Respectful composition

Respect is a flower, a flower that opens in the heart; Respect is a road, a road to beauty; Respect is a fire, a fire that warms you and me. The following is a selection of my essays on respect, hoping to help you!

Chapter 1: Learn to respect.

Respect is a sincere smile on your face; Respect is listening when others express different opinions; Respect is applauding the efforts of others. Respect seems to be dedicated to the people around you.

The ancients said, "People respect others, and others respect others." In ancient China, respect for others was the first moral priority. In the Tang Dynasty poet Du Mu's "Li Shang Taiwei on Northern Affairs": "Dare to be humble and respect." There is a passage in Lu Jia's "New Language Qualification Certificate" in Han Dynasty: "The son of husband and wife, the friend of aristocrats and the friend of relatives, although they have no outstanding talents, are in a privileged position, strong and auxiliary, skillfully decorated and invincible." Wait, it's all about educating us to respect others.

We were all brought up. Television? Slogans such as "Don't laugh at disabled people" are often seen in books. When I was young, I read such a story in a book, and I was deeply impressed: in America, a well-known rich businessman was walking and met a skinny young man who was selling second-hand books. He flinched in the cold wind and chewed moldy bread. Fortunately, the rich businessman put $8 into the young man's hand and left without looking back. Not far away, the rich businessman suddenly came back, picked up two old books from the stall and said, "Sorry, I forgot to take them." . In fact, you are a businessman like me! "Two years later, a wealthy businessman was invited to participate in a charity fund-raiser. A young bookseller held his hand and said gratefully," I always thought that I had only the fate of setting up a stall and begging in my life until you told me personally that I was a businessman like you, which made me build up my self-esteem and self-confidence, thus creating today's achievements ... "It is not hard to imagine that without such respect and encouragement, this rich businessman would give more money to young people.

Respect is a great wisdom, because you know it, so you are compassionate. It is not difficult to respect the similarities between others and yourself. The excitement of meeting a bosom friend is enough to cover up the light of "respect" It's hard to respect the differences between others and yourself. You think smoking is harmful to health and pollutes the environment, but he regards it as an adjustment. He said that life should be positive and enterprising, fresh and strong, and you just want to live a quiet and comfortable life. Everyone is different, and there are thousands of differences. Respect is to look at each other objectively with appreciation, not asking for the same, but facing up to differences. Therefore, people who know how to respect others have realized the great wisdom of life. Therefore, elegant posture and calm behavior are because you have enough self-confidence to support yourself and enough tolerance to treat others. So it will be respected by others, because its noble and peaceful atmosphere is really attractive.

When we learn. When we know how to respect others, our life will be more harmonious and beautiful. A gentleman is noble, putting his ancestors before himself. -Book of Rites

Chapter 2: Respect is a virtue.

Students, do you know? A warm word, a kind smile and a friendly gesture can show respect for others.

I have read a book, and the story of "29 cents donation" in the book deeply moved me and deeply understood it. Mother Teresa, the protagonist in the story, is praised as "the mother of the poor" by the world. She specializes in helping the poor and defending the dignity of the weak. Mother Teresa has said many times: "The poor have no money and no status, but there is no lack of mutual help and understanding. This is the greatness of the poor. As long as we are willing, each of us, even a humble beggar, can offer love and help others. " Yes, even beggars know how to respect others, so shouldn't we know how to respect others more?

In real life, there are many people worthy of our respect. For example, cleaners get up early every day to clean roads and streets in the dark. They are not afraid of the hot sun in sunny days and the wind and rain in rainy days, making our home so clean, fresh and beautiful. Day after day, year after year, they still keep on working and never complain. Don't their efforts deserve our respect?

Another example: the police uncle, stick to his post every day and don't let criminals take advantage of it. Especially the traffic police, they not only diligently command the passing vehicles on the road, but also check the drivers who drink and drive. If they find the suspicion of drunk driving, they will stop it in time to prevent serious traffic accidents. Don't they deserve our respect for sticking to their posts and being highly responsible?

Whitman once said, "If you don't respect others, you don't respect yourself first." Yes! As long as we respect others, others will respect you. If you don't respect others, how can you get their respect?

