I understand the truth, but I just don’t want to be reasonable.

There was a sentence on the poster of the movie "Unfortunately": You know a lot of truths, but you still have a hard life.

This actually does not have much causal relationship. If you know something, you may not be able to do it, and if you know it, you may not necessarily do it. If you do it, you will not necessarily live a good life in this life, and if you fail to do it, you will not necessarily live a bad life in this life.

In fact, I know many truths and I can’t do them, but I don’t think I have a bad life.

In fact, there are times when we don’t want to and don’t need to be “reasonable”.

In the evening, kid Yiyi was fussing over some things that shouldn’t be fussed over again.

She broke open the big plastic flower and sat her little doll inside. Let me tell you, this is the flower fairy.

Put the boiled eggs in hot water, put them under the quilt, put them in your pocket, and then told me seriously: Shhh, the chicks will hatch soon.

Turn out your own skirt and put it on a rabbit, a monkey, or a pig (plush toy)

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< p> The house is usually tidy and messy at the same time...

I can't help but say: I have said it many times, don't do this, don't do that...

" Why do we children have to listen to you adults?" she asked me.

"Why? Because what adults say is true."

"Why do you adults have so many truths!"

I was dumbfounded...

Then she sang a song from "Big Ear Tutu" (Why do children have to be obedient? Why do fathers love their mothers? Why does the sight of ice cream make people's mouth water?) and walked away from me in a majestic manner.

Yes, we grow up in the doctrine, and grow old in the doctrine. We are shackled by the world and fettered by the truth.

This world is full of principles and philosophies. However, are so many seemingly useful principles completely useful to one person?

You don’t listen to some truths because you simply don’t believe them.

I remember one day I went home and heard my mother-in-law sighing. A distant niece fell in love with a man from another province. The family conditions were not good, and no amount of persuasion at home was of any use. They are all worried about her. I don’t know how much hardship she will have to endure if she really wants to marry in the future.

Think about it, this is an age when love is well-fed. There are no cars, houses, or children. There is only each other between heaven and earth. This is the most original love between children and the most authentic form of love. No one can do it. Can't be stopped.

It’s more like myself when I was young. I fell in love with someone when I was working outside. There were thousands of mountains and rivers separating my home from home, my parents didn’t agree with me, my relatives and friends gave me kind words, and my aunts and uncles were kind-hearted. Advice, but at that time I was obsessed with love, I only wanted to be fascinated by the little happiness, and I didn't listen to these dry principles.

Only when I have hit a wall, fallen down, shed tears, realized that I can’t ask for anything, and have to learn from my last resort, can I understand what it means to have a full ideal and a skinny reality. Only now do I have no regrets, no regrets for loving someone vigorously, and no regrets for leaving someone resolutely.

There are many truths that you don’t listen to because you simply don’t believe them. When you don’t believe it at all, those lessons learned from the past, the words of old people, the experiences and lessons of people who have been there, even the chicken soup and chicken blood in the current circle of friends, the witty sayings that go viral on the Internet, and the weak water, you only choose the right drink. . Only by hitting the south wall can we turn around. Or maybe, after knocking down the south wall, you see another world.

There are some truths, and you believe them, but you still don’t want to “reason” because you have reason in your heart.

For example:

I know people need to be truthful and seek truth from facts! However, when posting selfies in my circle of friends, I still have to use trendy selfies. The reality is so cruel, please give us a better perspective in the circle of friends.

I know that once you get married, you won’t have to worry about other handsome guys all the time. But, I was thinking about John Chung in my heart, looking at Lee Jong Suk in my eyes, and dreaming about Jang Keun Suk in my dreams. Beautiful things can help you feel happy, and it is said that they can also help digestion.

I know that as a mother, you have to take care of your husband and your children, and follow the three obediences and the four virtues. However, I will still leave my husband and children behind and run to see the mountains, rivers and seas, and the beautiful scenery.

Occasionally, I can be a young man who is as free as the wind, flying between heaven and earth, which is further away than a dream.

I know that the immune system (lymphatic system) starts to detoxify between 9 and 11 pm. However, I still linger until very late, scrolling through my circle of friends to see who ate delicious food, bought beautiful clothes, who got chicken blood, and who spilled dog blood today. After a busy day, only this time is the most peaceful time. There is no hustle and bustle, and it is so nice to just spend some time with yourself quietly.

