In the social environment of China, can girls leave the system?

That depends on what kind of girl she is.

For ordinary girls, leaving the system is not a cost-effective decision.

Let's put aside girls' affairs and talk about Kao Gong. In my impression, the matter of taking the exam for the public has experienced a fiery, dull and fiery process, which respectively corresponds to the high social status at the beginning, the financial constraints under the rapid economic development and the current comprehensive consideration. Think about this process carefully. Is it a bit like a child sticking to his parents since childhood, aiming in all directions when he grows up, and finally feeling that his home is the best? In fact, the popularity of social examinations is beyond imagination, and it is not uncommon for hundreds of people to compete for a position. As we all know, it is still a bit difficult to make a fortune in this business. Why are you still rushing? Can't you say that you all love being an official? In fact, most people can't be officials, and finally many people retire at the department level, especially at the county level and departments at the same level. Judging from people's spontaneous choice, compared with other businesses, this business is the optimal solution under comprehensive consideration.

You said that this business makes more money, but not much. You said that there is a big room for promotion, but it is not big. You said that work is leisure, not leisure. But compared with other industries, it has a relatively fair and relaxed working environment, a relatively simple and gentle colleague relationship and a relatively good retirement security. When something happens, the organization will lend a helping hand to solve life difficulties. Simply put, it is equivalent to a big and gentle family within the system. Although not very rich, there are many fewer bad things. The photos and videos taken by various units are like the pictures below. Do you believe it?

Let's talk about the advantages of girls living in this big family. There will be some tolerance and care for girls in the general system, which will make girls take care of their families more, and the office atmosphere and industry atmosphere will be more peaceful. For girls who pursue stability and have little ambition, working in the system has a fairly good local income, matching social status, relatively mild environment and relatively less hard work, which is very rare in the current competitive society. The simplest example is to look at the great advantages of blind date in different places, which is not only a social choice, but also a personal choice.

Of course, it is not good for girls who aim in four directions, but it is bound to be more difficult to aim in four directions. Even if it is finally blocked, the process of struggle is hard. In short, for the average person, it is better not to go or not to go.