Especially when dealing with foreign guests, we should be humble, warm and generous. Be polite in front of foreign guests, don't pick your nose, open your mouth and pick your teeth, don't pick your ears, stretch, hum a tune, yawn, etc. We should respect the customs of foreign guests and don't comment on their clothes, appearance and movements.

Students, please remember: respect is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. Respect for others means respect for yourself.

Chapter III: Respect for Composition

It complements sincerity, humility, tolerance, appreciation and kindness, and is incompatible with hypocrisy, arrogance, meanness, ridicule, malice and incompatibility. Give respect to successful people and express their admiration and pursuit of successful people; Show respect to the losers and show sympathy and encouragement to the losers. This is respect.

When businessmen saw a pencil salesman in rags, they felt sorry for him. Without thinking, he put 10 yuan into this man's hand. After a few steps, he suddenly felt that it was wrong to do so, so he quickly came back to apologize and said that he forgot to take the pen. I hope you don't mind. Finally, he said solemnly, "You are a businessman like me."

Two years later, in a busy market, a well-dressed salesman met the businessman and introduced himself gratefully: "You may have forgotten me long ago, and I don't know your name, but I will never forget you. You made me regain my self-esteem and self-confidence. I always felt like a beggar selling pencils until you told me yourself that I am a businessman like you. "

I didn't expect that such a simple sentence of business is business, but it can make a person with inferiority build up self-esteem and make a person in trouble regain self-confidence. It is with this self-esteem and self-confidence that he saw his true self and created himself today through unremitting efforts. This is respect.

It is accidental that this beggar-like pencil salesman is respected by others. However, only if you sincerely give others respect, you will certainly get others' respect:

A female manager who succeeded in becoming a manager told her story like this: A few years ago, she was only a small employee of an enterprise with a low income, but her son asked to buy her a football. This is impossible for this family with difficulties in food and clothing. Not long after, her boss knew about it, gave his mother a brand-new football and said to her, "Although we can't give you a higher salary, your position in our mind is very important." She was moved by this respectful remark. From then on, she devoted all her intelligence to this enterprise and eventually became a manager. This is respect.

No one is perfect. We have no reason to admire people who are "higher" than us in some aspects, and we are not qualified to laugh at people who are "lower" than us with dismissive eyes. We can't use arrogance and persistence to hurt others' self-esteem, nor can we use inferiority or jealousy to replace due respect. A person who truly deserves people's respect is bound to face this chaotic world with an equal attitude, a normal mind and a calm mind.

This is respect.

Chapter IV: Respect

There is an emotion that is the most sacred in the world, and an action that is the most precious in the world. This is respect.

I once heard a story: On a trip, a couple met a disabled person. Chatting on the road gradually became active. After arriving at the scenic spot, the disabled people successfully passed through the disabled-only passage without spending a penny. One of them saw it and said to his partner, "I'll try it, too." After that, he bought a pair of black sunglasses and put them on. He went to the disabled aisle and said to the staff, "My eyes …" Before he finished, the staff opened the door for him. The man left happily, and his partner was puzzled! If so, isn't everyone following suit? When waiting in line at the gate, the staff said, "Please tell your friends not to do this kind of petty gain again. I only let him in because the disabled person in front hasn't gone far. If you argue with him, it will only make the disabled feel insulted after hearing it. "

This is a true story, and the staff built this bridge of respect with understanding and kindness. Let everyone be moved by the lineup. Respect is an important part of interpersonal communication. Only by respecting each other can we become a harmonious society.

I wonder if you have noticed that there is always a seat on the bus-a seat for the disabled. This is the concern and understanding of the society for the disabled, and it is also a silent respect. But every time I get on the bus, it is always occupied by all kinds of healthy people, which also makes everyone feel embarrassed. Respect is a flower, and only when you water it with your heart will it produce the most beautiful color.

I don't know if you have noticed that there are always two lines of yellow "ribbons" on the street. Yellow, what a warm and bright color! The "yellow ribbon" is occupied and trampled by vehicles of various colors. This also makes the blind feel inconvenient. The blind road is a very common thing, but it shows how many people respect and care for the disabled. Isn't stepping on the blind road stepping on dignity? In society, only by respecting each other can there be a real heart-to-heart ribbon!

Respect is a detail, but it is also a small detail in daily life. Only by letting the flower of respecting morality bloom will there be a better tomorrow!

