Skills of sending text messages to girls

Skills of sending text messages to girls

Texting skills with girls, in today's era, texting is a normal way to develop friendship, and may even make this relationship blossom and bear fruit. But some boys don't know how to send text messages to girls. Let's share the skills of sending text messages to girls!

Skills of texting with girls 1 How to text with girls In the process of interacting with girls' text messages, you should encounter some common problems, such as:

1. How to send the first text message after meeting a girl?

2. What should girls do if they are slow to respond?

3. If you invite a girl by SMS?

4. How do girls respond when they ask "What are you doing?"?

In view of these common problems, we summarized what these problems represent and how to deal with them correctly.

How to send the first text message after receiving the number directly?

A: If you receive a girl's number through a direct opening in the street and send her a text message for the first time, the content of your text message is mainly transitional, so don't send too much other content.

This message should first play the role of a wife, that is, rationalize your conversation, and then move on to the next topic, that is, forget the girl's heart first.

Under normal circumstances, if I chat well, then the sense of harmony will be better, and the subsequent interaction will be easier to continue;

If the sense of harmony is not done well, then in the first message, we mainly pave the way for the sense of harmony, so that everyone feels that this is reasonable, and then we can make a transition through one or two topic points or curiosity points.

Examples of common answers:

1, hello, I just got home, and then I thought of you. Didn't I scare you today?

2. Hello, actually, I just forgot to tell you that there is a bright spot in you that attracts me.

3. This is (your name). I'm glad I made the right decision. By the way, has anyone ever told you that you are strange?

How to start the second round of SMS interaction?

A: If you send a message to her after two or three days of text message interaction with her, it will definitely be something she will reply to.

For example, "You'll never guess where I am", such short messages can directly boost her curiosity.

Your short message should focus on guiding the topic and guiding her to reply, which is also a very important point in the future short message interaction. The effect is that this short message can stimulate her mood, improve her mood, and then grab her attention through something curious.

Examples of common answers:

1, in,? (According to the response time of the other party, determine the current state of the other party, and then decide the next interaction)

I heard you were thinking about me. . . . . . "Ellipsis can be filled in at will")

I made three biggest discoveries when I traveled. Looks like we'll add another one today. Unexpectedly, there is such a place in Chongqing.

4. I have something to do here, so I can't see you until later (send the wrong message and cut to the subject for pre-selection)

5, beef noodles, you have eaten, but you will never think how awesome this beef noodles are.

How to invite girls by SMS

A: In most cases, we can't invite girls directly. What we need to do is to raise her interest and pave the way for a date.

For example, a potential invitation, if you have fully enhanced a girl's curiosity in a short message before, her obedience will increase, and we can talk about a screening topic at an appropriate time.

For example, "By the way, can you cook?" If she says yes, then you can show your cooking. You can say, "Actually, I like the feeling of cooking together. They know each other well and can taste the special dishes they created.

This feeling will be romantic and comfortable. "Under normal circumstances, she will agree. If she agrees, you can say, "but I'm busy these days, or I'll invite you over to cook together these days."

Well, if I have a chance in the future, I'll try your cooking, too. Will others be okay if they eat it? ".

After this preparation, a few days later, when she sends a text message to contact you actively, that time is the invitation point, as long as that time is two hours earlier than eating.

For example, our normal dinner is 6 o'clock, and she sends you a text message after 3 o'clock. At this time, she is actually waiting for you to invite her. Under reasonable circumstances, you should play a joke on her first, then say that you are free today, and then move on to the last invited topic.

In addition to screening invitations, there is another way to show your life, or the characteristics and curiosity in short messages, to pave the way for invitations.

Examples of common bedclothes invitations:

1, I found a good coffee shop here, but it's very busy these days. I'll invite you to sit with me some other time. Very romantic. I've been to so many coffee shops in Chongqing, but none of them can match.

2. Today, when I was playing in Hongyadong with my friends from Beijing, I suddenly found that there was a special kind of wine there. If we are free another day, let's go and sit together. Hey, by the way, I don't know why, but I have a hunch today.

I heard that you asked me out to invite girls tonight, and the other party responded with the correct response of "Let's talk about it then".

A: If you invite a girl, she responds "We'll talk about it then". In this case, many times, you didn't attract her, nor did you pave the way for enough curiosity to make her interested in you. Talking to you is just killing time for her. You can't notice that she is obedient to you.

What you have to do now is to try your best to start from scratch and then enhance her curiosity. About dating, that's later.

If you want to have a high success rate, it doesn't mean that you should desperately forward the phrase "Come out to play tonight" to 1000 people, but try your best to pave the way for curiosity from those dozens of people, so that she can have a sense of curiosity and mystery about you, and then ask her to invite you.

