Only when young people overcome five difficulties, such as "getting a wife, making money and achieving goals", can they achieve success.

at the age of p>2, it can be called the flower season of life, the best time of life, and the age when a person begins to struggle. But society is always full of temptations, and young people are not strong in self-restraint, so it is easy to lose themselves in some life traps and eventually lead to failure in life. What are the pitfalls to avoid in a 2-year-old life? If you want to know, let me reveal the secret for you:

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As an ancient saying goes, "Be realistic, be sincere, be righteous, cultivate one's morality, keep one's family in order, govern the country, and level the world". People's life is faced with many frustrations, and we need to face them bravely. At the same time, the road of life will be full of flowers, but some flowers are covered with stingers behind them, which will hurt ourselves if we are not careful.

At the age of p>2, golden times, who is "a horseshoe disease in the spring breeze, sees all the flowers in Chang 'an in one day", is far ahead of people of other ages in energy, time and mind. As long as the goal can be reasonably determined, he may achieve great success. However, it is worth mentioning that young people's limited social experience will inevitably be fascinated by many temptations and eventually lead to blind obedience. Blind obedience is a road without definite views and goals, which is not beneficial to life. In the end, an already excellent young man will lack creativity, and then he will stay away from success and become an ordinary person. Let's talk about the pitfalls that young people will encounter in their life:

First, make money early

"Money is not everything, but you can't do anything without it." Facing the glitz and bustle in society, young people want to enjoy it and feel the infinite superiority brought by rich material life. For this reason, some young people think that they should leave the campus early and exercise in the society, so that they can earn money without spending money at school and relieve a lot of pressure for their parents.

But they have never thought that in the rapidly developing modern society, without knowledge, they are equivalent to being illiterate. People with low academic qualifications always run into a wall everywhere, while those with high academic qualifications can find satisfactory jobs. For example, education is equivalent to a sword. Only holding a sword can cut through the thorns on the road to success, but people with bare hands will always be stabbed all over.

Second, marry a wife

Everyone wants to marry a wife, and everyone loves beautiful women, but not everyone has the fate to marry a wife. There is a popular saying on the Internet called "Don't marry a beautiful girl if you are poor, ask Wu Dalang if you don't believe me", and its essential meaning is the matching degree between people. On the other hand, beautiful appearance is not everything. The ancients once said, "If you marry a wife, you don't marry your appearance." If you marry a good daughter-in-law, you will be prosperous for three generations, and you will benefit the elderly in the world. If you marry a husband and wife, you will be able to educate your children in the future. Besides, looks will grow old and fade with the passage of time, which is ultimately a treasure that cannot be retained. Only good moral character is the eternal truth.

Third, follow the crowd

The problem of young people following the crowd is very serious, especially in the absence of guidance, young people can't set their expected goals correctly, so they can only muddle along. Some people see their friends and classmates go to work, so they go to work with them. As everyone knows, the job they are engaged in is not suitable for them. Over time, not only do you get into an embarrassing situation, but you are more likely to wear away your passion and fighting spirit, and finally you can only get worse and worse and be eliminated by society.

Fourth, it is worse than depravity.

Facing the temptation of society, some young people will inevitably take a wrong path, thus following the bad guys. It is not easy to be a good person, but it is very easy to be a bad person. The speed of degradation is terrible, and it may even fall into the abyss of crime and eventually become a prisoner in prison. Therefore, young people must grasp the direction of life, and must not be influenced by the environment to fall with others, otherwise it will be too late to regret.

5. Compared with enjoyment

Everyone likes enjoyment. Enjoyability and struggle are dialectical unity. The goal of struggle is enjoyment, and the basis of enjoyment is struggle. Only by unremitting struggle can we be entitled to enjoyment. Throughout the ages, monarchs of many dynasties valued enjoyment, but all of them perished because of it. From this point of view, young people must be down-to-earth, work hard and be practical, and never fall into the trap of enjoyment.

As a young man, we should always be vigilant, stay away from the five traps in life, and remember our mission in life, so as to reach the peak of life and achieve our own glory.

Wen Xiu Cai, editor-in-chief of Wenlan Hairun Studio, written by: contributing history writer: Changshan Zhao Zichong.