Chapter 5: Respect for Nature

The wind blows through vilen, dandelions sail in the wind, go far away and hold their hands; The wind blows across the sky, kites fly offline and go far away, and their whereabouts are in their own hands. Everything in the world has its own destination and its own posture. Then, why impose your will on him and increase his troubles?

I still remember Taiwan Province writer Lin Qingxuan's article "Redwood", a very short article, which talked about the experience of planting trees and also involved the problem of being a man. The growth of redwood has its own rules, so does watering trees. If it is watered too much, the root will be immersed in water for a long time and can't contact with the air, so the tree will die. Water less, and the tree will die if there is not enough water; If you water it frequently, the tree will depend on people, not people. If you water less, the leaves will not grow well. Only by being diligent and sloppy, simulating the self-heating state, can the tree flourish after leaving people.

Grain has its own growth cycle, and it will only get nothing if it is promoted by seedlings. The way of nature cannot be violated. Trees have their own growth cycle, and only by driving the axe into the mountains in time can we find suitable wood. The way of nature needs to be followed.

When the pool moved, the fish came and the fish was happy. Still unhappy? If you are not a fish, how can you know the happiness of fish? This sentence, which has been passed down through the ages, has awakened many people who are trying to figure out people's hearts. Similarly, Kong also said a similar sentence: Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. That's true! Everything has its reason for existence and its posture for existence. Why interfere?

Digging trees, making exquisite notebooks and disposable chopsticks show that what it wants may only be prosperity under the sky.

Dig out the turf, transplant it indoors and make it a part of the house. Being appreciated the next day shows that what it wants may just be swaying in the wind.

Picking flowers and putting them in vases shows that all it wants is to swim freely in the water.

Everything has its own attitude, why force change?

Chapter 6: I learned to respect others.

I am very casual at home. I always push the door into my parents' room and never knock. I don't know how many times I have been criticized for this, but I still don't change my fault. But that time, I learned to respect others.

People in spring are groggy and want to sleep. I want to tell my mother that I'm going to bed. As usual, I pushed through the door. Unexpectedly, my mother, who was reading a novel in bed, let out a scream of fear. When she saw it was me, she shouted angrily, "Why didn't you knock when you came in?" Scared to death! "I didn't expect my mother to be so angry. I was wronged: didn't I knock? As for it? The more I think about it, the angrier I get. I quarreled with my mother, and my mother was not to be outdone. She quarreled with me while drinking water. Two shrill voices cut through the quiet sky and danced in the air full of gunpowder.

The quarrel of knocking at the door continued, and the fierce quarrel alarmed dad. Dad rushed over to stop the fight before he could calm down the war. My mother and I both went back to our rooms angrily. After a while, my father knocked at the door and came in. Patted me on the shoulder and said: My mother has a bad heart and is most afraid of being strongly stimulated. If it is late at night, something will happen if you push the door without saying hello. What's more, it's disrespectful for you to go in and out without knocking.

Looking out of the window, it should be the most intense moment of sunshine, but it is gloomy at this time. The breeze came at me through the screen window, which made me awake a lot and gradually calmed down. Think about it quietly and put yourself in the other's shoes. How would I feel if I was inside the door and people pushed in without saying hello? In my mind, there was a scene of my parents' surprised eyes when I pushed the door in, and what they said in half. Memories of the past come to mind, and guilt and regret follow. I think I really did something wrong. I should tap on the door and tap on other people's hearts.

I went to the door of my mother's room and knocked twice. I went into my mother's room and admitted my mistake to her. We're back together.

The next morning, the soft sunshine shone into my bedroom, with a faint fragrance. At this moment, my door rang and my mother came in with a smile. It turns out that knocking at the door is so sweet and so beautiful.

That time, I learned to knock, and more importantly, I learned to respect others! Respect is mutual. If you respect others, others will respect you. In the world of respect, open your beautiful heart, be kind to others, maintain a good relationship and create a harmonious and beautiful world.

Chapter 7: At that time, I learned to respect.

Respecting others is a virtue, but do we all know how to respect others? We have lived in a happy family since childhood, and we are the apple of our parents' eye. We are usually used to coquetry and making trouble without reason, so we are very unreasonable and nobody takes it seriously, let alone "respect". However, there is one thing I will never forget, because it taught me two words-"respect".

