Learn these two tricks, expose emotional scams and become a wise man in love.

The worst deception in the world is emotional deception.

You will be sad if you are cheated, but you can report the lost money to the police and earn it back.

When your feelings are cheated, you will feel heartbroken and the inner wounds will be difficult to heal. Some people, even with emotional injury for a lifetime.

Liang Jie is an elite woman in the financial industry. She thought she would live alone. Because of their high income and strong ability, most men who value them have married. I will never let go of my moral bottom line to contact a married man.

Liang Jie doesn't want to make do with people who are less qualified than himself.

Suddenly, Dr. Gao appeared in the new world. Because of the financial industry, Liang Jie needs to synchronize data with the United States, and often analyzes cases with peers late at night. As time went on, Liang Jie suffered from migraine.

Dr. Gao received several visits. Dr. Gao's professional attitude and caring tone make my heart ache.

In this way, like most sweet love, Liang Jie fell in love. Financial woman+doctor man, this combination is very suitable in the eyes of family and friends.

The two also entered the marriage with the blessing of everyone. Shortly after the marriage, Liang Jie got pregnant successfully. For the health of herself and her children, Liang Jie quit her well-paid job and gave birth at home.

Slowly, Liang Jie felt that her husband's patience no longer belonged to her; He often chats and makes phone calls on WeChat at home, but he always avoids Liang Jie.

Liang Jie felt a little worried. As soon as she closes her eyes, she will guess who she is contacting at the other end of her husband's mobile phone.

Because of pregnancy and overthinking, Liang Jie slipped into the bathroom in a trance while taking a shower. The nanny made an emergency call in panic and took Liang Jie to the hospital.

It happens to be the hospital where my husband works. While in hospital, Liang Jie also went to her husband's department several times. But every time my husband sent Liang Jie back to the ward on the grounds of not disturbing his work.

Liang Jie is keenly aware that other colleagues in her husband's department regard her with special respect. Finally, one day, Liang Jie received a short message on his mobile phone: "I am your husband's colleague and his lover. You happened to be in the middle of our cold war. Now it's time, it's my turn to find my love. "

Love rat's identification skills 1: measuring his sincerity from the answers of "yes" and "no"

Did Liang Jie's husband cheat in his marriage? Or, after marriage, is he still thinking about his colleague (ex-girlfriend)?

After being angered by her rival in love, Liang Jie will definitely take this message to ask her husband the answer.

Then, if the husband is determined to protect the family, he will give a positive answer to this question. Like "I can't be with her".

However, if the husband is obsessed with his ex-girlfriend, it may shake the stability of Liang Jie's marriage, and the husband will be noncommittal on this issue.

Love rat usually chooses "evasive" or "noncommittal" ways to deal with women's questions.

Woman: "Do you still love your ex-girlfriend?"

Love rat: "What are you talking about? I think you are too idle and think too much. " This is an evasive question.

Love rat: "Whatever you think!" This is noncommittal. Because love rat heart, haven't made a clear choice.

Love rat Recognition Technique 2: Bypass the emotional trap and follow the information clues.

Women's intuition is very accurate, because women are born to know how to recognize nonverbal information better than men. This is a gender advantage. Women's emotions are delicate, and it is easy to find the abnormality of their partners.

Just as Liang Jie feels that her husband is no longer patient with herself, Liang Jie will ask some abnormal questions: "Are you so busy on WeChat? Is it something at work? "

Husband: "Hmm".

Liang Jie: "What is it?"

Husband is impatient: "professional things, you don't understand."

Liang Jie continued to ask, "Tell me about it. I also graduated with a high degree of education and understood it as soon as I heard it. "

Husband: "Are you bored? I told you, this is work. Don't say it again! "

Liang Jie said angrily, "I think you are very abnormal now and you are getting impatient with me!" " Is this your attitude towards your wife and pregnant women? "

Husband: "I think your temper becomes very strange after pregnancy." Stop it! "

At this time, it can be seen that the mood of both husband and wife has become a little nervous.

The topic changed from "What did the husband say on WeChat" to "Liang Jie's temper became eccentric after pregnancy", which meant that the conversation between husband and wife fell into an emotional trap.

To find the answer, Liang Jie should control his emotions and return to the content of WeChat. In this way, we can see each other's reaction and make judgments without losing control of our emotions.