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The content of my chat with him, he said that he still loves his predecessor, and good people helped me.

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I have known him for eight months. He is 22 and I am 20. He is studying in Anhui and I am abroad. I love him very much, and I always thought he did. I didn't know it wasn't until he came home last week. Back to his school, he never contacted me online again. His mobile phone didn't turn on until yesterday ... Please help me see what he told me last night. Do I still have hope? Thank you, I'll add points. I hope I can go back to see him in the summer vacation, because he doesn't love me after meeting. After a long time, my feelings will fade. I don't want this. Good people help me!

He:

It is on QQ.

Me:

Please don't hide from me

Me:

.......

I-why are you doing this?

Me:

Forget it ... I can't help who you like.

He:

You will be better off without me in the future.

As long as you can hold back this time.

We really don't belong to the same world.

He:

I'm ambivalent, too

Me:

No.

Me:

I cried for a long time today.

Me:

I called for a long time, but you never answered.

He:

I should get off the plane.

I didn't reply to the message, you know, which means I gave it up.

Me:

You have been here for a long time, haven't you?

Wang Xu 00: 13:33

Then I guess I didn't hear you.

asleep

He:

It is on QQ.

Me:

...

He:

I saw something.

Me:

Do you like others?

Me:

Anyway, don't lie to me.

Me:

See what?

He:

Look at your `

Me:

I've been thinking for a long time ... if you don't love me, I'll never love anyone else again.

He:

............

He:

No, no, no, no.

Me:

You don't love me, do you?

Me:

oh

He:

Not ``

Me:

What do you mean?

Me:

You agreed. Anyway, my heart is dying.

He:

I just found out recently that I still love her. You know her, right?

To tell the truth, I also like you and love you very much ... This may be a common problem in Pisces, but it may also be that my feelings and thoughts have gone wrong.

Me:

You love her, don't you?

Me:

I'm leaving.

Me:

thank you

I bless you.

Me:

I don't have your problem, I only love one person.

He:

And you and I really don't belong in the same world.

We grew up in different education and lifestyles.

Me:

Hehe, don't say that.

Me:

So do men.

He:

Stop making excuses.

Me:

Because of you, I won't be a good person, ever.

He:

I'm not for you.

There are so many people for you.

Don't close your heart.

I hope to see your happy life.

My wish in 2007 is to feel guilty for you and make you happy.

He:

...........

Me:

Shall we be ordinary friends?

Me:

I can't do it. I won't love again. Never.

He:

No, you have to love. You can meet someone who can spend your life with you.

Me:

won't.

Me:

You hurt me.

He:

Don't cry anymore. It is time to learn to be strong.

He:

Hmm'

He:

I know I was hurt from the beginning, and I can't extricate myself.

Me:

You have no right to tell me to be strong.

He:

Promise me to find my own happiness.

He:

So I think I hurt two girls in these 20 years.

This is my life's guilt. I will spend my whole life repenting.

He:

Hmm ``````

He:

Will bless

Me:

Since you have always loved her, why did you do this to me?

He:

Maybe I love both, but she's in the front.

Me:

Understand; Understanding

He:

If you had met earlier, maybe so many things wouldn't have happened.

He:

"Really feel guilty."

Me:

It's never too late

Me:

Don’t give me a song and dance!

He:

Know that you don't like the word apology.

Me:

Hmm. How interesting

He:

Maybe this reason is not the reason.

Me:

Are we still friends?

He:

Promise me to find my own happiness.

He:

Maybe I'm not qualified to say that.

Then I got off the plane. I really want to spend my life with him, but it's far from ... us.

Questioner: Anonymous

There were 28 replies.

I think we can calm down for a while before watching it. Distance will weaken our feelings, and if we force ourselves, it will increase their pain. Perhaps time can give the answer, and looking at our current passion later will make both sides think about the future. For your boyfriend, maybe you are too good to make him feel inferior. Communication between the two sides is very important. Pursuing but not demanding, letting go of yourself will make you feel that everything is beautiful.

Respondent: _ 8888- New to Jianghu Level 2 1- 10 17:43

You can live without anyone. It's really hopeless Let's go

Respondent: liyuansheng 1 17- probation level 11-kloc-0/017: 44.

You must still have a chance, because he must have loved you and believed that he could.

Respondent: Feng-probationary period level 11-1kloc-0/7: 46.

Feelings can't be controlled Everyone can like many people, but there can only be one true love. His words are clear. He wants you to find your happiness and prove that he doesn't love you. Be strong. There is no right or wrong feeling, and there is no freedom.

