Mature men don’t reply to breakup

1. If you have never loved before, it doesn’t matter if you break up. On the road of love, true love happens in the season of youth. A mature man has experienced a lot and seen a lot, so he has long since Without love, there is no love; no matter who a man is with, he can never truly love a woman; no matter how much a woman loves him, it doesn't matter to him; if a man doesn't love a woman, he won't cherish her when they are together. , when they broke up, he didn't care at all; he wouldn't feel any pain or pain. As a woman, if you send a breakup message to a mature man and he doesn’t reply, that’s acquiescence; because a mature man has never loved you when he’s been with you, so if you break up, he doesn’t care at all; he never does. He has cared about you, so he will not feel pain or hurt; if you want to break up, you can break up, if you want to stay, you can stay; in his heart, he has long seen through love, and has long since seen through love; so he has never seen through love at all. It doesn't matter, and he doesn't think he cares; so in his heart, he doesn't want to reply to you at all. 2. Not replying to break up expresses a kind of disdain. On the road of love, it is difficult for a mature man to love a woman with his heart; because he has experienced too much, he has long since given up on love; in the heart of a man , women are dispensable; when two people are together, he will not cherish her; when two people are separated, he will not feel pain; no matter what the woman does to him? He thinks it doesn't matter. When a woman breaks up with him, he doesn't even want to waste time replying to her. This is a kind of contempt for women and expresses disdain. As a woman, if you send a breakup message to a mature man and he doesn’t reply, that’s acquiescence; because a man has never really loved you when he’s been with you; therefore, all your actions will be ignored by men; In his heart, you are worthless at all; so he will not take any of your actions or actions seriously; if he does not reply to your message, he feels that you are not important at all; he has acquiesced in being with you. broke up and expressed a disdainful attitude. 3. From the beginning to the end, he is just playing with you. On the road of love, a mature man, no matter he is with any woman, he will never treat the woman sincerely; because in his heart, he has long looked down on love. So when he is with a woman, he just wants to possess her and play with her; for him, a woman is a day if he can play with her, and a year if he can play with a woman; he doesn't think it matters at all, and he doesn't care; women want to play with her. , he will definitely accompany her; if a woman wants to leave, he will never keep her. As a woman, if you send a breakup message to a mature man and he doesn’t reply to you, that’s acquiescence; because he has been playing with you from beginning to end, so he has never cared about you; if you want to leave, just leave. It doesn't matter if you want to keep him; in his heart, he has long been tired of playing with you, so he doesn't care what you do at all; if he doesn't reply to your message, it is an attitude of indifference; he will never care, either. It doesn't matter whether you come back or not, because he didn't think about trying to keep you. Is it a default for a mature man to not reply to breakup? You can be sure that he broke up with you by default; first of all, a mature man, because he has experienced a lot, has long looked down on love and seen through love; he has never been in love, so breaking up does not matter to him at all; secondly, he does not Replying to break up expresses a kind of disdain and contempt for women; in the end, from beginning to end, he is playing with women, so she can leave if she wants, and he will not keep her, so naturally he feels there is no need to reply. Mature men break up without reply 2 The girl is 22 years old, and her boyfriend is ten years older than her. She has opened a small factory, which is considered a small achievement. The two have been together for more than a year, and their relationship has always been very good. When the relationship was good, her boyfriend was also very precious to her. But last time her boyfriend went to a classmate's drinking party without her permission, which led to a quarrel between them. As a result, she broke up angrily. Now her boyfriend has been disconnected from her for more than 20 days. She doesn't reply to text messages or answer phone calls. This makes her very distressed and doesn't know what to do. When she is feeling worried, she seems to have heard about him from an acquaintance. The news that she was getting married made her whole body feel bad.

1. First of all, you think he once loved you, but in fact he is downwardly compatible with you. Some women who are inexperienced or innocent will be very excited when a relationship comes to them. If the man you love happens to have a successful career and is mature and stable, this feeling will be even stronger. Originally, when an innocent woman meets a mature man, it is the most perfect personality match. Because simple women need mature men to rely on to give them a sense of security; and mature men can most easily find a sense of accomplishment from simple women and satisfy their strong desire for protection. Then, men and women in love will do their best to please each other. Men will try their best to cater to each other, while women, even if they are already very well-behaved and sensible, will be afraid that they will not do well and will not meet the perfect image in men's minds, so they will try their best to show their good side. Therefore, most men and women in love become perfectionists, but it is this excessive pursuit of perfection, even paranoia, that makes this relationship so enjoyable. So in love, innocent women often find it very useful and feel that the other person loves them very much, and mature men may also enjoy it. But in fact, the mature man actually controls the whole situation. He is just downwardly compatible with you, but you feel that he really understands you. Therefore, this kind of matching relationship is quite suitable. If you get married together, a very common problem may arise, that is, it is difficult to control innocence and maturity. Emotions are like playing a game of chess. The chess becomes interesting only when it is played against an opponent. There is too much disparity between the superiority and the inferiority. The losing side will lose its armor and armor, and the winning side will no longer be able to arouse the desire to continue the game. This can be regarded as a possible reason for him to leave you. 2. Love can be sensed. Trust your sixth sense. He really doesn’t love you that much. Young women especially like to rely on mature men. What a mature man brings to a woman is comfort at the superficial level, and peace of mind at the deep level. When that mature man suddenly loses contact, in the first few days, you may comfort yourself: It's okay. He must be too busy or encounter some problem. If I keep calling him, I will definitely piss him off. bother. In a few days, you will find that you have lost the confidence to even comfort yourself. You begin to wonder, is he avoiding me on purpose? Does he have another woman? The longer time goes by, the more helpless you will be, and you will become more and more certain that he has betrayed this relationship. "If he still has me in his heart, how can he bear to let me endure such emotional suffering?" When you send a message to When I asked for help, you subconsciously had no choice but to give up, but you just didn't want to admit it yourself and wanted to tell you the answer through me. In fact, you already know this answer. A woman in love is sensitive. This is a woman's self-protection instinct. Her keen sixth sense will allow her to judge the authenticity of a man's feelings, thereby avoiding harm and finding true love. In fact, there is no such thing as tacit understanding. It is nothing more than one party’s investment, which is sensed by the other party, thus causing an emotional roar. Only when a man has feelings for you can you feel it. If a man is ruthless to you and you still have feelings for him, wouldn't that make him a so-called "nymphomaniac"? It is the ideal state of a relationship for both men and women to be truly affectionate, but the problem is that relationships also involve many factors such as interest entanglements, personality matching, multiple choices, etc., so few relationships can be absolutely pure for each other. So if this man breaks off contact with you for no reason, you don’t have to guess. He really doesn’t love you that much. It is very possible that he will abandon you for the greater good. 3. High probability of disconnection Let me tell you a high probability of disconnection. The more successful a man is, the wider his emotional choices will be, and the more temptations he will face; the more mature a man is, the more rational he will be in handling emotions, and the more ruthless he will be when deciding to break up. Letting a helpless and fragile little girl actively choose to give up is a common tactic of these successful men.

Perhaps, the whole mental process of self-comfort - clueless suspicion - losing patience - choosing to give up while pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages, was what the man had planned long ago when he broke off the relationship? As you said, if he really cares about you, how could he bear to make you suffer like this? To put it another way, even if he is really busy with his career, are you so worthless in front of his career? Therefore, the high probability is that, no matter whether the man is busy or not, after being disconnected for so long, he should no longer have you in his heart. Even if there is, it only means that you are already in his heart. Discounted.