How to avoid the embarrassment of elders urging marriage?

We can do this to avoid trouble and embarrassment about the problem of elders urging marriage.

To understand the psychology of parents, they are deeply influenced by traditional culture. They want children and a harmonious family. They want more children. They want to get married because they think they are good to you and want you to live a good life. When you understand the starting point of parents' urging marriage and respect your parents, do you think urging marriage is not as annoying as you think?

Learn to answer correctly. Don't take it too seriously as long as it doesn't involve issues of principle. Just verbally promised parents at home, try not to have conflicts with them. It's rare to go home once, so don't make the atmosphere at home too tense. What should I do after work? If parents find other elders with ordinary relationships to urge marriage, they can respond politely+not participate in the discussion+not refute+end the topic as soon as possible.

Keep smiling, take the initiative to say hello, bring fruit and water, and leave a good impression of hospitality to the elders. Make them embarrassed to criticize you, or use food to block the words that are about to blurt out. After greeting, hide in the corner as soon as possible, because you are not the protagonist in the social circle of middle-aged and elderly people, so don't participate in the conversation, otherwise it will be easy to get a chestnut from the fire. The social circle of middle-aged and elderly people is your parents' home. If you reduce your contact with them, you can avoid conflicts to the greatest extent.

Listen obediently, don't fight or refute, agree with everything the elders say, and let the elders control what they say within two sentences. Take the initiative to chat with elders, ask them about their family affairs, and divert their topic of urging marriage. Just pay attention to three or two sentences, don't say too much, or you'll go back to urging marriage.

Let's toast collectively at the dinner table, invite relatives to eat and drink one by one, and don't leave them time to ask for marriage, and don't let them ask you one by one. In fact, verbal disputes and conflicts with elders are quite boring things. Everyone likes to have a good time together during the New Year in China. The problem of urging marriage is not big, and it does not involve principles. Anyway, I haven't been at home with my parents for a long time. Just deal with it in a short time. Just respect the opinions of your elders and do it correctly.