My mother-in-law always minds if I give pocket money to my natal brother. Am I wrong to do this?

Wrong, to be honest, if you want to help your family, your partner needs to propose it first, so you can’t take it for granted. In the same way, dissatisfaction with your family relationship should be raised by yourself, not your partner first. It's a pity that most people don't understand this truth.

There is a joke on the Internet that can explain all this. A young man gave a beggar 5 yuan every day. One day, the 5 yuan turned into 1 yuan. The beggar asked the reason strangely. The young man said: I get married. The beggar was furious: You actually used my money to marry yourself a wife, that's too much! Although it is a joke, maybe this is really a realistic portrayal of Fu Di Mo.

It is pitiful to be dragged down by your family, but if you place your life on another person, you may start to become hateful... and it also corresponds to the old saying: Poor people must be hateful. .

In fact, everyone should clearly realize that they really do not want to have their blood drawn for the home they have worked so hard for, let alone take care of others when they have no time to do so. This is not stingy and cannot be broken down. Give up your own life to make others happy. I wonder if you are that great?