When love is a thing of the past, be free and easy, relax, and leave your smile to the person who hurts you the most. Smart people know that they want to be happy. The beginning of one relationship is the end of another, so get up the courage to find it. Wish you all the best.

Interviewee: Bing Yudian-Manager Level 41-1kloc-0/7: 46.

Bitch. Ignore her, love yourself, you can be wonderful without her!

Interviewee: Unknown future-Assistant II1-1kloc-0/7: 47.

Be a man, be friends first!

Respondent: winger rock- gatekeeper level 3 1- 10 17:47.

How much do you love him?

Do we have to be together forever?

My feeling: this is a contradictory and indecisive man.

You are only 20 years old. Don't indulge in such useless feelings.

Let's go out.

Responder: Su Chenxiao-Magic Apprentice Level 1 1- 10 17:49.

I think he is sincere.

If he is a serious person, I think your understanding is a kind of beauty.

Of course, losing his predecessor was his own choice. Since he is so serious about replacing you and love, don't give him so much sense of responsibility and guilt about love. I wish him happiness and make good friends with him. Your beautiful meeting will be more important ...! Meet the right person at the wrong time.

Respondent: 4 15593086- probationary period level 11-10/7: 50.

Perhaps in the silent age, we should not fall into the river of love too far away.

What do you like about him? He hurt you, and you still love him? He doesn't want to hurt you or pursue his unrealistic love and life. Without common language, love is empty and blind.

You just love him, loved him before, loved the memories of being with him, and now he is not the one you love.

He has changed, made a choice, and chose to let you go, giving you more choices and more freedom, although this is not what you want. But he really doesn't think he will be happy with you. You are no longer the only one in his heart. He has new feelings and choices.

He can't give up that feeling for you. Maybe he just chose that feeling for you to have a better home. He has made his choice and decision. Unrequited love is hard to be happy. You shouldn't seal off your feelings. It is emotional, unwise and unworthy not to accept others' love for him. You get nothing but comfort yourself, and the loss outweighs the gain.

If you give him up bravely, it doesn't prove that you are unfaithful to love, but that you have realized love.

This feeling is the heaviest and highest in your heart? Never forget?

Theoretically speaking, a woman's love is single-minded and not lasting. When she loves someone, she will be single-minded, and there is no room for others in her heart. When this love fades and another love comes, she will put her first love in the corner or even disappear completely.

Let yourself do something, don't forget him, time will help you forget him naturally, open your heart, summon up courage and come on!

Happiness is asking for it!

Respondent: reggie cn- Qian Zongsi 1- 10 17:53.

Leaving him is not necessarily a bad thing. Things with strong feelings are naturally the best.

Respondent: rose kid _ 2006 54 38+0- Apprentice Magician Level 31-1kloc-0/7: 54.

If I know that sadness is always inevitable, why are you so enthusiastic about it? ...

Let go when it's time to let go. A temporary indulgence will make it very painful.

But the pain is short-lived, at least compared with you

Respondents: ntlove 52 1 you-juren level 41-1kloc-0/7: 56.

Don't let yourself suffer for too long. Maybe you're too serious.

Maybe he's too confused. Feelings are like this.

Once you don't like each other, you will become very rude.

Come on, you have suffered a lot.

This is the helplessness of being a woman, which is given to you by a man.

However, it is far less than the harm he has caused you.

The last love for you is ... let go of your hand.

Answer: Little Tea Story-Magician Level 41-1kloc-0/7: 58

Read your dialogue.

My feeling as a man is that he really doesn't want to be with you. Is this the reason?

If what he said is true, it means that your love and world outlook are different and there is no basis for being together.

If what he said is completely untrue, it means that what he said is an excuse to break up.

If he tells a white lie, he may think that you can't be together in the future.

Then this love is meaningless.

So many reasons. Do you think you can still be together? This is not to dampen your consciousness.

I just hope you can relieve the pain!

Perhaps "forgetting" is the best solution

Perhaps "time" is the best way to bring "forgetting"

There are so many reasons to break up, but we still have to pursue the love we want persistently.

Please "think twice before you act"

Someone who can break up with you What did he exchange for your love?

If you still want to pursue it, good luck! !

Answer: Don't forget the forest-trainee magician level 2 1- 10 17:58.

Don't waste time, you're finished.

Responder: benkick- trainee magician level 3 1- 10 18:00.

