What do boys want their girlfriends to know?

It is said that boys and girls are species from different planets, but they are indispensable to each other.

So many times, as long as there is a slight deviation in thinking and a slightly different way to solve problems, it will lead to some misunderstandings and contradictions.

So, what do boys want girls to know in love?

When girls understand some of the ideas of most boys, they will not always step on his minefield, causing unnecessary contradictions and their feelings will be more complete.

Boys are human beings, and sometimes they want to cry.

Sometimes you need your girlfriend's care, whether it's illness or a blow at work.

Many times, boys are used to hiding their fragile and sad side unless they really can't help it.

So when they are weak or sad, it is more meaningful than anything to give him a shoulder or stay with them quietly.

Although it doesn't help much, at least I know that I am still by your side when I am most helpless.

Many times, boys should take the initiative, but girls should not be too reserved, waiting for boys to speak;

Falling in love is a matter of two people and a common achievement.

If only one party takes the initiative and the other party does nothing, no matter who is tired in the long run.

Just like sometimes, girls should take the initiative to apologize for doing something wrong, instead of waiting for boys to give themselves a step down every time, because of face.

If you say that, will the boys lose face or lose face?

Then why does he apologize most of the time?

Over time, won't boys get tired? Wonn't you be disappointed

When two people are together, even girls can't be too self-centered;

There are important things, we should communicate and discuss with each other. You shouldn't always make your own decisions.

Just like you want to resign, although his thoughts are unlikely to affect your decision-making, if you say it, the other person will think that you value him very much.

In this way, he will be more willing to communicate with you if there is anything important in the future.

After all, this is a two-way attitude.

Small works are pleasing to the eye, big works are harmful to the body, occasionally, but they should be moderate, which is different from unreasonable troubles;

I tolerate you everywhere, but this is not what I should do.

It is acceptable for you to be willful once in a while.

But in moderation. If your willfulness is too willful and your work is completely unreasonable, it will only affect each other's feelings.

I don't know if it ever occurred to you-

When you are at work, he may be in a bad mood, but it will really make people collapse if he wants to make you happy at once.

Respect for private space and personal secrets, for the predecessor, you don't need to dig all the time, but you need to know everything clearly;

Either have a little privacy and secrets, or cheat on you.

I just need my own time to do something I want to do, which is not too much to ask.

Don't always ask your ex questions. Breaking up means that they are not suitable for each other.

If the answer is true, you will blame him for being too true, eating all kinds of unnecessary vinegar, talking casually and perfunctory. So, neither situation will be very good.

Some questions are unnecessary at all. If you have to ask them just to satisfy your curiosity or prying desire, you may be very unhappy.

If you feel that there is something wrong with your feelings, you can communicate actively, and there is no need to do various tests in private;

If there is anything wrong or makes you unhappy, just say it, don't keep it all in your heart. If you don't guess, it is estimated that you will feel even worse. Therefore, communication is necessary.

However, if you directly cross the communication step and take the inexplicable test in private, then this test will only increase more misunderstandings.

When two people are together, some problems can be completely spread out.

You are not alone, sometimes don't try to be brave;

Some girls are too competitive to tell their boyfriends anything.

In fact, boys hate their loved ones to suffer silently, but they will feel useless if they don't say it.

On the contrary, show weakness when it is time to show weakness.

You must realize one thing clearly-

Women's proper weakness and coquetry will make men feel more fulfilled and enhance their feelings.

When quarreling, don't break up easily, there is nothing to talk about;

Many girls quarrel and like to say goodbye.

It seems that this is the biggest weight that can suppress my boyfriend and make him feel threatened and apologize to himself.

But quarrels always break up, and if you talk too much, you may really break up in the end.

Because no one wants to be humble all the time, please don't break up and leave. It's a bit difficult once, twice, three times and four times.

You have your bottom line and he has his principles. Many times you can let him go, but when it comes to principles, it is necessary to discuss them well.

Everyone has his own principles, whether boys or girls.

Sometimes, when a girl touches a boy's principle, whether intentionally or unintentionally, she should have a frank talk with the other party. If it is really their own fault, they should apologize.

Don't always use the identity of "girl" as a shield, refuse to communicate or apologize.

If you want to be together for a long time, you must have an attitude.

It is not easy for two people to be together.

If there is no firm determination and correct attitude, it is really not far away.

When boys are willing to tolerate more girls' little willfulness; When girls are willing to know him better and respect him; When each other will do their best for this love-

Then, the fragile love of saplings can grow into indestructible towering trees.

It is a small probability for two people to meet, and it is the best thing for two people to fall in love. Everything you meet is providence, and everything you have is luck. Learn to love, and you will be happier.