What dating software is the best?

The most commonly used chat and dating software are WeChat and Momo.

Friends and colleagues will use WeChat, usually only after they already know the other party. The circle of friends is suitable for displaying self-worth.

You can build a sense of connection with girls. For example, if you send a photo of a trip, if a girl has been to that place, she will naturally have a sense of connection with you.

Moments can also improve girls’ trust in you, because it shows your daily life and makes you feel more close.

WeChat voice chat can also be a good way to increase your familiarity.

The app Momo is a good way to quickly meet strange girls. It has a photo wall that can hold 8 pictures. You can attract girls from multiple angles, because girls can tell by looking at your photos. No matter what kind of person you are, you can show your charm through photos.

I once asked a pretty girl, if a man greets you on Momo, what should he say before you respond to him. She told me that she wouldn’t particularly care what the guy posted, she would only look at his profile picture and pictures to see if he was handsome or not.

Therefore, Momo also needs to establish a good first impression.

There are six major factors that affect the success or failure of dating on Momo:

The first factor: the girl’s current status, whether she is lovelorn, whether she is bored, whether she is sad, whether she is It just depends on where it hangs; we cannot change this factor.

So we are mainly concerned with the next 6 factors.

The second factor: Momo’s avatar. If your avatar is terrible and a girl has no interest in it, then she won’t even look at you and will delete it directly.

It is recommended that you use a positive profile picture, be happy and confident.

The third factor: Momo’s photo wall. It shows your worth and girls can find some sense of connection in it. The content of the display includes life display, such as where you have traveled, or if you like some extreme sports (such as bungee jumping, rock climbing), you put these photos up to show your life;

Value Display: For example, you can take a photo with your car or villa, which can instantly reflect your value. You can also take photos in high-end restaurants and bars for display.

Mood display: Your happy photos, or embarrassing photos, are better taken secretly by friends. For example, if you grab something to eat with your friends in a high-end restaurant, and then suddenly find that your friends secretly photographed you, then this Class photos will appear more realistic.

Of the above three types of photos, put a few of each type, don’t put all of the same type.

There are some things you need to pay attention to in Momo’s photo wall. You can put 8 photos on the photo wall, but we usually only put 6-7 photos. Leave a little space, because putting it full will make people feel a bit excessive. ;

Secondly, don’t post photos with poor backgrounds, such as untidy dormitories, toilets, or photos of just waking up. Photos that are too blurry will not work, because others will I feel that the pixels of your mobile phone or camera are too low, which is not conducive to building a positive image.

The fourth factor: Momo’s name should be chosen by a wide audience. Don’t use some non-mainstream names that will look strange to others. You can even use your real name, or your English name.

The fifth factor: Momo’s signature.

Two common modes:

One is the display of status: such as writing directly about happiness; the more advanced one is such as not forgetting the original intention and enjoying the moment; choose the appropriate one according to your own level Just sign it, don't pretend to be sophisticated.

The other is the display of value: for example, writing about photography enthusiasts, third-rate magicians, amateur psychological researchers, and professional product managers. Show your hobbies and career in just one sentence.

The sixth factor: Momo’s personal description: Make some consistent supplements to your photos and signatures. For example, if you put travel photos, you can add where you have been.

I suggest that everyone keep their personal descriptions as simple as possible and not write too much, because if you write too much, others will easily find faults.

The most important point is that whether it is a photo or a personal description, it must be real, such as a photo with a car. If you don’t have a car, don’t look for other people’s cars to take photos. This will not be good for you personally. To grow, we hope that everyone will dig out the value from their true selves. If girls are better than you, you must constantly improve yourself and improve your abilities in all aspects. This is the only way to be truly responsible for yourself and girls.

Now, let’s talk about the opening remarks of Momo’s greeting:

After our repeated experiments, we found that when the above factors that leave a first impression are done well, From now on, greetings will be easily responded to.

There are several ways to say hello on Momo:

The first way: just send an emoticon or picture.

