to refer to some practices corresponding to the rebellious behavior of children. First of all, you can observe whether the baby's behavior is similar to that of a rebellious child.

A child who is in a rebellious period will feel that he is an adult, and he likes to do things by himself and doesn't like others to help him. In addition, they have their own ideas, especially need to be respected and treated equally, and don't like others to make decisions for them without authorization. Only by knowing the reasons for children's disobedience can we find effective improvement methods.

First, pay attention to positive reinforcement and avoid negative reinforcement. When the child obeys the rules and has good performance, he should specifically point out what he has done well and praise it; Don't repeatedly emphasize his mistakes when he deliberately makes trouble or doesn't follow the rules, and you can take a indifferent attitude when appropriate.

For example, when everyone is sitting at the dinner table, the children deliberately run around and make trouble. Parents don't have to reprimand him and force him to come back and sit well. Instead, you can praise all the other members who are eating seriously: "Dad is eating quietly, without running away or screaming. What a great job! Mom is also good at eating and doing well! " . Ignore the child's escape. When the child finally sits down and eats well, he must look at him and say, "The baby is eating well and doing well!" "

This is called positive reinforcement. If you criticize children's shortcomings over and over again, it is called negative reinforcement. The more parents strengthen which side, the more biased the child's behavior will be.

Second, follow the principle of letting go. Don't do everything for the children. Children aged five or six like to try it by themselves. Parents should give their children more opportunities to try on the premise of ensuring their safety. Even if he fails many times, don't worry about helping the child directly, but ask first, "Can I help you?" . Doing it after obtaining his consent not only gives children the opportunity to explore, but also gives them the respect they deserve.

Third, respect children and treat them equally. Many parents don't know what to do. It's actually quite simple. Just treat your child as your good friend. Think about how you get along with your good friends. Will you order or ask your friends to do this or that without authorization? Will you help your friend order healthy and nutritious food without asking his preference?

The answer is no, so respect your child like a friend and ask him more about his thoughts and needs. You will not only gain intimate parent-child relationship, but also gain a baby that will make you worry-free and caring.

Parents may wish to practice the above methods in their daily lives, maintain patience and confidence, and there will be unexpected gains.