At this time, I will be six years old again. The weather at that time seemed terrible and gray, but it didn't mean cloudy. There is neither rainy night nor wind, but it is like a scorching sun. The weather is too hot, which is unbearable and depressing. My mood is also disturbed by the weather. I just want to go home quickly and go to bed early.

On the way home, the crowd was bustling and my mood was even more depressed. When I was walking, I felt that I had been hit by someone. Those who fall down are about to have an attack. At first glance, he is a senior boy, wearing strange clothes, listening to mp3 players and eating melon seeds. You can tell at a glance that he has been spoiled since childhood. He ate melon seeds, and the skin of melon seeds was sprinkled on a cleaner all the way. Not only did he not give way to the cleaner, but he also ate melon seeds and stepped on the broom of the cleaner. He trampled the broom, but he didn't stop and scolded the cleaner. The cleaner seems to bow his head and say nothing, some angry but some helpless. At this time, a man came out of the crowd, stopped the senior, gave him a loud education, and whispered something to him, and the boy left despondently. The man comforted the cleaner and helped him sweep some melon seeds. It must be unexpected that this man who hit the road is actually a student as big as that spoiled boy, with similar age and different behavior. When someone asked him why he did this, he replied categorically: "Respecting others is a virtue that everyone wants and should do. We should respect everyone, no matter how noble or humble he is. "

Although it has been a long time, this sentence is deeply imprinted in my mind and memory. I also deeply understand and appreciate the meaning and philosophy of this sentence. From then on, I learned to respect. ...

Chapter 8: Learn to respect.

I once heard such a story:

When businessmen saw a pencil salesman in rags, they suddenly felt pity. Without thinking, he stuffed 10 yuan into the pencil seller's hand and walked away without looking back. After a few steps, he suddenly felt that it was wrong to do so, so he quickly returned and apologized for forgetting to take the pen. I hope you don't mind. Finally, he said solemnly, "You are a businessman like me."

A year later, in a warm and grand social occasion, a salesman in a suit and tie met the businessman and introduced himself gratefully: "You may have forgotten me long ago, and I don't know your name, but I will never forget you. You made me regain my self-esteem and self-confidence. I always felt like a beggar selling pencils until you told me yourself that I am a businessman like you. "

I didn't expect such a simple business statement to make a person who is not without inferiority suddenly build up self-esteem and make a person in trouble regain self-confidence. It is with this self-esteem and self-confidence that he saw his own value and advantages and finally succeeded through hard work. It is not difficult to imagine that if there were no such words of respect and encouragement at the beginning, even giving him several thousand yuan would not help, and there would never be a huge change from self-admission to self-confidence. This is respect, and this is the power of respect!

Respect is a kind of cultivation, a kind of character, an equal treatment of others, and a full affirmation of others' personality and value. No one can be perfect. We have no reason to judge others with lofty eyes, and we are not qualified to laugh at others with indifferent eyes. If others are inferior to ourselves in some ways, we can't hurt others' self-esteem with arrogance and disrespect; If we are inferior to others in some places, we don't have to replace our due respect with inferiority or jealousy. A person who truly knows how to respect others is bound to face the strong and weak in all undertakings, all the luck and misfortune in life with an equal attitude, a normal heart and a calm mood.

Respect is a spring breeze, a clear spring, a warm sleeping pill and an inspiring tonic. It often complements sincerity, humility, tolerance, appreciation, kindness and friendliness, and is incompatible with hypocrisy, arrogance, harshness, ridicule, malice and snobbery. Give respect to successful people and show admiration, praise and pursuit of others' success; Giving respect to those who fail is sympathy, comfort and encouragement to others after their failure. As long as there is respect, there is true feelings in the world, and there is hope in the future. After success, there will be continuous progress, and after failure, there will be a comeback.

Respect is not blind worship, nor disgusting flattery; It is not unprincipled humility, nor is it condescending without self-esteem. Knowing the importance of respecting others does not mean learning how to respect others. In this sense, respect is also a science. When you learn to respect others, you learn to respect yourself, and you also learn and master a major meaning of life.

Let's savor and explore slowly on the road of life!