Why does my father have to make me suffer?

Primitive society, harsh environment, human knowledge and skills are quite scarce.

Protecting future generations means that future generations must learn the skills they have mastered in order to improve their chances of survival. This is the instinct of human reproduction

However, the evolution speed of human brain is far less than that of civilization. The evolution of a species takes at least 10 thousand years, and the living environment is no longer in crisis. But the instinct to reproduce is still there. It is an instinct for a father to let his children repeat their experiences.

You can communicate with him, take your time and convince him that you can live independently, which is also a guarantee for your father's psychological stability.