Do you need to chat every day to chase girls?

The principle of chat frequency is based on the friendly attitude of girls. Because chasing girls is to promote relationships, such as invitations and flirting. , all need each other's friendly attitude as the basis. You can talk every day or once every two or three days. What kind of frequency is appropriate? You should find a balance from the feelings of girls, rather than mechanically implementing the standards told by an emotional expert.

2. Chat frequency is dynamic.

Chasing girls can be understood as an active social interaction, which probably requires-> going through these six stages: strangeness->; Friends-> familiarity > ambiguity-> intimacy-> privacy and personal.

When you are unfamiliar and unattractive at first, you need to start chatting actively, but too frequent contact can easily make people bored and lose their friendly attitude.

Later, when you become more familiar and attractive, you can appropriately increase the frequency of chatting. At this time, if girls have a good impression on you, they will gradually become active.

3. The difference between active and kneeling.

We often say that we should take the initiative to chase girls, and we also say that we should not please and kneel down. So what is the line between initiative and flattery?

In fact, it should be distinguished according to the feedback from girls.

Take chat as an example:

If a girl replies to your message in time, with a large amount of information and delicate feelings, and is willing to take up your topic, or take the initiative to find a topic to chat with you, it shows that she is interested in you and has a good impression. At this time, we should actively promote relations.

On the contrary, if a girl talks with you for a long time before returning your message, and her attitude is indifferent, most of her messages are single words, or she will take a shower without talking for a few words, which shows that the girl's interest index is low, and then you kneel on your own initiative.