Why not delete each other's messages after breaking up?

Have you ever encountered such a situation, that is, when you constantly went through quarrels, cold wars and finally broke up, did he always respond to you with silence and refused to communicate? You sent a lot of messages, but he didn't reply to any of them. In fact, this is the opportunity that the other party gives you. He wants to do it for two main reasons.

First, he still has you in his heart and won't delete you, because he is still looking forward to making up with you one day. You just broke up in name, but in his heart, there was no real break-up. He also wants to pay attention to your circle of friends, your dynamics, and see if you have a good life recently, or if you have a new love.

Second, his mentality is fixed, and he is also struggling. There is a concept in psychology called fixation mentality, which refers to the mentality of having established cognition of things. To put it bluntly, this is the way it is. I think it's square, it's square, you say it's round, I don't agree. Besides, it's hard for you to persuade me to change my mind. Many men are stubborn and have their own framework. Once such a person breaks up with you, no matter whether he still has feelings for you or not, he won't show it, because when you break up, you will have a negative inherent impression in his heart, and he will struggle in his heart, that is to say, he can't let go of this relationship and resist those negative emotions. His behavior is that he will not delete your contact information. I won't reply to you too much, because when you two broke up, those bad experiences were deeply imprinted in his mind. Let this man take the initiative to contact you and eliminate his stereotype is the key.