What is the reason for abandoning Baochai and choosing Baoyu to become a monk?

In the first eighty chapters of A Dream of Red Mansions, Baoyu did not marry Baochai, nor did he write that Baoyu abandoned Baochai and became a monk. The above is the content of the last forty chapters. According to the fat criticism, it is inferred that Baochai married Baoyu, but Baoyu chose to become a monk.

So why did Baoyu choose to become a monk after marrying Baochai? The reason makes people cry.

The original text is as follows: Baoyu smiled and said, "So you are worried about this, so you are a fool. Don't worry about it anymore. I only tell you one thing: live, we live together, don't live together, we turn to ashes, okay? "

What Baoyu said to Zijuan actually pointed out the real reason why he abandoned Baochai and chose to become a monk. Of course, this reason makes people cry.

1. Baoyu had to marry Baochai. It can be said that Baochai is not the ideal choice in Baoyu's heart. In Baoyu's mind, Daiyu's position is irreplaceable.

After Daiyu's death, Baoyu married Baochai, whom he didn't love, under the arrangement of his mother, Mrs. Wang. Although they also live a relatively quiet life, for Baoyu, the pain of losing his sister Lin has never been solved.

Baoyu once told Zijuan a word in the 57th time, which was also Baoyu's oath to Daiyu and Zijuan. As a result, Daiyu died in love despair, but Baoyu couldn't keep his promise and married Baochai who didn't love him.

Even after marriage, Baoyu was obsessed with Daiyu, and eventually he was afraid that Daiyu would be lonely. In order to fulfill his promise, he became a monk to protect Daiyu for life.

Second, Baoyu is infatuated with Lin Daiyu. Baoyu once swore in front of Zijuan, "Live, let's live, don't live, let's turn to ashes, shall we?" "

These short sentences show Baoyu's deep affection for Daiyu. If Baoyu finally marries Daiyu instead of Baochai. Then even if Baoyu finally experienced many setbacks and hardships, he would not feel tired, and he would not have the idea of becoming a monk.

It can be seen that after Baochai married Baoyu, Baoyu chose to become a monk, which made people cry. Baoyu didn't grow old with Daiyu before his death, so he was afraid that she would be lonely. After some things, Baoyu chose to become a monk. Baoyu chose to accompany Sister Lin in that world in this way.