Girls are not feeling well in the middle of the night and send me messages?

1. The pursuit of girls was rejected, and girls sent text messages for help in the middle of the night, indicating that girls have trusted boys, and boys and girls have established a trust relationship. Boys can wait for opportunities, and girls may change their minds.

2. The cornerstones of a boy falling in love with a girl are: self-confidence, security and action. Girls send text messages for help in the middle of the night, which shows that girls have trusted boys and these cornerstones have been established between boys and girls.

3. Boys can further provide girls with confidence and security through actions, mainly in the following ways.

(1) beliefs and values

Many people's beliefs are the result of projection. For example, a boy looking for a girlfriend will find a girl who looks like his mother, and a girl looking for a boyfriend will find a boy who looks like his father.

People's likes and desires are hidden in the subconscious, and the beliefs that boys show through actions are the result of projection.

(2) Impressionization and labeling

Actions can reflect a person's value (label) and give people an impression.

(3) Self-psychological construction

If you are not good to yourself and feel that you have many problems, you will observe others and only see their shortcomings. You are dissatisfied with anyone and full of aggression.

People who often criticize themselves will also criticize others.

The projection effect will reflect a person's real needs, but the essence of attracting otherness is to find the needs of others and let them find their own psychological projection from you. This process requires diligent discovery. Therefore, if you want to attract others, you must first solve their concerns and give them a sense of security.

Boys can wait for opportunities, and girls may change their minds. Confession is just a process. There may be this process, or it may be skipped. As long as boys and girls recognize each other's value, it is a smooth process.