Joke video of the old lady going on a picnic.

Real life cycle

On the Mid-Autumn Festival reunion night, after Jia Zheng and Jia She left, when Jia Jia was with his family's harem, time suddenly became particularly slow, and there were many poetic descriptions in this slowness.

Including the old lady enjoying osmanthus, watching moonlight, and then looking for someone to play the flute. When the flute came from a distance, the old lady burst into tears.

This flute must have caused her a lot of troubles. Since I married the Jia family in my teens, I am now 80 years old. She has witnessed all the difficulties experienced by this family, but the biggest difficulty now is that money is unrestrained.

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There are two kinds of time in the art world, one is physical time, and the other is time in movies. A minute can be a long time. When will the time in literature become longer? When you cling to something, that time will become a very slow lens.

I hope everyone can understand Jia Mu's mentality. She is the first generation of entrepreneurs in this family, and wealth means nothing to her. What she cares about is the harmony and warmth of the whole family. But suddenly found that even the mother has a knot, the son will use jokes to insinuate the mother's eccentricity, giving people a sense of desolation.

Although we often advise our friends that there is nothing eternal in the world, you still can't bear to part with it in the end. Everyone can clearly feel Jia's attachment to this Mid-Autumn Festival night.

For Jia Mu, this is the last Mid-Autumn Festival night and the last family reunion. I hope that when you read this article, you can feel the bitterness of Jia Mu's efforts.

As an old lady in her eighties, she should be the most tired, but because she thinks she is the big tree, once the tree falls, her sons and nephews will disperse faster.

In fact, people's life, family life, there are so-called ups and downs. In fact, there is nothing absolutely good or bad about particularly natural ups and downs. The mountains are heavy, so they rise and fall.

Life is like this, so is family. After the peak, it will inevitably fall. This is the law of nature and of course the law of life.

Everyone has a different reaction to the decline of the family. Baochai chose to leave, and Tanchun wanted to make a final effort. Daiyu and Xiangyun think that our youth used to be so beautiful. After that peak, they no longer care about the decline after it.

If life stays at the peak of youth, it is likely to be like a plastic flower, not a real life cycle. I think these are probably the deeper philosophies in A Dream of Red Mansions.

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Everything has shortcomings.

Li Wan and Feng are also absent, which shows that someone is absent from this lively reunion night. Have you found out that the elderly will pay special attention to grandma's absence? For her, if the reunion cannot be completed, there will be shortcomings and it will be incomplete.

I have read it seventy-six times and many times, always thinking, what is the deepest wisdom in life? It's time to stop, or accept the fact that it's over.

Life will do this homework one day, and it will end when it is time to end. However, the grandmother persisted that night, and dragging it became another embarrassment.

The old lady wants everyone to go out and enjoy the moon like a picnic. She wants to continue this joy in various ways and keep all the good things in life, such as the bright moon, the flowers and the flute, which is what we often say: the flowers are long, the months are long and round, and people are long.

At this time, the flute sounded again: "I can only hear osmanthus purring and swallowing in the shade, curling up, and another flute sound."

"It seems more desolate than the first time. Everyone sat in silence. " What is said here is the state of mind, but now the loneliness in my heart has come out, and the author uses music to bring out the disillusionment of family decline. "Grandmother Jia, an old drinker, couldn't help crying when she heard this."

Jia seldom cried, because she knew that she was that big tree and couldn't slip, but at this moment she couldn't help crying, because she suddenly found that it was time to say goodbye. And this farewell is not what she imagined, but the feeling of walking away one by one.

You are the most interesting. You are most afraid of others being unhappy. In order to make Jia Jia happy, she said, "I also learned a joke from my ancestors."

I think everyone will get the creeps, because Mrs. You is too honest, and people who can tell jokes are a little mean and scheming. How can a person like her tell jokes?

You Shi said, "There are four sons in a family: the eldest son has one eye, the second son has one ear, the third son has only one nose and one eye, and the fourth son is mute ..." You.

In his jokes, it is implied that there is no perfection in the world and everything has defects. You Shi, such a wooden person, could say such a wise thing, and she certainly didn't know it herself.

Few writers in this world have such a thorough understanding of life and can describe life so vividly and freely.

"Just then, I saw Grandmother Jia's eyes dim, as if she were asleep." After reading these, I wonder if everyone has the same feelings as me. I really hope that Jia Mu's sleep is true.

Because it is better not to listen to this joke, there is no need to remind her that everything in her life is incomplete, because she wants perfection too much, but everything is incomplete.

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Farewell is an important knowledge in life.

"You's family stops, please wake up with Mrs. Wang." Grandmother Jia opened her eyes and smiled, "I'm not sleepy. I just closed my eyes to recuperate. Just say it, I'm listening. "

It suddenly occurred to me that my brother and sister were very nervous before my mother died, because every time I saw her fall asleep while watching TV, she woke up as soon as you turned off the TV and said I didn't sleep! At first, we argued with her angrily. Later, we felt that she really didn't understand. In fact, she just wants something around her, even if there is sound.

At that time, the child was too busy to accompany her, and TV was probably more dear to her than the child. Every time I told this story to my friends, everyone decided to go home for dinner with my mother because the old man was afraid of loneliness.

Next time you meet an old man who said the same thing to Jia Mu, don't poke her, because it will do her great harm. In fact, she is afraid of the end of the song.

Mrs. Wang said with a smile, "It's already four o'clock at night, and it's windy. Please ask the old lady to rest. I will reward you with sixteen tomorrow, and you will live up to the moonlight. " But as we all know, it's not the 15th or 16th National Congress, and it's the grandmother who is afraid to bid farewell to her life. This farewell is a very important study in life, and it is much more difficult to do this homework than in school.

"Where is the fourth watch?" Jia mu asked. She didn't know that time would pass, so she was surprised. In other words, you can say, "How come four generations have passed like this? How can I be eighty years old? "

There is always a moment of experience in life, and it feels like time is a moment. I have been writing slowly in front, and it is almost dawn now.

The most important sentence is, "The Lady Dowager heard that after a closer look, they all dispersed, and Tanchun was the only one here.". I've always stressed that Tanchun is the last girl who has to work hard to stick to it. Because she saw the future tragedy of her family, she still had that enthusiasm.

Grandmother Jia said with a smile, "OK. Can't get used to staying up late, but also worry about being weak and sick. " Note that this sentence also implies that there are no healthy people in this family.

I remember that the first generation of Ning Guogong was created by Jiao Da from the dead. The first generation was full of energy from scratch, so Jia Mu was very excited. How can the fourth generation be weak and sick?

"There are only three poor girls. You also go, we are going to break up. " With that, the old lady "got up, took a sip of tea, prepared a small bamboo chair and sat around a cloak. Two women put the cloak up and everyone followed her out of the garden."

Jia's decision to break up shows that she has accepted the fact that her family has declined. Her phrase "I'd rather have trouble" seems to mean family and herself.

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