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These so-called truths are not wrong. However, people live not just to have more life experiences. It would be too uninteresting to live by referring to these principles one by one. If you are bound by too many principles, you will lose your true temperament. You have your reasons, and I have my choice!

You know some truths, you believe them, and you understand that if you do it, you will have a different world. But, does what applies to others also apply to you?

That night, I saw Mi Meng writing this paragraph:

Seeing this, I really only have admiration and admiration in my heart.

I can’t do this kind of effort, not even half of it, not even half of it.

This week’s status has only three words: Busy! busy! busy! So this week’s Tuesday article, I suddenly wanted to cancel it because I was really tired.

In fact, compared with those who really work hard, my tiredness is nothing. And such intensity has already made me feel no! Shu! suitable!

Ever since I set up a public account, I always feel like I don’t have enough time. I used the time I spent watching TV series in the evening to read books; I used the time I devoted to raising my children to find materials; I used the time I spent doing whatever I wanted to do to think about the topic of the next article...

In fact, I fully understand that if a person is lazy for a long time, working hard will feel like trying his best. So I’m making excuses for myself to get back into my comfort zone.

In fact, if you think about it carefully, nothing is easy.

Kobe Bryant said, have you ever seen what Los Angeles looks like at four in the morning? Mi Meng said that she had seen Beijing at three o'clock in the morning, four o'clock in the morning, and five o'clock in the morning. Her talent and acquired hard work made her a big star.

In order to write, an author often retreats to read and concentrate on coding. He spends far more time looking at words than looking at the sky. So he quickly became a columnist.

In the writing group, some mothers get up at 5 a.m. every morning to get two hours of writing time; some mothers put their children to sleep and continue to get up from the warm bed to code. . Therefore, they are making rapid progress.

These diligence and persistence, efforts and perseverance will be accurately recorded by the precise machine of time, and the weight and value that match them will eventually be calculated.

It’s not that I don’t understand this principle of “fight until you’re powerless and persevere until you’re moved”, but why haven’t you really thought about doing this?

Because of these principles, in my current state, I have been lingering outside my self-imposed limits, which cannot be broken from the outside or from the inside.

I firmly believe that I am just a drop in the vast sea of ??writing, and I only have a small corner that makes me happy for a moment. Without a definite profit motive, everything is just about feelings and love; without pushing yourself to a desperate situation, you will never know what your potential will be. Before everything reaches the "dead end", it is impossible to experience the surprise of "survival".

Platforms have different levels, patterns, and differences within themselves. What applies to others may not necessarily apply to you. Everyone has the upper and lower limits of everyone’s efforts. Each week’s update will let you know There is an uncomfortable feeling. If you continue to use the "Iron Man" style of hard work, you will end up with only two words: hold on! A simple mechanical spirit of hard work. Under heavy pressure, either a brave man will become a reckless man, and the gain will not be worth the loss. It's better to make every inch of it, to make every inch of it, to transform it bit by bit, to match just the right amount of effort with just the right amount of pleasure.

There is no magic formula that can cure all diseases, and there is no truth that can be applied to all countries and will not be inconsistent with it for a hundred generations. After all, humans are not “rational beings.” There are always some emotional experiences that are outside of "reason". Once you understand the truth, you can't control your sensibility. As long as you understand what you are pursuing, then believe in the principles that match it and put in the same amount of effort.

Just like, I don’t want to cry while sitting in a BMW, nor do I want to laugh behind a bicycle, so I can sit in a Chevrolet to take shelter from the wind and rain, okay? I don’t want to see Yujin Town under the stars and the moon at four in the morning, nor do I want to stay awake all day long with nothing to do. I just bathe in the morning light at eight or nine o’clock and admire the starry sky at ninety o’clock, okay? What’s the harm in pursuing perfection and the golden mean on the basis of moderation?

As the saying goes, a soldier who doesn't want to be a general is not a good soldier, but a soldier who can't be a general all day long just wants to be a general is not a good soldier either.

As long as the truth is endless, every inch you take will bring you an inch of joy.