For example, send a smiley face, because the girl will look at your photos and information at this time. If she is interested in you, she will reply to you; if she does not reply to you, it means that she is not interested in you. You should change your goal. Because there are so many girls on Momo, you don’t have to worry too much.

The second method: opening in a high-profile manner

Basically, girls can respond, but the requirements for follow-up chat skills are relatively high, such as "Hey, why are you here?" "I "I found you weird" or "Is that you?", you will need to have good adaptability in subsequent chats, and this is not recommended for novices.

The third way: cutting into topic points

Find topics from the target girl’s information. For example, there are good-looking clothes in the girl’s photos, “I think you look good in red clothes.” ", or seeing that she has been to Sanya, "I have been to Sanya too, and the weather is really hot there."

After saying hello, our goal is to receive a phone number and invite you to make an appointment.

The principle is to be direct and decisive, because there are many girls on Momo, and a girl is likely to have many boys chatting with her, so you should not spend too much time.

Step one: Send a smiley face. Usually a girl will reply with a smiley face, or "Hello", or a question mark, or she will reply to you based on your photo information. In short, if she replies to you, it will break the ice.

Step 2: Cut to the topic and comment on her photos and signatures, "I think you are very beautiful in the second photo" "I think you should be a very friendly person" "I I think the hat in your third photo looks very nice.” At this time, girls will usually reply with words like “Thank you”.

Step 3: Display of value, such as "I just came here from Hainan. I am here to travel. When I saw you just now, I thought you were quite friendly, so I came to say hello. You usually like to go there." Where to play?"

The overall structure is that you provide some of your situation or your value points, and then ask the other party a question.

Step 4: Invitation, such as "I think we are quite close. If you have a chance, we can hang out together."

Step 5: If the girl doesn’t agree, don’t worry, just change the target decisively. If the girl is a little hesitant and replies "Let's see", you can say "What's your phone number? We'll contact you then." If the girl doesn't agree, you can send her your number first and then ask her again. Because the main purpose of Momo is to collect calls, don’t spend too much time.

If you really like the other person, but she doesn’t want to give her phone number, you can also ask for her WeChat. WeChat is suitable for long-term communication, so you can send "This is my WeChat, I am very happy." Stop using Momo, let’s chat on WeChat.”

The above five steps are the overall framework of Momo chat. You can also chat more appropriately, but the principle is to be direct and don't beat around the bush. What everyone has to do is to receive the girl's number as soon as possible.

After a girl gives you her number, you send her your name. At this time, the girl will usually reply to you. Just reply "When are you usually free?" If she is willing to give you her number, Usually she will reply to you and tell her when she is free, and you just say "I will call you then." Then if your appointment is two days later, you call or send her a text message a day in advance to establish a sense of connection.

If the message you receive is WeChat, then you need to make a circle of friends on WeChat. After accepting WeChat, it is best not to chat with her on WeChat on the first day to slightly reduce your sense of need. We will tell you how to chat specifically in future programs.

So how do you make a girl interested in you without chatting with her?

This is through the display of Moments.

In fact, the method is similar to the Momo photo wall display. You can learn from the best friends among your friends.

You can also write some diaries in the space and share them with your circle of friends. The diary content should be story-telling, attractive, and relevant to you.

If your WeChat Moments are well done and a girl is interested, she will reply to you, and you can chat with her about what she is interested in. After the chat, you can ask her what When you are free, invite me.

You don’t need to talk a lot, because through the methods we have talked about in these issues, you can receive many girls’ numbers, so if you don’t particularly like the other person, you don’t need to spend too much time chatting, because Your purpose is to invite.

Regularly increase your presence on WeChat. You can post to a circle of friends every few days, or send a group message to dozens or hundreds of girls, such as "I didn't expect there to be such delicious beef noodles here." Use a sharing tone to arouse the girl's curiosity. If she replies to you, you can continue chatting with her.

In short, as long as everyone is willing to take action, I believe you can quickly expand your female resource circle.