Help! ! ! I am a party member in my senior year of high school. Before my senior year of high school, I made preparations for going abroad for the college entrance examination. I plan to study abroad

Help! ! ! I am a party member in my senior year of high school. Before my senior year of high school, I made preparations for going abroad for the college entrance examination. I plan to study abroad if I do well in the college entrance examination (with a score of 630 or above).

This matter is simple to say, but not simple at all.

As someone who has experienced this (I am a freshman this year), let me share with you some of my experiences.

First of all, you need to clarify what your purpose is, why should you go to college? Why do you have to study abroad if you can't pass the exam? If your answer is to keep up with social trends, or entirely because of external pressure such as family environment, I suggest you first carefully think about your real purpose of going to college. This purpose must be beneficial to you (for It is good for family harmony and social development, and it is also because it is an external reflection of your own benefits.) In principle, within a certain period of time, you will not regret the actions you started.

Secondly, if you don’t think clearly, you can have a heart-to-heart talk with your parents at the appropriate time (for example, I often chat with my family during dinner, but the topic of this chat can be light or serious. ) However, you must remember that if your parents show too persistent expectations for you, it is recommended to change the topic. After all, parents will subtly make us make decisions that we think come from our own hearts but are actually infected. It is precisely this kind of hot-headed decision that we regret later.

Thirdly, school can also be a good place for consultation, such as asking classmates about their future prospects (it is recommended to use it as a reference only, after all, individual differences are obvious among classmates), and then Teacher, if you have a good relationship with your class teacher, you can have a heart-to-heart talk at noon or after school (this is very useful for the thoughtful girls in our class). Of course, you can also find the subject that is best for you. Teacher, I believe that every teacher who loves you will take some time to analyze with you, give you some suggestions, and encourage you. Of course, sometimes some teachers will be too concerned and trouble you, so just listen to what you can. Just go in. Of course, if your teacher asks you to do something, just refuse to accept it. A forced life is not what we expect.

Also, if your school provides psychological counseling or counseling, you can also participate. However, psychology will not be of any help to your future, because they help you overcome difficulties and face the present, and of course they will. A little to relax you. For more professional college entrance guidance, after deciding to go abroad or take the college entrance examination, you should find a specialized agency, such as an overseas agency, independent enrollment counseling, or college entrance examination volunteer application consultation. Of course, these are not necessarily necessary (for example, I am knowing about the college entrance examination After completing the results and filling in the application, I went to find professionals to analyze and predict the application situation this year, and made some fine-tuning of the application)

My suggestions are professional step by step, so if you are in a certain previous step I just think that if I think about it well, I can follow my wish without getting too entangled! After all, some things depend on chance.

Of course, this is just a small experience based on my own experience. How useful it is depends on how much your ideas are consistent with mine at the time. But I still want to congratulate you for realizing this problem so early. After all, it's not too late!

Finally, I am a bit shameless and tell you my failed counter-example, hoping that you and I will encourage you.

During the high school entrance examination, because I was recommended by my alma mater, I casually got a not so good score. But my English still became a topic of conversation for others.

When I was a freshman in high school, our teacher asked us to fill in our future intentions. I casually wrote down Beijing Normal University, but the teacher said very seriously that I must be admitted to Peking University. I just passed it off as a joke.

When I was a sophomore in high school, my parents said they wanted me to go to Fudan University. However, I still regarded it as a fantasy told by my parents because they longed for life in the Jiangnan water town.

When I was in my senior year of high school, some of my classmates had already started working hard to go abroad (it turned out that they were all admitted to good universities in the United States, such as UCB, UChicago, and USC), but I didn’t have a strong desire and lived casually. .

When I was in my senior year of high school, I looked at my results as I took mock exams one after another and thought, hey... at least I can get into Nanjing University. But I didn’t pay more for it and focused on making up for the shortcomings. I just lived more lazily every day.

After the college entrance examination, I felt pretty good, so I half-obeyed my parents’ orders and filled out the application form for Peking University.

After the results came out, I was stubborn and refused to admit that I did not do well in the exam at first. I became very sensitive to others saying that I did not do well in the exam. But even then, I did not seriously think about what I would do next. What to do.

It wasn’t until the admission results were actually displayed on the computer screen that I realized how much I regretted my three years of high school, but I didn’t make the necessary efforts in advance. So now I'm accepted into a college that I didn't even have eyes for.

However, the reason why I can share this disgraceful story so grandly is because now I have adjusted my mentality in time and fell in love with the alma mater where I live now, and at least I have a better understanding of life. A short-term but clear goal. I admit that I am busier every day than my first, second and third year of high school. However, I am happy now and I have to work hard to move forward!