Examples of common answers:

1, OK, I'll contact you later.

Cut off the topic after returning. While she was waiting, it was an investment. Whether it attracts her or not, this process is devoted. Relatively speaking, it is better than not investing. Don't contact her at night unless she calls you or sends her a text message the next day.

Even if she may come out, you should do it, because we can't reward a woman for her bad behavior. What we have to do is to improve her stickiness and improve her obedience.

How to deal with girls' slow reply to text messages

A: Girls are slow to reply to text messages. In fact, this time means that girls' sense of demand is relatively low, while your sense of demand is relatively high. Under normal circumstances, we have several ways to adjust her sense of need.

For example, if she replies to us after 10 minutes, then we will send a short message enough to enhance her curiosity after 15 minutes and ask her to reply to me immediately. At this time, we have the initiative.

Originally, her sense of need was low, but later we improved her sense of need. This is the so-called change from passive to active, let her form a habit, you can reply to her slowly, but she can't.

Common examples of arousing girls' curiosity:

1, I don't know why, I always think you like me.

By the way, I want to tell you in advance that you can only be in the fifth grade.

In fact, there is one detail that you have done very well. I don't think anyone can notice. If I hadn't happened to see it then, I wouldn't have found it.

How to pave the way for the next round of SMS interaction

A: We send text messages to girls we know. After chatting with her for a while, all we have to do is pave the way for the next conversation.

In this way, we will have a paving process. For example, you can meet a girl on the first day, talk for a while and then talk about what you plan to do in the next few days to impress her.

After laying the groundwork for these contents in the process of chatting, when you want to end the SMS interaction, you can say what you want to do and contact her when you are busy.

At this time, your next chat will be foreshadowed. You can go back to the previous topic directly and connect them together, just like a line, instead of chatting intermittently like most people. It's gone after this chat, then the next time, and then it's gone.

We need to control this message and cut it off at the right time, but we have reason to cut it off. We can continue the last conversation next time, and then continue to the next time.

Common examples of paving the way for the next round of SMS interaction:

1. It's time. I have an appointment with a friend here. Now I have to get ready to go out. I will tell you what it is later. It's already done.

2. It's time. In the evening, my friend invited me to a party. I heard that there is a very interesting program tonight. I must prepare for this. I'll talk to you tomorrow.

I want to tell you a secret about you, but since you are busy, forget it. I have an appointment here, so I'll talk to you later.

Oh, by the way, I'm going to a coffee shop run by a friend and have a chat. I'll send you some photos later, so I won't talk about it now.

How do girls deal with "What are you doing?"

A: If a girl asks, "What are you doing?" The subconscious of this message is "Are you free?" This is an invitation message, but she may invite you to chat or meet, so you just need to reply to her at this time.

what are you going to do？ These things can enhance her interest and give you a chance to let her invite you instead of you.

Common examples of replying to girls' "What are you doing?"

1, I just finished my work here, and I'm going to find a coffee shop with a comfortable environment, listen to music quietly and have a drink. By the way, do you know if there is a coffee shop with a little stronger atmosphere nearby?

I'm thinking of doing something to reward myself!

You will never believe what I am doing!

I don't know why. I really want to do something to treat myself today. I bought some dishes I like to eat, and now I'm going to cook them. You know, I need to concentrate. It's a pity that you didn't have dinner today. Contact me earlier next time. Maybe there will be another chance!

Tips for texting girls II. Chasing girls' short message sentences

1, please be my baby.

2. Is it funny? It's weird not having you around. Will you spend the rest of your life with me?

Anyway, as long as I love you and live safely, I want nothing more.

I promise I won't let anyone hurt you, including myself, believe me! I will give you happiness.

You are my first and last love.

6. You are my last woman.

7. As long as you are always by my side, nothing else matters.

8. I will marry you.

9. When I first met you, my heart was like boiled water with red wine, with a faint excitement. Life without you is like French fries without ketchup. I hope you can understand my heart.

Skills of chasing girls

Meeting is the core.

You just met, full of mystery and attraction to girls. After some simple date preparation, you can boldly propose to meet. The easiest way to judge whether a girl is interested in you is to date.

If it's like asking your aunt to pick you up, there's no need to contact.

2. Contact opportunities

8: 00 to 10: 00 pm is the prime time to chat with girls. At this time, my sister is busy all day, which is the most relaxing stage. Pick up the phone and talk about some relaxing topics, both sides can. Hobbies and hobbies can enhance feelings very well.

3, the topic of chat

At the beginning, you can introduce your life more, so that girls can know more about you and enhance their familiarity. Chatting with a girl can be carried out around the hobbies of her circle of friends, for example, seeing that your circle of friends is full of ice cream desserts, just like you are a snack.