Some parents said, "I knew he couldn't go to college." What problems do parents' words reflect?

I believe many people will hear their parents say that if they had known, they would not have sent you there to study. When parents say this, they also hate iron and don't produce steel. They think it's useless for you to go to college. However, it is also possible that parents expect too much from you. When you don't meet your expectations, your parents will be disappointed, and then they will think that going to college has wasted your life, so it is better to go out to work. Don't be sad at this time, you must cheer up and try to prove to your parents that going to college is useful.

What problems do parents' comments reflect?

In fact, parents didn't mean it. He just doesn't know how to express his expectations to you, so he hates iron to produce. After all, parents think that it is possible to find a very good job after going to college, but now that the university degree has depreciated, even if you go to college, you may not be able to find a better job, and you may go home after graduation. So you should tell your parents about the current social development and don't let them be in a state of ignorance. If your parents just want to experience you, you can also work hard.

Your parents expect a lot from you and hope you can succeed.

Parents have great expectations for their children, hoping that their children can live better and not be looked down upon by others. Because parents have tasted the hardships of life, they don't want their children to try. They hope that children can change their fate through reading, so that children can find a stable job, and there is great room for appreciation. So when you are in college, you can also determine your future life plan, and then tell your parents about it so that they can be psychologically prepared.

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Every pair of parents love their children very much, so you should also understand their good intentions and don't think their parents are insulting you. If your parents always say such things to you, you can also talk to them and ask them to stop talking.