Friend ... I don't know what to say. Actually, I want to advise you to let go ... really. This is the feeling. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. Why did you fall into a tree and die? Feelings can't be forced ... the more you try to catch him, the more he will run away ... Maybe he is looking for a substitute when he looks for you ... But on the other hand, since he can stay with you for eight months, it proves that he has feelings for you ... Without his pity, even if he comes back to you, it's not out of love for you. On the contrary, he will miss his ex-girlfriend more ... If you still love him, let him go ... because he thinks you can't give him happiness ... then let him find happiness ... maybe he will come back to you when you are quiet ... The most important thing now is that you don't pester him. This is just my personal opinion. I don't need his sympathy ... relax. Even if you are a friend, no one will be happy if you barely fall in love ... Let alone a lifetime, it is pain ... I believe that if he really loves you, he will come back to you ... Letting go does not mean giving up. A short separation does not mean a permanent separation ... Pray for you. ...

Respondents: "ぁbaby Belief"-Assistant Level 31-1018: 01.

I think you can leave him.

Because although his words seem a little hesitant, they are actually firm, and he won't be with you. And he has someone else in mind, even if you are together, you will often be unhappy.

Interviewee: Emma Wu 12 14- Assistant II 1- 10 18:06.

Alas, ask what love is in the world!

Interviewee: annddy 19- Apprentice Magician Level 31-10/8: 07.

I have an example exactly like yours, two people from different backgrounds.

That boy and I are good friends. He was born in an ordinary environment, but a girl from a good family loved him, but he ignored her.

I don't know what will happen if this goes on, but I think persistence will always pay off, get the happiness I want, and learn to be strong while living. ...

Respondent: You o you-probationary period level 1 1- 10 18:09.

He doesn't even like you. It's no use pestering you again. Unless the girl he likes doesn't like him, it's still possible for you … but it's hard to say that someone who can love two girls at the same time won't like three or more at the same time! ~

Defendant: Sungrass-probationary period level 11-1kloc-0/8:10.

I really want to hear the story between you, transnational love, a little cowboy and weaver girl! Ha ha! I can see that men like the original one. After all, you are far away, and it may be difficult to meet! +QQ:87855622 Tell me the story between you! How did it start ... and how did it end!

Interviewee: was 25- manager level 51-1018: 30.

Although it is useless, I really want to say that time can dilute everything. If you think about something that you can't get over for a long time now, you will feel naive. Why can't you get stuck in the alley? I have to meet so many people in my life. Why should I stop trusting people because of him? If he comes back now and says he wants to be with you again, what is your decision? Together, you should always worry about whether he will leave again. He is reluctant to be with you, feeling wronged and giving in. He will only think that the previous woman is better, and what he can't get is the best after all, so both of them are miserable. Now, if they are happy, it is because of you; If you are unhappy, you should bear the pain of that charming woman, and you should thank her-

Respondent: Lost 99- first grade of probation1-1018: 31.

Let me analyze it. He must be the first person you love. Feelings cannot fall behind. Lagging behind is failure. You are the second person he loves. Everyone is so important to themselves for the first time. You love him so much now because he is your first love. On the other hand; He also had his first love. It's a pity that his first love is not you, and he also hopes to blossom with his first love. If you want to maintain your relationship, you should get along more. It is absolutely impossible to separate the two places. You have to make him think that you are the best for him. During your separation, he may have something to do with his first love. Men are not very reliable. If you want him back, listen to me. Don't back down. Find a chance to have fun with him, pay attention to details, be sure to dress up beautifully and dress sexy when you are with him, and don't treat him as a boyfriend when you play with him. Think of him as an ordinary friend. You must be very happy. At that time, I thought he would approach you voluntarily. Don't give him your virginity easily! Be a smart woman. Make him feel wrong, don't say no to love easily.

Respondent: Lenovo Master-probationary level 1 1- 10 18:36.

Personally, I don't think you have a chance. After all, the perfect match is in line with China's national conditions. You are an international student and he is a domestic college student. Of course, he will feel inferior. You will get married in the future, and I believe that your ability is definitely above him. Then he will become "tracheitis" in the social circle. After reading your conversation with him, I think that just because he is indifferent to your pleading doesn't mean that he doesn't have feelings for you. It can only show that this society does not accept this order. If I were him, I wouldn't dare to climb this tall branch. After all, as a man, I want to have my own career and a dependent lover. I still advise you not to continue this impossible love. I also believe that after a while, you will get back on your feet and continue your present life.

Respondent: zero 3 160- first grade of probation1-1kloc-0/8: 45.

You still have a chance. He still loves you!

Answer: Fantasy in the Black Forest-Magic Apprentice Level 1 1- 10 18:53

The most important thing is to love yourself. Looking back at you now in a while, you will regret it. There are many good men, maybe he is not the one you will spend your whole life with.

Respondent: fish order Feng Qing-assistant level 31-10/9:14.

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